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All Posts Information February 09 2009
 — By CJ

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It is with that in mind that I continue. Some people in this Army believe they have more power than they have. Some people think that by virtue of their rank, they can bully those with lesser rank into doing everything they say. Some of these people don’t know me very well.

Last week, I contacted my County Commissioner’s office about a proclamation to declare May 1st as Silver Star Banner Day. This is an effort, started a few years ago by the Silver Star Families of America to honor our wounded warriors. Being an advocate for our injured warriors, I natually jumped on this effort and contacted my representatives. I also asked for the Commissioner’s help in contacting the local cities to issue similar proclamations.

I followed up my request with an email in which I errantly identified myself as an Army First Sergeant. I did however, make it clear that I do NOT represent the Army or my unit in making the request. I stressed that again when I spoke on the phone with the representative. She asked me if I went through my public affairs office and I replied I had not because I wasn’t doing this as a Soldier, but as a private citizen. Somehow, that very pointed and deliberate phrase didn’t quite translate to our esteemed politicians.

Instead of contacting me about the effort, the morons called the Public Affairs office on my post. They didn’t know what I was doing so forwarded the email to someone who might. It got forwarded again and ended up in the inbox of one of these leaders with nothing better to do than assert their authority. For career and OPSEC purposes, I naturally won’t divulge who this person is or whether he is an officer or NCO. Let’s just say he definitely outranks me!

Today, I got a phone call from the Public Affairs representative to meet at the office of this individual. I gathered up all my information thinking that this individual wanted to know more about the project and how he could help. I couldn’t have been further from the truth.

The very first thing he says to me is, “1SG, why the hell are you going around my Public Affairs and contacting the [commissioner's name deleted] directly?” It wasn’t a nice question and wasn’t meant to be answered. It was more rhetorical since when I tried to answer I was cut off. The next 20 minutes was pure confrontation. In no uncertain terms, I was point blank told that I was NOT to contact neither the mayor’s office nor the commissioner’s office. There are people on post spoke with these people and I was not among them.

I tried numerous times to explain that there was a misunderstanding, but poor leadership took over. Instead of simply asking what happened and allowing me to tell my story, he continued to cut me off and assumed my motivation. At one point, he asked me why I was involved with the organization. I told him I had been injured in Iraq and had a soft spot for our wounded warriors. When I explained that I had denied my Purple Heart in theater, he proceeded to denigrate that.

Good leaders listen as much as they speak. When I tried to explain what I was doing, I was cut and told to give a short version. When I tried to give the short version, I was cut off and told that I’m an active duty Soldier and everything I do I do as a representative of the Army (not necessarily in those words). Basically, because I was an active duty Soldier, I couldn’t just go willy-nilly contacting County Commissioners and Mayors without informing people with inflated egos.

Since my entire command knows that I write here, I know that this post could very be read by anyone in my chain of command as well as certain individuals with inflated egos. Let me make something perfectly clear – I will continue to contact my elected officials as I see fit. I will take greater care to ensure that I do so as a citizen and not as a representative of the Army, but I will continue to contact them. I am NOT required to go through ANYONE in my capacity as a citizen of this county or city unless that contact is of an official, military nature.

I realize that I could very well find myself in a tough place, but since I wasn’t afforded the opportunity to defend my position in person, I am forced to defend it here. I did NOT sign away my rights and privacy when I joined the Army. I did not sign away my rights and privacy when I volunteered to become a First Sergeant. I was forced to agree that I would not contact these officials because I was unable to defend myself. Being forced to agree into a contract makes that contract null and void. I hereby declare that my agreement not to contact these officials is null and void because I was obviously not permitted to explain my rights in such a contentious environment.

I made the mistake of sending the email via my .mil email address, so I have corrected that and resent my proclamation request with my civilian account from my home. I made clear that I do NOT represent the Army or any military organization. My worry now is that people’s inflated egos have jeopardized the possibility of this happening now. Now, instead of issuing a simple proclamation, the Army bureaucracy has gotten involved.

So, I want to thank those involved who let their rank get in the way of noble effort to simply get our city and county to recognize the contributions of our nation’s war wounded. You almost succeeded in destroying a patriot’s motivation to do something in honor of our nation’s wounded warriors. Almost!

(14) Readers Comments

  1. I can’t believe that a) some states STILL do not recognise May 1st as Silver Star Day and

    b) that ANYBODY in the military – wounded or not – would not want to get involved to see this proclamation happen in EVERY state!

    But what do I know?

    CARRY ON, CJ!!!

  2. cj:

    I am with you 100% on this one!

  3. I’m with Brat..can’t imagine anyone wanting to stand in the way of this proclamation happening in every state. Keep trudging forth CJ. You make a difference.

  4. Recommend you consult a JAG, just to make sure you know exactly where the boundaries are so that you can tiptoe along them and defend yourself when thoes cuddly little PAO guys attack. Just sayin…

    • Blue, the Public Affairs rep was there with me and agreed that I am right. The problem is that the individual I was on the carpet in front of wouldn’t let us talk.

  5. Give’m hell cj!

  6. That’s what an inflated ego gets a person. This individual came off looking like an *ss, which they probably are. Ego is probably the only reason I can think of why he would not want you to proceed with the project! Keep up the good work, CJ!

  7. Just to lighten the mood, did you see that “Dining In” story at Ranger Up the other day? Somehow, it applies… ;-)

  8. CJ,
    I am so sorry that all of this has happened. Here you were trying to help us out and you land yourself in this mess. Sometimes I have to agree with an old saying that I really hate: ‘No good deed goes unpunished!’
    As a wounded warrior mother I want to personally thank you for your continued support and help in this effort and so very many more for my son and all the other sons and daughters who have been wounded serving their country.
    Unfortunately it is people exactly like the one you had to deal with that kept my son from making the Marine Corps a career. It is a shame that we have to have the barrel contaminated by so many bad apples!
    Again, thank you so much for all that you do. I consider getting to know you more each day an absolute blessing and priveledge!

  9. CJ – As a Wounded Warrior sister, I am VERY thankful for everything you are doing to get May 1st declared in your town. Don’t let this person stop you. I’m sure this “higher up” has probably never been injured in the line of duty; therefore he doesn’t understand the impact it has on the lives of the injured hero and their family. Please, continue to keep pressing forward and know Wounded Warrior Families will always be right beside you!!! Again, Thank You for everything you do!

  10. Hang in there C.J. I do not know why folks think people in the military are not citizens too. Sometimes we give a little authority to someone and it goes to their head. It seems a lot of time the biggest idiots with no brains are in charge. Seems you met one. I think your note should be published in every news paper. On the brighter side, I run into wonderful people every day who help support our military, and give of themselves. Thank god for those folks. Thank you for your service. I think your are awesome. Hugs from a military mom x 2.

  11. C.J.
    I am sorry you had to go thru this! My son is in the Marines and I would not want him to go thru this! Thank YOU for your service to our country and thank you for wanting to do this in your City. I was able to get this proclamation for our City. God Bless you!

  12. what you have done is a wonderful thing, and your support of TAMPA is always appreciated. Not now, but someday you will be rewarded for your kind heart and proud american spirit. Thank you

  13. CJ, God bless you for all that you have done for our country. I truely believe in a phrase I saw on a billboard at my sons bootcamp.
    “HOME OF THE FREE, BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE!”
    Thanks to you and all that have chosen to serve and protect our country!

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