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All Posts Information December 20 2010
 — By CJ

I am inundated daily with emails and comments from people around the world thinking they are being scammed online by people professing to be Soldiers or Marines in a combat zone. I want to reiterate a few points about how to easily determine if the person you are speaking with is a real service member or not.

1) They ask for money, especially through a money service like MoneyGram or Western Union. These are easy, immediate tip-offs.

2) They send you pictures that don’t match the rank and service they tell you they are. I can’t tell you how many times I get emails and comments asking me to look into someone saying they are a Staff Sergeant and wearing Major rank or a supposed Colonel wearing Sergeant Major rank. Educate yourself on military ranks and uniforms and do due diligence before wasting my time with these obvious indicators. You can find US Military ranks here.

3) They tell you that they are assigned to a secret intelligence unit. People really assigned to secret intelligence units won’t say they are assigned to secret intelligence units.

4) Ask them to send you an email from their military email as confirmation. If they send you one, respond to it and ensure they didn’t make it up. You’ll find that most – if not, all – of these emails will come back undeliverable. If they say they can’t give it to you for security reasons, it’s a scam.

5) They need your help with “special leave.” This leave will usually need to be signed by a general officer and will come with additional fees. Military personnel do not need a civilian’s help with processing leave. I’m married and I don’t even need my wife’s help if I want to take leave. It doesn’t cost military personnel a single penny to take leave – EVER!

6) Check the photos. Often time, these scammers are such complete morons, they’ll send multiple pictures of different people and claim to be the same person. If it doesn’t look right, it isn’t.

7) Uses a sob story about being a widower (usually say widow). Most of the photos these guys steal are from married troops and will contain photos with kids or a woman. To explain these images away, they “kill off” the spouse somehow and pull on the heartstrings with sob stories of having to raise children alone. Most obituaries are published online and a simple Google of obituaries will prove this scam. Hearing all these stories, one would think that the most dangerous place in the world isn’t Afghanistan, but it sounds like the truth is America’s roads.

With that said, in addition to the other names I’ve already given on other websites, I want to add a few here that have recently come to my attention. Please keep in mind that the real Soldiers – if, in fact, these names were real – are not the scammers, but criminals using their names and images.

Sgt Shannon Bruce – Claims to be in Kabul. The scammer claims to be 50 and divorced with a daughter. Lives in Colorado Springs. He is, of course, due to retire soon & wants to be with whomever he is speaking to. He’s asked for money for a phone connection & also to come here on “special” leave to see his “lover.”

Cpt Kelvin Mike – Claims to be in Iraq. Obviously not his real name as one of the pics has “Field” on his name badge! He sends photos of different people claiming to be the same person! Claims to live in Neptune City, NJ. Claims to be a widow who’s wife died in a car crash & has a son “Tony” who’s at school in Nigeria. Asked for £300 so he could make Tony’s birthday “very special” as it is the 1st he’s celebrating in Africa. This guy also uses a fake email claiming to be the son, Tony, and will call you “Mum.”

Sigmund Witt – Claims to be in Afghanistan. Is of Austrian parentage, lives in New York, has a 21 year old daughter. Claims his wife died in a car crash taking his dad to hospital.

Staff Sgt Ryan England Wool – Goes by Ryan but has used Russell, Kenneth & George apparently. He also uses a different last name than his photos. He also wears a uniform that the Army hasn’t worn in nearly seven years. Claims to be in Baghdad. Lives in Cinebar, Washington. Wife died in a car crash, has a 17 year old son “Jude”. Asks for £200 for stuff for his son as he was going on holiday to “Ryan’s” brothers in South Africa. He would of course pay the money back when he retires in a few months and is re-locating wherever you may be soon!

Cpt Patrick Burke Smith – Claims to be in Kabul. The photos are actually Aaron Ramos & he’s aware that his pics are being used, they’re all over the net as an internet scammer. Claims to be divorced, no kids. Lives in Colorado Springs. Asked for money for “special leave” so he can spend Christmas with his victim. Claims he has 5 years left to serve before retiring. When asked for current pictures, he claims his computer is broken (while being able to access the internet with it), obviously because the pics in uniform had Ramos across the chest and he was claiming to be Smith!

Col. Robert Wood This is one of the guys I was talking about where you need to verify rank. D.O.B. 10th November 1949 from Gladstone, Michigan. Says he is due to retire in the New Year. Claims to be widowed with a 17 year old son. Asks for money to pay for appendectomy and drugs, after operation in Ghana. His supposed Diplomatic Friend is a Mohammed Hassan.

(627) Readers Comments

  1. I was talking to that guy (very Loose term) ..
    Sgt. Aaron Ramos.. He did try to scammed me but it did not happen.. No money just time..

    Is there anything that can be done about him???

    • CJ, so sorry for wasting your prescious time. But still you were kind enough to post this wonderful message for all to see. You’re absolutely right, about the insignias are abvious; that’s how I was able to detect that I was talking to a scammer. Also, you’re right that they could be criminals -sad part is, they could be in our own backyard (USA). Thanks again for all your help.
      Antonia

    • This person just contacted me yesterday…..and I don’t believe anything ….. so I have started digging….and have found him on facebook…..myspace…..are you interested…. and some other places. I was first tipped because he is out of state…Houston Texas…..then he wanted me to e-mail him…says he doesn’t get on the site much ….well I am sorry but if you don’t get on that site much you probably shouldn’t be on the computer….Wondering if maybe I should play his game…I won’t e-mail him….just through pof…Don’t confuse my kindness for weekness….

    • Hi Linda,
      Good for you he is now going by Sgm Aaron Raymond. And his story has changed but the same guy and pic’s.
      Ladies beware he is a slick work and is also working with someone that goes by Col.Jason Scott.

      • his name is co Lt jonh now… Aaron ramos peterson partner

    • I myself have been talking to aaron ramos but he is going by the name of captain richard david ramos. he is in iraq. age 42, wife died 6 years ago in a car crash and has two daughters jesse 19 and elizabeth 9. the girls are currently in military school. he was also telling me that he lost his military ID and signed a paper saying all his checks go to his account and he has no access to it. he is living in a tent community with only a few solid building. He finally asked me for some money for food, stuff like hostess cakes and stuff but i can not send anything because there is currently no in coming or out going mail. talked to him the other day and he was complaining about being out in the field for a week and only eating snakes and rabbits. he is looking for 200 dollars. I have more pictures of this person than what is on this site. He also gave me a name of a person (female) that i need to send the money to and when i refused to send it money gram or western union i did get some address for this woman.

      • I also was talking with that same guy but he told me he had a son and he also sent me pict of him and the supposed son but he used name RICHARD RAMOS he ried to get me to set it up with that military site they have to be able to talk on phone He didnt ask for money just asked me to get mine and his phone hooked up to it tms or something like that its a army thing for satelite i did look it up ..but i also have about 5 pic of the guy but i just stopped communicating with him as i was communicating with someone else By the name of MST.SGT HENRY DOLAN has anyone heard of him ?.

        • wow same here but sent 150 to talk to paul robert… damn how stuped can i be… all the names i see here aaron go by wow…

        • i have been chatting to jeffery ramos…with a son…fell in love with me after one time chatting to him……

        • Shirley, I have been contacted by Capt. Raymond Ramos…. and his son Jeff Ramos is in Ghana on a pineapple farm….LOL Yes he has used Aaron Ramos photos…. I feel most sorry for the REAL Ramos who is a victim more then us ladies. Be aware ladies this guy is not genuine. I received several photos and the one with the dark glasses and red shirt sitting in the car was definitely the RED FLAG.

        • I am in ireland and have been contacted by raymomd ramos claiming to be in Bagdad say he has a son and that he is capt and is about to retire from the army this was on a dating site in Ireland he hasnt asked for anything but the red flag went up why would a us solider be on an Irish dating site and tell you that he wants to be with you after two emails. so I looked him up and came across your site and the pictures he sent are there too so thank you

        • I think there’s a twist this Henry Dolan of a man because I got in contact with Carmen his daughter but she claimed to be over thirty and actually one thing led to the other and I started sending her money, I sent her about 3000pounds in loan and then she asked for my bank to pay me back, I never knew they needed my account for Money Laundry. I suspected when she first sent a huge 8400pounds and then again sent about 4000pounds for me to send down to Nigeria when all I was asking for was all I was owed, I had to seek counsel from my mom who immediately informed the Police Fraud Department and now the case is being investigated. I was carrying out a research on her when I found her dad’s name on this site, I think this man and his daughter are up to a lot so people please beware.

      • Hi Debbie can i have copies of all pics and info you may have on this guy as he’s at it again but this time going by the name of Paul Williams,widower from Idaho…

        Kind Regards Amanda

    • LOL. I have been talking to both of them…sgm aaron raymond AND aron ramos rolland is the names he is going by to talk to me…whats funny is that he was too wrapped up in scamming game to realize that he was talking to me with BOTH NAMES and even sent me the same pics. I called them both on that…LOL that accused each other as being scammers…Now How funny is that….does anyone know anything about raymond daniel?

      • i dont know whats wrong with this scammers they want to spoil our job for us and female beware of them and ask them for cam ok and my email is sgtstephenbeco@yahoo.com if u have anything to inform me ok bye

    • This guy is now on Facebook and myspace and goes under the name of Mchillary Donnel..
      He sent me an email saying how lonely he was and had looked amy profile on FB….
      If he indeed had, he would have known that I was married….
      Another one is Captn David Mike Phillips..

      • oops forgot this….Id you go inot his profile, you will see he has other so called military friends….they are ALL scammers so please watch out girls

        • has anyone heard of staff sargeant george moose us army……ive been chatting with him 6 MONTHS….what an idiot i am………….he said it was his birthday and gave me an address to send gifts to him via a messenger in louisianna…….and then asked for an iphone….nokia x7……………….he didnt get it….i even told him i had seen him on the scam warners site and gave him the site to check it out……he said he was disgutsed someone could use his name and pics and that he was the genuine george moose……so i kept chatting and then…he asked for his gifts and iphone…so we could be closer and chat more….when asked for him to come on web he said he couldnt for security …when i said the phone would be illegal too he said it would be kept secret and noone would know he would only use it when he got into the town ….he was supposed to be in kabul….anyone else come across him please…………..

      • i been talking to aaron ramos peterson been talking to him fo rall most a yeas now and the military help deck wants me to sent 500 dollars and they have imy ssc id omg how stuped now don’t know what to do omg please i need help with my info they have it omg.i’m really scared now how stuped can i be..

    • just spotted a new one ladies, guys are using catologue pics of men in suits, yup honestly, same old story tho, you get the gist, if the pic looks like a male model in a catologue, it is lol .
      when i confronted the guy he got quite aggressive, don’t know if its part of the same group but another form of scamming i think.
      blocked deleted n reported.
      and post on here or somewhere else to hopefully warn others

    • I have been in contact with a George Ramos claiming to be from Houston Texas and has an email address of georgeramos41@yahoo.com the picture now say its actually a Aaron Ramos

      • i have also been chatting with a george ramos at g.ramos481@yahoo.com. it appears the email is different than the one u were using but he may have changed it he got caught. i have seen several flags go with this chatting. can u tell me more about this man u were chatting with. i have confirmed he is in army in afghanistan, i know that much is true. appreciate any info u can give me on what u know about him so if it is indeed the same scammer i can call him out on it. thanks, jeanne

      • BEEN IN CONTACT WITH A GEORGE RAMOS BUT USING THE EMAIL G.RAMOS481@YAHOO.COM. BIGGEST SCAMMER EVER! IVE LOST THOUSANDS! ANY QUESTIONS, EMAIL ME AT JEANNEROSIER@YAHOO.COM

    • I have been online for almost two months with as he calls himself Ramos Aron ” Roy” also he has asked me for money for his birthday $150.00. I did not send it. Then he supposedly left libiya and is now in Nigeria. Then he promised me $1300.00 if I sent him $200.00 the explaination was never clear to me about why he couldn’t send it or why he couldn’t afford it . He said his rank was major then he said SSg staff seargent. I pray to the God I serve that this person will not be able to do this to anyone else.

    • Another one to look out for is John Wallace who states he is a capt. In Kabul Afghanistan U S Army 5th brigade 2nd infantry division. Says he is a widow with a12 year old son. He sweet talks you and asks you to email his c\o asking for leave, if you do that you get an email back asking you to fill out a form send that back then western union money to a person somewhere else. I found him on my yearbook and on yahoo.

      Melissa m.

      • Hello MILISSA i have been chating with a guy named sgt.paulrapp@yahoo.com, he found me on face book said he also was in Iraq and wanted me to set up a yahoo so that we could chat and get to know each other, I feel so ashamed and stupid he also say’s he is in Kabul after several months of chatting he aksed me to marry him said he could get leave if i sent 400 dollors to Major Eddie Ramson but i had to send it western union to Nigeria. so me like an idiot did, well the next day i got a form in my email saying his leave had been started BUT an additional 2,900 dollors refundable to me had to be sent that struck me as very odd got a document also it had no info just first name last name surname reason for leave rank of soilder he claimed if i got the money he would help me fill out the form and told me to send 1,500 money Grom and the rest western union, I did not do it but unfortunatly i had sold my car to get him home. He claims to live in Jacksonvill Alabama, has a 12 year old son wife died in a car accident could you PLEASE send me a responce and let me know if this srt. paul rapp exsits, and if he does is he realy the soilder or a scammer and could you send me a pic of the real soilder who’s name he is using. Thank you so much he found out i was’nt so smart on a compuer but i was smart enough to keep punching in scams and stuf untill i ran across this sight, i feel ashamed and discusted that i could be coned by some one whom i thought was a soilder in love with me and so many promices of a happy family

    • Hi, i know the guy on the pictures with the name Staff Sgt Ryan England Wool as Samuel Kirkland. He has a 17 years old son and his wife died of cancer.

      • Jenny, I think I have been scammed by the same Staff Sgt. Ryan England Wool, aka Russell, Kenneth and George. Now you can add Joshua M. Witt to the list. I was heartbroken and in complete shock to see one of the pics he sent to me on this site. He is supposedly a Master Sargent in the Army in Kabul, Afghanistan and due to be back in the states within the next two weeks. He has a 14 yr old son James, who is in Ghana staying with a caretaker who assisted Joshua and his late wife in adopting James about 10 years ago from an orphanage in Ghana. He lives in Washington, DC and reports to Ft. Belvoir in Virginia. He was due to retire on Dec. 15, 2011 but because of an investment he got “us” involved in he cannot leave until the documents are signed. He just asked me today to send him a iPhone 4 so we could communicate while he is travelling back to the states. I already sent him a Galaxy that he said is broke and he needs another phone. I told him no. He has really prayed on my emotions, asked me to marry him, planning our future, being a family with his son. I am so hurt I can’t stand it. These people are the rot of this earth! I am going to play his game a little longer until he realizes I know his game. I have copies of all the emails and IM conversations we have had. They will soon be deleted.

        • HI SANDY,

          I TOO, WAS SCAMMED WITH SIGMUND WITT AKA CHRISTOPHER WALSH WITT. HE HAS BEEN USING THE CHRISTOPHER WALSH WITT ALL THIS TIME, NOT UNTIL 4 DAYS AGO. HE CHANGED IT TO SIGMUND WITT. HE SAID THAT HIS OLD EMAIL ADDRESS WAS HACKED. I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING I FOUND OUT ABOUT HIM AND HE GOT MAD AT ME. HIS SON IS MICHAEL LIVES IN GHANA WITH HIS CARETAKER DAVID. WITT TOLD ME ALSO THAT HE WILL BE COMING HOME TO ME ON THE 15TH. I SENT HIM $130 FOR HIS SON THAT WAS SICK WITH CHOLERA TWO MONTHS AGO. AND STILL ASKING FOR MORE. WELL HIS CARETAKER SAID THAT WITT GOT ROBBED AND STUBBED AND HE’S IN THE HOSPITAL. THAT HE NEEDS TRANSFUSSION. I COULDNT TALK TO HIM BEC SUPPOSEDLY HE WAS UNCONSCIOUS PER HIS CARETAKER. I FEEL SO BAD AND I CRIED EVERYDAY LOOKING AT HIS PICTURES AND WHEN IM ALONE. AND HE IS STILL CONTACTING ME AND BEGGING ME TO SEND $200 USD TO PAY FOR HIS MEDS AND THE TRANSFUSSION. AND NOW HE IS TALKING ABOUT HOW HE CAN GO HOME TO ME WITHOUT THE TICKET. LOL I TOLD HIM PAWN OR SELL ONE OF THE JEWELRIES IN BOX OR HE CAN LIVE IN GHANA UNTIL HE GETS MONEY FROM SOMEONE BUT NOT FROM ME. HE DIDNT LIKE WHAT I SAID SO HE SIGNED OUT AND HE SAID HE FEELS VERY SAD. HAS HE BEEN IN CONTACT WITH U? I JUST GOT DONE CHATTING WITH HIM A MINUTE AGO. WE WERE ARGUING ABOUT HIM IF HE IS REAL PERSON OR THE SCAMMER. HE SAID HE IS THE REAL PERSON AND NOT SIGMUND WITT CUZ HE IS THE FAKE ONE. IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT PLEASE DO SO. THANK YOU..

        • To Ann and Sandy, I was contacted by the person you are talking to he now is going by the name James Witt. Being in corrections he hit on the wrong person, there were too many red flags popping up. I questioned him and he said he was in military intelligence, well I know that any one in intelligence is not going to announce it. But I played the game, in three days he loved me, in a month he needed money to help a person with rent.. of course I questioned this.. So I went on google to images when it pops up you will see a camera at the end of the search box. I took the picture of him sitting in front of a camera down loaded the picture and up he came,, as the following people…

          MSgt. Simon/Sigmund/Glenn /Rick Preze Witt/CeeWee/Carl Witt/Jerry Witt/Steve Parker Witt/Eric Jones/Matt Swain/Michael Swain/Capt. Harry Swain/Spencer Swain/Jason Mcaughty/Micheal Witt/Sigmund Witt (Gelesen: 1776 mal) jameswitt23@yahoo.com

          He is on over 80 dating sites, now on Face book as Troy Witt with the same pic of him sitting on a bunk with a computer on the bed, he is also on face book with another name Sigmund VonWelf… there is a site that is for Nigerian scammers and of course this person who is PRETENDING to be Witt… must have gotten all kinds of pictures of this MIlitary man. I’m not sure that this person WITT, is even aware that his pictures are on the net scamming women. I agree with the person who is writing these articles to protect women from this over sea’s scammers. I confront this scamer and of course he denied it… but COMMON Sense tells you if it is too good to be true it usually. I feel sorry for the soldiers who’s picture is being used and I hope that other women do not become victim to these scammers. The best thing you can do is stop all contact… tell him you know he is a scammer then just block all emails from him. If you have sent him pictures chances are your pictures could be used as well to scam others. If you want to see if your picture is used by these scamers go to google click on images when the search engine shows up look for the camera and click on it and follow instructions. Besides this site you are on there is another one showing pictures of scammers in the military this one is of Witt…
          http://www.anti-scam-forum.net/openThread_1299758218.htm
          I hope the person writing Soldiers Perspective will find Soldier Witt and advise him his pictures are being used. I hope this will help other women who have been scammed by this over sea’s jerk.
          Please ladies do not fall for this stuff, they are so easy to spot… Blessings

        • Now going by the name Mike Witt from Illinois, has daughter at uni who lives with grandmother. He’s looking for love & distance no object !!! I had 2 emails from this scammer but knew straight away it was a set up. If a guy sounds too good to be true… he is !!

    • Ladies, don’t fall prey to scams.

      Let Joe Warner check that “special” person if he is really in the military.

      A small fee of $3 by Paypal, on a donation voluntary basis will not be refused.

      Sincerely, hotproton@gmail.com

    • I to was corresponding to the e- ledge Sergent Danny Ramos and after a few emails I knew he was not at all who he stated he was my niece even emailed him said he was a well ! you know he acted as if he was so hurt but after i told him about my family’s connection in the Military and told him how dare he pretend to be be one of our good guys who are dying over there for all of us and now i have someone who claims to be Sergent Kelly Smith looking all over to see if this guy is a scammer to both i met on yearbook.com and i have reported the first one (Ramos) into there contact person if anyone knows if Sergent Kelly Smith from Kansas in Sudan at this time also lost his wife but to cancer please post than thank you

    • I have also been talking to this guy and he is now going by the name kelvin morgan he tells me that his residence is in racine, wisconsin. he has a daughter who’s name is sharon moore age 18. please be careful this mans real name is Aaron Ramos.

  2. Those impersonators need to be shot,.. Some say that is harsh, but personally,.. I don’t think so. Scum bags like this, take away from our Soldier’s (which is some of our family members) and also it makes good decent caring people hesitant to give. Grrr Shame on them !!! Thanks for the great red flags to look for I will surely be passing this post around.

    • I agree with you. they are giving our military a bad name. I was willing to help out our soldiers in anyway I could, Now I don’t know if I can trust them. That is going to hurt the good ones, but I don’t know who to trust anymore.

      • I hope the man on facebook claiming to be Mike Eastmond is in someone’s cross hairs right now. They are giving our soldiers a bad name. I wish I knew who this young man really is, so he could go kick his @$$. I have pics but I couldn’t get them to post. I would like to let him know someone has stolen his pics and using them to do harm to people he is fighting to protect.

    • To all that are interested the website posted above in another site that includes other pictures of Ramos and names he has used and is still using. Do I understand right that his real name is Aaron Ramos? I would like to let him know after finding out he was being scammed I made it a passion of mine not to let the person who is doing this to him to get away with it. This infuriates me to think that someon is defacing our military men and women who are out there defending this great nation of our along with giving our nation a bad rap.

      • I am in contact with an Aaron Ramos..
        He says he is stationed in London and I don’t think this is correct as I’m not aware of any US soldiers being deployed to London..
        there are also anothr 4 Aaron Ramos on FB..
        Which is the real one ???
        Does anyone know..

        • NONE OF THEM ARE REAL AND HES IN LIBRA HE SAID LOL I WAS JUST TALKING TO HIM TODAY AND TOLD HIM TO GO AWAY.. AND HE SAID WILL I FOUND A NEW GIRL NOW AND SHE GOING TO SENT THE MONEY.. AND I TOLD HIM RIGHT WE ALL KNOW U ARE A SCAMMER.. AND HE CLAMS HES NOT I JUST LOL TO HIM AND MAKE HIM MAD… AND HE TELL HE HE HAS A 17 YEAR OLD SON IN AFRICA AND HE WAS KID NAP AND WANED 10.000 DOLLARS FOR HIS SAFETY…. I DID NOT FALL FOR THAT ONE LOL..

      • i am also in connection to aaron ramos since april 2011,and the sad part i wasn’t able to see this sight..i was victimized by this evil person…but i still thank God,i know He will still blessed me.
        i was also falling for him till i found out in the end that he is a scammer..i lost a lot ..if there is a way wher you can help me get back my money..plsss help me..

        • i to took ramos johnson daniel as he went by he looked for me to pay medical bills for his father he is a disgrace to his family army and friends contact till 22 july then he delete me scum beware so sorry you gave money please take care lol

      • Gwen,
        I would like that other website you mentioned. And this is my understanding also his name is Aaron Ramos

      • Well now it’s David Ramos, I have been talking to this man since Dec of last year. It’s now 2012.
        and he wanted me to send $553.00 for travel fee to come back to the states. For I know no one that’s in the
        Military have to pay for anything. For two I know they get paid there while they are there or they make special
        arrangement to send their pay home. I also have quite a few pictures of this imposter claiming to be David Ramos. He says he from Salinas, CA. He is divorced with one son named Paul. That his parents were killed in auto accident and they left him a home in the UK.. Boy I knew he wasn’t who he said he was but I played his game until I found in formation that a real soilder sent to all us Ladies especially in USA. That it is all just BS..lol so I sent the information and now he gone no nothing. If you like the pictures I will forward them to you so you can post. Also his website are daivd_ramos221@yahoo.com and david_ramos221@live.com. So it really is Arron Ramos, well I really would love to meet him and share this pictures that he has of his. Also his buddy he shares a room with is James…

  3. Just looking at the pictures of the so called Colonel… the name, service, and some of the badges are obvious photoshops. They’re of a very poor quality as well. Obvious fakes.

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  5. for anyone who comes cross the name William L. Spalding is a scam he told me he was from the military and he was over sea and that he would be coming home and he would but he need to stop first in London and the truth is this were he and a group of people who are doing all of the scam are at in London. And he said he had a son name John O. Spalding and the truth there is no son under that name. and he scam me for the amount of 60,000. so if anyone wants more information on this man my email is chontales5@yahoo.com don’t believe this man

    • can u pls tell me about this man i want to get him i need the pics and contact he use for you

      • @ Dave David you sound a little suspect to me good luck getting what you are asking for lol

  6. What concerns me greatly is even the comments seems to think it’s the military man they are talking too, and not the scammer who stole his name. I’ve been married to a military guy for 21 years and not once have I met anyone in uniform begging for money…at least from strangers. I feel sorry for the real guys who now have to deal with the fallout from this.

    • Hi Envoyette:
      You mentioned that you have been married with a militar man. I admired our military troops, I wish to know a great website where you can date real military man… Do you know anyone that you can suggest me to look up? Thanks. I feel so sad about how women are still vunerable today… But there is the Karma law what goes around comes around.. so everyone of those scum will pay this mess…

      • I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A MILITARY MAN IN MY LIFE TO MY FAMILY BEEN IN THE SERVICE.. I JUST WANT A GOOD MAN I WOULD LIKE IT TO BE A MILITARY MAN

    • is the military cant send money to the family while thier on mission and their salary goes directly to thier account and freeze by militayr govenment?

  7. Is anyone knows about staff sergeant Henry Smith ,53 years old,born in Cologne,germany ,mother french and father american ,both dead,living in NY ,in Bronx ,actually in Kabul for a peacekeeping mission for 9 Months and going to have his retiring at the end of January2011,son named Curtis ,Sam ,(14),widowed since 9 years ?
    “General lieutenant Henry Smith”,henry12010@live .com, met on Meetic dating the 25/11/2010

  8. I am scared that this might be happening to me. But Major Kevin Anderson never has asked me for money. And we are supposed to meet at the end of February when he “retires”. I am very emotionally involved. Has anyone heard anything negative about this name? From Ausin, TX. zip code 78731

    • He doesn’t exist. He won’t be there. Just prior to him “coming home” he’ll need money for the trip.

      • Well, I’m setting a trap for the bastard. I’m gonna come right out and offer him money. I’ll play his game and see just how far this son of a bitch would go. My heart is broken and my integrity is bruised. I am ashamed of myself for falling for this poor excuse of a human being.

        • Dont take it out on yourself. These people are good and trained and they dont care about you or your feelings. I know, Ramos captured my heart and then I said I will get the scammer some how.I have contacted all the authorities and hopefully they will do something about it

        • i was recently scammed by Sgt. G. Witt, who claimed to be in Iraq..I have been chatting with him for 4 months on yahoo. I feel so ashammed, betrayed, and stupid…

        • HELLO, I AM SO SORRY. MY STORY IS SIMILAR TO YOURS AND I AM TRYING TO HOOK N BAIT THE MAN IAM DEALING WITH TO CATCH HIM!!!! SON OF A BITCH!!!!
          IAM GOING TO FIND A WAY TO PROSECUTE THE GUY WHO DID THIS TO ME!!!!! IAM HEARTBROKEN AS WELL, LIKE YOU.
          GOOD LUCK AS WE WILL NEED IT.
          ELIZABETH

        • hi i think iam being scammed by someone. but dont no how to find out if this soldier is real have u got any advice u can give me please. where to start looking x or asking . thankyou from lynn

    • Let me check him out for you.

      $3 by Paypal fee on a donation basis after the service is all I ask for.

      Get some peace of mind.

      • i am talking to sirsig witt now and i knew he was a scammer from the first e-mail, how did i know? i have been scammed before by a mark emeaney. i have sent no money to witt and am not planning on it, just was interested in seeing what his story was, they are scum

      • hello i was scammed by SGT WILLIAMS MACDONALD HIS EMAIL IS SGTWILLIAMS501@YAHOO.COM
        HE SAID HE NEED A COMPUTER TO TALK TO ME SO I SEND 7OO DOLLARS TO HIM WESTERN UNION AND HE TOLD ME HIS WIFE DIED OF CANCER AND HE HAS A DAUGHTER NAME SHELLY THAT LIVES IN CLEVELAND OHIO WITH HIS MOM AND HE EMAIL ME PAPERS FOR HIS REQUEST FOR LEAVE HE IS IN KABUL AFG AND DOESNT WANT TO DIE THEY PROMISE TO MARRY ME WHEN I SEND 3000 FOR A PLANE TICKET TO COME HOME,, A FRIEND TOLD ME TO COME HERE AND I FOUND HIS PICS HERE …SGT WILLIAMS MAC DONALD PICS ON THIS PAGE I WAS SO VEY UPSET TO FIND OUT THIS WAS A SCAM I REALLY BELIEVE HIM I WAS GOING TO WESTERN UNION HIM THE 3000 DOLLARS TO COME HOME THIS WEBSITE STOP ME WHEN I FOUND OUT HE WAS A SCAMMER .. I HOPE U FIND THE REAL SGT WILLIAMS MACDONALD AND LET HIM KNOW ABOUT HIS PICS ARE BEING USED IN A SCAM .. ALSO IF U CAN I LOVE TO FIND OUT INFORMATION ABOUT THE REAL SGT WILLIAMS MACDONALD PLSE LET ME KNOW HOW I CAN FIND OUT INFORMATION AND HOW TO STILL IN LOVE

  9. Hello to all,i too am a victim of a “scammer of love”,thank god for a short time,i am widow for 6 years and one day i decided i should meet someone and i signed in a dating site very “serious”begins with “m” and ends with “c” ,i decided to say “hello,how are you”and there began the love story ever told…with a wonderful man U.S military in Afganistan ,which to beat my heart again and that made me feel how wonderful life again…
    Until one day,come to work eager to see your message…and yes! there was one,asked me in the money,because his mother had no money to buy Christmas presents,and he was in Afganistan and had no means of being able to send…,
    My heart broke into pieces,and although my head told me i was a crook, at the bottom of my heart,would not believe,..and now here i am in love with an American military do not even know….
    Unlike other cases my photos are good and the same,who by the way if a military army institution of this blog,you can contact this person to tell of what happens with your photos,be happy to send ,and incidentally why not say “hello,how are you”.

    “The military in the war trying to survive,and others in his own war also try to survive”

    • i feel for this arron ramos guy to came home from work one day and there was a message asking for money i replyed what the money was for and he said his 12 year old daugher Lynda was in a private school and he wanted to send her something special for her birthday i told him i didnt have the money to send him and he got right down rude calling me all sorts of names

      • I WAS ALSO SCAMMED FROM FACEBOOK FOR 2.000 DOLLARS… THIS ONE FROM ERIK STEWART BE CARFUL I’M STILL PAYING FOR IT… ITS HARD FOR ME TO GET A CHEDCKING ACCT NOE THAT TO A MAN FROM THE BRANCH SENDING ME A VERY NICE LETTER AND I STARED CRYING SO I HOPE I CAN GET MY LIFE BACK TOGEATHER… I WANT MY MONEY BACK… 1.500 I SENT… TO HIM

  10. ladies can find help on facebook also :
    STOP THE US ARMY DATING SCAM

    Photos and names of most of the found scammers

    • Thank you for your interest in life there are few people who care for someone without asking anything in return..

    • I want to thank you so much for letting everyone who reads this know that there is a place on FB that we can turn too. I have had a number of military scammers try to scam me…but like many women out there…we are not that dumb..but everytime I tried to list them as scammers and warn others I got shut out. it is so ‘funny’ or should i say idiotic that these scammers have free rein to prowl the internet and yet those of us trying to stop them can’t post as we want.
      so thanks again…I will be checking the site out soon

    • I wanted to know if Anthony page is a scammer as some of these stories are very similar to me

    • Hello, where is the place we can put the photos of the scammer we were involved with please? I am out lots of monies and will have to file for bankruptcy. I know i will never see my funds again. However, I wish to let this man or his family know that his pictures were used in a fraudulent and deceitful manner! All the pictures are of the same man….various ages and in both civilian and in military khakis. His last name of “James” is very evident on one of the pictures as well as his badges. He has blonde hair and I do not see too many of them on these scam pages; so I would really like to get these photos posted! Also, I was told by a USAA Fraud Investigator that about 15 women were involved in this scam. They are a very organized and very good (unfortunately) group out of Ghana. The name they used was “Terry Walker James” and his security courier was Andrew Vaughn Woolnough…Thank you….ellen

      • You can add David Woodgate Miller to the list.

        • I am currently talkig to a David Woodgate Miller can u send me a pic so I can see if it is the same man please clascrit@hotmail.com

        • Alora I would really appreciate if you will take the time to reply to me about David Woodgate Miller .

        • do you have pics of this person and does he have a daughter

        • You can add Jeff Kump!! His photos are all over this site – and I am so glad that I found this out before being scammed!!!

    • I could not find on facebook Stop the us army dating scam

      • first go search and then click on groups on the left hand side of the screen and three groups come up

      • hello i have been talking to a sgt. james woodgate in kadal afgahnastain, he is caucasion he says his wife died 2 yrs ago from breast cancer, he has a daughter and wants me to marry him and help raise his child, i wnat to see if anyone else has meet him i he sent me pics of him and his daughter,

  11. When ever I get an email on a dating site from a man claiming to be in the military I always google the name and see what I learn about who the guy is.All of them have been fakes and I tell them that.The latest one was a war hero named Todd Desgrosseilliers and I found who I believe to be him on a social networking site and informed him that someone is using his name and picture on a dating site and gave him the name of it for him to see it for himself.

    • I had the same thing with Col Desgrosselliers and I emailed him on facebook and told him about it.
      The scammer doing it had all of the right pictures and everything… it was amazing. But then again the Col is a Silver Star recipient, so there is a lot of info on him out there. EXCEPT… the scammer said that his wife was dead. On FB his wife is in the photos.

  12. Hello,ok Rita i try find this soldier in google,thank you.

  13. Do they think we are all idiots???? I recognize 1 or 2 that I figured were scammers-they can’t even put a sentence together properly nor can they spell & they get caught up in their stories!

  14. CJ,
    Thanks for staying in tune; it’s good to get your input every once in a while.

    To all you ladies out there: you know deep down in your hearts you’re being scammed; so listen to your inner voice and stop kidding yourselves. I know, like you, I’m a sucker for men in uniform so don’t get blindsided. If you don’t have a keen sense of intuition, then get educated like CJ says.

    I was inspired by this really cool website that CJ posted on one of his ASP sites; http://www.soldiersangels.org and was able to adopt a soldier. There are over 900 more that can’t wait to be adopted. I’ve been corresponding/sending care packages since last November. Our service men/women are home sick being in those dreadful countries; So if you really want to give back; that’s a good way to do so.

    Thanks again, CJ.
    I wish you a successful 2011!

    • Thanks for that insite. I was leary of communication with anyone for fear of being scammed again. I will try this site
      Thanks again

  15. I caught one this past weekend. He is using the name Jarrel Lopez, Kabul, Afghanistan. Where do I send the pictures? I did not fall for this guy, I knew from the start something was not right, so I played along to see what would happen. Sure enough he asked me to recieve some luggage with clothes and oil contracts? haha. I got an email from a Diploma Smith stating I will receive a package from my HUSBAND! huge red flag…. and I refused. Needless to say, I did not hear anything back from the guy since.

    • Kat, can you tell me more about this? I have a dear friend who is in contact with this same guy (and Smith is the guy “helping” him). I can’t believe I found this. I’m trying desperately to break his hold on my friend. What more can you tell?

    • please send me pictures

    • kat please send me a picture of this guy!!Jarrel lopez

    • I have been talking to a guy name jarrel lopez!! started talking dec.10!!would love to see pic

      • Did you ever get pics from Kat on this guy, Cheryl?

        • no wish she would!! i have pic 2

    • Send us the whole pictures so that we can spread it all over the internet to protect others from falling victim

    • I have a soldier in kabul met online who wants kah smiht, a diplomate to send his belongings to me. No one has asked me for money. any info on this smith guy?

    • Can you tell me more about your experienc as i am talking to a military man that has connected me with a Diplomat that is bring me a pkg from Afganistan…. the guy im talking to is using Ryan Miller,,,

  16. I have been chatting with a “Military” man claiming to be Cap.Alex Smith Becker on duty in Kabul, Afga. We have been chatting for almost 3 months daily. I have fallen for this guy, but of course have doubts. I have parted with some money much to my disgust. He said he wanted me to claim to be his “spouse” to request for his leave.Now I have had a email off someone claiming to be with the Military of Defense who wishes me to go to the US to claim the monies owed to me as his “spouse” My mind is telling get out, but my heart wants me to hang in their in case it might be real. Please Help!!!

    • this guy is a scammer, search and you will see his picture under a lot of scammer sites.Believe me. The military will never ask you for money to send a soldier home.

      • Do you have some website addresses to look up Cap.Alex Becker? I have looked for his pics but have had no luck.I guess I just need to see it for myself! thank you in advance.

      • I have been contacted by Alex Becker to receive a huge amount of money he found, he wants my details, to receive the package. What does this achive, pls can someone explain it to me,is the package supposed to get stuck somewhere then they ask for money?? I am ignoring him,but he does not give up very easily.

        • yes most likely it will get stuck in customs that is what happened to me and said the fine for no paperwork at customs was $3300.00 didnt respond thougt I got rid of them (I claiming to be two)Just resently he sent a bad message on my phone from Yahoo. They dont give up

  17. I got a guy here claming to be a Sgt McDonald Peterson, he has asked for money and to my stupidity i have sent him some. I have now found his pictures in your site under the name Sgt Patrick McDonald and am very sad to find this. I became aware of this scam because a friend has paid for his best friend to come home and still hasnt turned up to meet her. I wish there was a way to get these Nigerian guys to pay but from what i have found out this is unlikely.

  18. Ive confronted this guy but hes addiment he is the real McDonald but i have no way of proving it is or not… So i am just going to end it and get on with my life.

  19. There is another scam artist going around as sergant first class Smith Michael Brown stating that he is in the army and deployed. Watch out he is looking for money and exspensive gifts. He states that he is divorced and and has a 18 year old son who lives with his parents from Washington state. So watch out

  20. I have been talking to a Steven Gaines now for a while. I know that he is fake and he has even called me and when I trace the number back it is in Africa. Has anyone come across him yet. He has asked for money and I never did send it but yet he still talks to me and now doesn’t even ask for money. I am trying to find the real soldier. This guy has sent me pics of him and his daughter and some of him in uniform. All I can say is watch out and don’t believe everything they tell you. This one had me going for a long time but I never did send anything to him. It’s sad these people are doing this. It just makes me sick.

    • hi Im deb and im very sorry that this has happend to you…somthing very similar is happeing to me currently would you like to exchange the military photos you received from him i would like to know if im talking to the same person although he gave me the name Ryan Brett Miller I feel so stupid

  21. please send me pictures of jarrel lopez!!!

  22. I have been talking to a man of FB and chat how do i find out if he actually who he says he is He states Major Mike Miller 6th ranger battalion with unit no.19081871/Afghan in kabul NATO base in afghanistan
    how do I find if he is a scammer or genuine Please help

  23. i have been scammed and the worst of it all is he knew i had a terminally father he played on that aswell

    his name jonny rellinger
    frejik Buglia
    West Ebert
    JONNY Ebert
    Jontrybrid
    HE SAID HIS WIFE HAD GONE OFF WITH HIS BEST MATE HE HAD A SON WHO NOW LIVED WITH HIS UNCLE SENT ME PHOTOS OF HIM SELF FRIENDS AND HIS SON AND YES HE SCAMMED ME AND I ONLY FOUND OUT TODAY BECAUSE MY FRIEND WAS WORRIED WHEN SHE FOUND THIS SITE . TH E MAN IN THE PICTURE HAS PROBABLY A FAMILY I FELL FOR THE WORDS AND THE EYES IN THE PICTURE THE PHOTO HE SENT ME AS HIS FRIEND WAS CALLED WEST BUT IS NOW ON FACEBOOK JOINED MONDAY KNOWN NOW AS JONNY R BRABERTS I HAVE KEPT EVERY THING RECIEPTS MAIL CHATS AND MAIL I RECIEVED FROM A LT COL STEVEN RAMSEY .
    I FEEL SO DEGRADED AND ANGRY AT MYSELF FOR ALLOWING SUCH A THING TO HAPPEN TO ME, AND ASHAMED THAT MY FATHER LOANED ME SOME MONEY TO SEND.. I HOPE THEY FIND OUT WHO ARE DOING THESE DREADFUL THINGS TO WOMAN ALL OVER THE WORLD AND THEY EVIL . MAYBE A INTERNATIONAL TV PROGRAMME SHOULD BE MADE TO MAKE WOMAN AWARE ALSO DATING SITES TO ADVERTISE ALSO TO BE WARY
    ALSO JENNIFER IS HIS GIRLFRIEND HE ACCIDENTLY SENT A POEM AND IT WAS WRITTEN BY HER HE COPIED AND PASTED AND FORGOT TO TK THE BEGINNING OF THE LETTER OF KEPT THAT AS WELL AS THE END… SO ALSO MEN BE WARY ..
    I WOULD LOVE TO FIND THE REAL SOLDIER IN THE PHOTO JUST FOR MY MIND SAKE .
    I WOULD LIKE TO HELP START A BLOG FOR BRITAIN AS I DO NOT THINK MANY ARE AWHERE .
    THANKS EVERYONE

    • Do you have any photos. I am trying to break this thing to my sister who I just know now is being scammed. Your story sounds a lot like hers.

      • Have her look up details…I found this site by asking google if Camp Eggers Post office is under construction – of course it is not….and I found this site – unfortunately after I had already sent a “birthday” package with a phone to some place in Ghana – to the diplomat! Then he texted me that he was going to hurt himself after I called him out! The attention and romance is addicting, but I will no longer try online dating to try and find love – it is too humiliating!

  24. I have been chatting to James Massingale. He professed his love for me within the first couple of emails. Red flags went up. I signed off before Christmas as it was too much too soon. Then I got bored and resumed.It’was really nice reading from you…i must confess it was indeed wonderful , i want to make sure i write you since you have honored me, I pray you would be honored in all that you do as you move on with life, I am wearing my military uniform,with colorful undies and a black shoe , I hope you are also looking good out there?
    To tell you more about me……..i am James Massingale, I was born in Sydney, Autralia and spent my first child’s age of 2 there until we left for States.
    I grew up in a small town in IL and i was the youngest in a family of 2. We lived on a small land area, but my late dad worked for the State of IL for income. My late mom was a full time mom.
    i have been in the army for over 23years,.I’m a member of the US militar (Special forces) our roles are different from every other uniform military services.we are specially designed to work on the tough duty and secure assignments we do not have any of our information’s on public page .all of our information’s are fully encrypted under the Military Greek Alpha language.

    As i stated in my profile, I was once married….. I lost my ex in an automobile accident a few years back which constituted a major sorrow to my heart and our only daughter was asked to settle down with her mother’s family until I got retired with a good wife for us to spend the rest of our life together
    i joined dating site to find my soul mate…I am looking to settle down and have a serious relationship with someone loving, caring, genuine and affectionate without the head games.
    I am looking for a life long partner who is and wants to be my other half.. I feel like I am missing that something special in my life and I do believe that its a wife/friend/lover to make my life complete. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t need a woman to complete me but I would like to find someone who compliments me not just in telling me how good I look but to complete me in personality, desires, likes and body.. We all look for our soul mate in life and someone to spend the rest life with…
    I’m an incomplete man who needs a woman to make me the happiest man ever… Someone who is my equal…….someone who will love me just for me… my inner me, the man I am inside.. I might not be the most beautiful man in the world but my heart is pure and very loving. I think of myself as a kind gentle person who loves deeply and completely.. If you can be my soul mate then you are one for life…..
    I have no baggage. I’m a very optimistic, healthy and happy person and I’m not desperate to find just any new partner. I’m looking for the right one,someone who will accept my daughter despite not being her biological mother.
    Her name is Dorris ……….
    here are some of my pictures, just let me know if you like them

    James

    Where can I send his photos? This story is just too familiar after reading all your other emails. No money has been asked for – yet!

    • Thats the same excate words that this Aaron ramos used with me at the frist then aftera couple of days then he started asking for money for his daughter theses guys are nasty

  25. PLEASE ADD RANDY LINGO TO THE LIST. I WISH I HAD KEPT THE PHOTOS TO SEND YOU BUT LAST NIGHT AFTER I FOUND OUT ABOUT THE SCAM I DELETED THE 76 MESSAGES, POEMS, LOVE SONGS AND 5 PHOTOS HE HAD SENT ME. SAME OLD STORY, WANTED TO VISIT ME NEEDED MONEY FOR LEAVE APPLICATION, ALSO WANTED MY DRIVERS LICENCE AND PASSPORT. FAKE LETTER FROM GENERAL COLLINS IN KANDAHAR ASKING ME TO SEND THE DOCS AND MONEY TO HIM AND HE WOULD APPROVE HIS LEAVE TO COME AND HAVE A HOLIDAY WITH ME. LOTS OF MISTAKES, SPELLING, GRAMMAR, LIKE HE WASNT TAKING IN MY EMAILS AND HE WAS TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE. MUST BE CONFUSING FOR THE POOR “DEARS” SITTING IN THEIR HOT SWEATY LITTLE COMPUTER ROOM SOMEWHERE IN NIGERIA AND THEY FORGET THAT SUSAN HAD LONG HAIR NOT SHORT AND JENNIFERS SONS NAME WAS BILL NOT TONY AND SO ON AND SO ON. ANYWAY, HAPPY ENDING FOR ME, NO DOCUMENTS OR MONEY CHANGED HANDS. THE REAL RANDY LINGO HAS A PROBLEM NOW AS THEY ALSO SENT ME COPIES OF HIS PASSPORT, DRIVERS LICENCE AND CARE CARD FROM CANADA. HOPE HE CATCHES UP WITH THEM SOON AND HE HAS HIS RIFLE WITH HIM.

    • Randy Lingo just contacted me. I am going to see if I can upload the pics. He claims to be from Canada, son is in UK (16 years old) and he has a house in Illinois. His grammer is pretty good although he does use a gmail address, not yahoo. I have already caught onto his scam as the photos don’t match his story he is telling. His rank is wrong on his uniform and those aren’t AF uniforms!

      • Randy lingo
        he had me fooled .He said he was from canada had a son 16 live in canada he had a house in GB and one in canada i have got pictures he was so loving and careing BUT I SENT ME DOCOMANTS TO

    • I have also been in contact with Randy Lingo who claimed to be half Aussie and half Canadian with a 16-year old son. He also claimed to be a “grunt with the U.S. Air Force” in Kabul. Confusing because I thought grunts were in the Army but I don’t really know that much about the military.

      I first heard from “Paul” Lingo on Facebook but he changed his name to “Randy” for e-mail messages. This was another obvious red flag. His messages seemed to be bits and pieces copied and pasted from profiles from dating sites. He told me all about how he loved to shower women with flowers and gifts and how he likes to spend his evenings. All this was inappropriate because I am not interested in romance but wanted to hear about his experience serving in the U.S. military in Afghanistan. He e-mailed photos of a very handsome man in an Army uniform.

      I am embarrassed to admit I gave him my e-mail address and hope this does not lead to any ID theft or fraud.

      While it is tempting to think women should be able to see through this sort of nonsense, these people are very adept at deception. The photos served to make this man seem real even in the face of all the red flags.

      • I was contacted by Randy Lingo a week ago. We’ve been in touch twice daily and he recently got my cell number to let me know when he’s on line to chat. He contacts me when it seems appropriate for Afghanistan time. I’m so emotionally attached and now confused. This guy seems intelligent told me his education and military history. Writes very well with poetry and such. He’d half Aussie and Canadian and had a 16 year old son.I too received the Canadian health passport and the driver’s license. I just got word from him that he had been injured with three bullets and their group lost three men and four were injured. He’s not ever asked me for money or time. I’m so lost what do I do?

        • Hi My name is Susie Silvea, I was introduced to Randy Lingo by morning Emails of Love & his suffering in Kabul Afghanistan for female love & support in his daily struggles with going out on mission’s , told me also about his son Stephen that was 16yrs old & taking classes in the UK… I was also sent his pictures..So whoever Randy Lingo is he’s pretending real good with everything he’s been writting about…I have his pictures..2 of them actually…One with Photo & ID info/ also license info class 5….No money sent from my end.. He just Emailed me today saying he’s coming to Moncton to meet me & what was the closes airport for him to come meet me….I am to be on line at 8am so he can give me the info that I’ll need to meet up with him??? What a good con he is!!! He had me fooled for a while…My son told me to watch him even when he said he was in the airforce… His attire was not right???
          What do you do with a situation like this??
          He should be stopped before he hurts a woman deeply…. I will erase him & put a block on my Email address or just stay off line for awhile…

        • I have lots of pics of him as well and he reuses poetry he gets from other women. If you what to share pics or information on LINGO email me. gypsy.horses@yahoo.com I still have all of the emails and IM from him. We can share if you like.

  26. Hi, I am a mexican woman. Some weeks ago I was contacted via Skype for a man who said to be Major General Gary S. Patton. He said he’s a widower, his wife died three years ago victim of brain cancer. He has only one son who is 21 and he adopted him in a rescue mission in Sudan. His son’s name is Aaron and he’s studying in Africa. He sent some pictures and an email address for I can be in contact with him and forma a “big family” together with my own son. His son, Aaron, even mailed me several times calling me Mum. I googled him and found that a General Gary S. Patton does exist and he’s serving in Afghanistan. I completely fell in love with this man. He wrote me twice a day using gary.s.patton@live.com. I really did not have reasons to doubt. Until he asked me to send 1000 GBP to Accra, Ghana via Western Union to a man called OCHUKO ETURHOBORE. Of course I felt something was wrong with this and I did not send any money. He said he was really disapponted… and he disappeared. I found a blog written by the real General Patton and tried to make him aware. I hope he can be, because I know other woman named Maneebongkot Chaumaroeng, in Bangkok, is in contact now with this scammer via Skype. Please, can somebody do something about it? My heart is broken and I need some words to comfort me, but, most of all, I do not want another woman suffers because of him. Thank you.

    • Hi Martha:

      I got your note attention. It is hard to deal with these skunk scum poeple. and because they are in the nasty place of nigeria… abuse a lot to our troops’ imagen soldiers, but do not forget the Karma Law… what goes around comes around… I was wondering how do you check if a militar personnel or militar man is active duty and where is his location… Thanks greetings

  27. jarrel lopez will not leave me alone or who ever he is he could also be davis haggard,james mens hunt he is crazy

  28. jarrel lopez made me think he loved me so much that i was his soulmate now that i have told him i know he is a scammer!!! it has not stop!!!!!!!!!

  29. Tonight I got contacted by the so called Lt Maureen Fisher, just by being spectical about this I checked up on this so called person and it turned out to be a scanner! So any if anyone get contacted by this person be careful, as I did check the uniform and name on the pic

    • I too got contacted by a Lt Maureen Fisher, and the uniform and name on the picture provided did not match. The emails received were all very deep and meaningful, not answering any questions you pose.

  30. Ok, how do you find out if a soldier is for real or not. I was emailing a guy named Jason Williams. I didn’t see his name on any post.

    • Just ask that Soldier to send you an email from his AKO email. If he refuses or tries to claim he can’t because of “security” then it’s a fake. All military email addresses end in .mil, not .com, .org, or .net.

    • so i did you find out how to see if the soilder is real or a scammer i think i might have a scammer need to no thanks

      • CJ you mean email address like terry.porter@us.army.mil ?? I am talking to a guy and he sends email from that email account so he is for real right ?

    • Very easy .

      You write me an email at hotproton@gmail.com

      I will check out the guy against the military’s database, and possibly his picture.

      ** * a $3 donation, after the service, by Paypal, if you are satisfied with the results.
      I’m in your corner.
      Joe Warner

  31. hi i am from Australia,recently i was contacted via a dating site by someone claiming to be Sgt Robert Scheels a US airforce man stationed in afganistan i have checked to see if there was such a person and found there is,i don’t know if he is on active duty right now but he served in iraq years ago for which he was awarded a combat metal several years later and the photos of him recieving his metal where sent to me,they even used his real name,they are so convincing its easy to be sucked in by these smooth workers, i came so close to sending money thank god my postmaster opened my eye’s to the fact that i was being scammed before he took my money.I’d already had my doubt’s so i did more research to find out as much as i could,emails coming from south africa,kuwait as well as different parts of america that convinced me and i sent him one last email to tell him what scum they were to use innocent people for their own gain its a crime an i hope karma come’s to them in one way or another.

    • Hi Chris: I am glad you did not fall in his scam… I am wondering how do you find out if a soldier is active duty and where…

    • How do you check if there is such a person ? Also can just anybody use a us militarymailbox .us email acount or a a ( usmilitaryadministrative@militarymailbox.us account ?

  32. Have any of you heard of Sgt. Mike Eastmond in Baghdad, Iraq? Same story..he needed a phone wanted me to email so he could come home, I did neither. I told him I thought he was fake, so he sends an email about how hurt he is. BOOHOO.
    I told him I had reported him, I really don’t know who to report to. Then he says he is from Johannasburg, South Africa and he is sorry that he lied to me. I feel like this is just another long line of S**t.

    • Now get this..He told me earlier his parents were dead, but he needs money for his sick mother who is in the hospital. I gave him a few choice word, none of which I would use on here, and he still keeps sending email.
      eastmondmike9@gmail.com and eastmondmike9@yahoo.com
      BEWARE LADIES!!

      • UPDATE: Mike Eastmond is now Mike Richard Eastmonds on facebook!!

  33. Could you please mark the photos being used by scammers with something like “used by scammers” across the face so they can’t lift them off of this website *again* and use them against people?

    Thanks.

    also check http://www.scamwarners.com

    • Alan, Tell me how to do that!!

  34. Yeah, I was checking a dating site for girls from Eastern Australia when up popped this message from a girl in Afghanistan. She says she is Maureen Fisher. I don’t know if it means anything but she uses a Yahoo address. When she wrote she left her e-mail address which was a broken series of dots and letters, so I left her my e-mail address so she could contact me outside the dating service. Sure enough, within three hours she e-mailed me. Maureen Fisher lost her husband and her daughter is being cared for by a her older sister who is a Nun in Italy. When I asked for some casual photos she wrote: “I may not be able to show myself to you on cam or a telephone conversation because i am communicating with you on military server and our dialogue here is being scrutinized.The reasons being that terrorist are capable of hacking our system to perpetrate great evil.”
    These morons need to be deknackered like sheep and banished from society.

    • Hey John im from Eastern Aust and I to had someone saying they was serving in Ramadi, Iraq and can’t use a webcam due to threats of terrorism, but he did call me a couple times but was hard to hear anything, he asked for money as well. Told me he was an only child and both his parents was killed in a car crash years ago

  35. Is there anyone out there that can check the Army to see if someone is actually real? I know the DOD has a website but they need the SS#. I really don’t expect someone to just give me their SS#. Help!

    • Write me with the pertinent details.
      I’ll check out the man for you.

      hotproton@gmail.com

      Donate $3 after the fact, by paypal, if satisfied.

      • @ Joe so basically you are here to exploit the people that have been scammed in other words here to make a profit then you have the nerve to call it a donation and may I ask where these donations go besides your pocket? this sounds a bit scammerish to me and anyone that tries to help anyone thats been scammed for [profit is also a SCAMMER in my book so your empty promises holds no water here and hopefully CJ Bans you very soon you cant help anyone here get back the money they have lost or the hurt and anger they feel so why are you here other than to scam using the donation as a means to do it you and your scamming little business is a crock of bull so get the fuck outta here trying to make a profit off of people that have been scammed.!!!!!! Yes Anonn said it
        GET OVER IT!

      • @ Joe funny hmmm under this emal address I found MANY profiles and guess what all with different pics Ironic that according to your Hi5 account you reside in Phuket, Thailand yet on your Facebook page it shows you went to North Dakota State University while on your Myspace account it shows a white guy says you are an ENGINEER says you are a bodybuilder and you live in California BUT your other Myspace Account says you are Semi Retired ENGINEER LOL this is where you claim to live yes Im pasting it for all to see Isaan, British Columbia, CA, 98388 Funny thing is the zip code (which my Husband checked) is in WASHINGTON State…Your Youtube account states you reside in Australia wow you are either a well traveled Man or you are a SCAMMER.

        on some of your accounts it says you are 23 and 46 and 45 you know if all of your accounts had the same picture of you I might actually believe you were not a small time scammer but they dont you have pics of a Hispanic Man I wont say his Name because I suspect you stole his pics so at this point your offer to help proves NOTHING but you are a Scammer! Please do say something out of the way I will post links here to every account Ive found for you on spokeo to prove you are a scammer trying to pull a scam on CJs Blog.Yeah Anonn said it I gave it to ya straight no chaser.

      • @ Joe funny hmmm under this emal address I found MANY profiles and guess what all with different pics Ironic that according to your Hi5 account you reside in Phuket, Thailand yet on your Facebook page it shows you went to North Dakota State University while on your Myspace account it shows a white guy says you are an ENGINEER says you are a bodybuilder and you live in California BUT your other Myspace Account says you are Semi Retired ENGINEER LOL this is where you claim to live yes Im pasting it for all to see Isaan, British Columbia, CA, 98388 Funny thing is the zip code (which my Husband checked) is in WASHINGTON State…Your Youtube account states you reside in Australia wow you are either a well traveled Man or you are a SCAMMER.

        on some of your accounts it says you are 23 and 46 and 45 you know if all of your accounts had the same picture of you I might actually believe you were not a small time scammer but they dont you have pics of a Hispanic Man I wont say his Name because I suspect you stole his pics so at this point your offer to help proves NOTHING but you are a Scammer! Please do say something out of the way I will post links here to every account Ive found for you on spokeo to prove you are a scammer trying to pull a scam on CJs Blog.Yeah Anonn said it I gave it to ya straight no chaser.

  36. Many women are victims of the Military Cupid dating site, but don’t exclude men because they are too. To add to the list of scammers, Captain George Wilson. The pictures they use are of a very handsome, young gentleman, but there are so many pictures of him that have been stolen and used on so many different sites. Obviously they were stolen from FB or MS or other dating sites. I hope this poor guy, the real victim in the pictures, is aware of it. These people are disgusting and heartless. wilsongcpt01@yahoo.com and gw7277@yahoo.com are tied to “Captain Wilson’s” name as his email address. Beware!!

    • And just to add to the information above, this is the latest email I just received from “George” :

      How are you doing today and how has the weather been.I hope your mood is better now and I am sorry you seem to be down,judging by your last email but please honey don’t take it out on me cause I do have loads of stuffs to come with here too.

      Darling I can’t wait to share all of my feelings, emotions, wants, desires, and love I feel for you. Thank you darling…the feeling and meaning in your writing jumps off the paper into my soul. You have captured my attention with every word you write, every song you send to me, every email as you describe your inner soul and thoughts to me. You are open and honest describing your feelings and emotions that my heart desires and wants you to be with me forever.

      I am sorry if i dont seem to tell you much about me but years of working in a very sensitive position has taught me to say less and listen more,this is why I have always told you I am gonna tell you all about me when I am home and in front on you,right now there is little I can tell you about my life in the army (cause technically I am still in the army) but be ready for the chronicles when I am stateside……George Albert Wilson is the full name .

      Studied Public policy at Franklin & Marshall College,Lancasta after which I joined the army after much encouragement from an uncle who was a colonel then.Like I said,havent made a final desicion on what I am gonna do when I am finally home,though ranching is what I am thinking about for now,but I do have A masters in International relations and diplomacy and i am sure it wont be hard getting a job with the DOD……

      I am surprised you have not written back since yesterday,even after I sent you the picture,this has got me thinking and I hope I am wrong in my assumptions cause it would really break my heart if that were true.

      She sits by the window staring out in a haze
      Wondering how many more days
      Will she have to wait
      Before she will see his eyes at the airport gate
      She thinks about him night and day
      Longing to show him love in every way
      As her wait becomes shorter
      Her love grows stronger
      And she knows her handsome man
      Will soon be part of the plan
      To live a life full of love and passion
      That no one came imagine
      The love this man has for this woman
      To share his life with her as part of God’s plan
      This love story continues to grow
      Much more stronger than you will ever know
      Hia body longs for her touch
      As he loves her so much
      He shows her love her body can handle
      His heart is on fire as flame on a candle
      Her burning desire is more intense
      As she loves him without any resistance
      They bond their love for one another
      Declaring how much they mean to each other
      Their hearts grow in love and affection
      Knowing they will never be a rejection
      As God has put them together
      To live long, happy and fulfilled days
      His love at last is at home to stay

      Love always
      George

      TOO ADD HERE: I am not sure what songs he is referring to as no songs were ever sent to him and as far as emails go, it’s been nothing but questions, questions and more questions with VERY minimal emails…guess he finds that attractive?? Anyway this is an example,love letter and the Hallmark poem to go with it…GAG!!!

  37. I was scamed by Bill Pendleton.
    his address: bill_pendleton@yahoo.com
    found him also in facebook but just saw that he deleted his profile there…
    I want to send the pictures to uplod it here.
    pls contact me admin…
    take care
    Adina

  38. aa and there is another one that sent to my friend
    georgemoose@yahoo.com

    • Hi Adina,

      I have been chatting to a George Richardson Moose. Staff Sergeant in Iraq. Camp Al Adala.
      Have been chattng for 3 weeks. Endless talk of love etc. Could this be the same one? Came through initially on widowdating.co.uk

      Mandy

      • Hi Mandy~
        I, too, have been chatting with a George (no middle name) Moose for 6 weeks now. Up until yesterday I hadn’t found any reason to doubt his story. I have even purchase a ticket to ‘meet his plane’ when he retires at the end of the month. Other than that (which is for me) I have not given or lent any money. I am just curious if we could swap photos to see if we have the same man. I am planning to ask fo rhis AKO address tonight, something I didn’t know about until I read that on this site today. Afterall, who would want to bring a bad light to a good American Soldier? I am floored by this terrible act of cruelty, bring bad light to our Servicemen and humiliating unsuspecting women.
        Thanks

        • Alas, it seems that I have been duped. I asked for the AKO address and he cannot give it for ‘security reasons’!

        • I have been talking to a George R Moose since Feb, due to leave the USA army shortly due to 30 years of service completed. He has only just asked for money. Which I have not sent.

        • I have been talking to George Moose told me his middle name Richardson told he was in Iraq and was retiring and he wanted me to marry him .
          Yes he asked me for money and I did send him some hes a scammer believe me he is .
          I feel bad you buy a ticket he told me he was in London England said customs was holding his luggage needed money for food .please dont be fooled by him Esther

      • I have been talking to George R Moose but have a different yahoo address. if any one can swap pics of their George R Moose I will post the address if found to be the same person

        • I to have been talking to a George Richardson Moose and have pics and I also have a different address

        • i have many photo,s of george and his son!. he say,s he is in Kandarhar! due to leave in 3 moths time (3 months ago).. will swap photo,s to catch this scum!!!!

      • Hi
        I too joined widowdating and had George Moose contact me. Like you – endless talk of love. I was suspicious especially when i found a George Moose on Facebook – mentioned it and he denied it. I also asked him where in the US he lived – he said Florida, Miami but the George Moose on Facebook says he comea form Illnois. He is asking for my tel no to prove he is genuine – what a laugh! Also he talks in a sort of broken english. Am so glad I came onto this site.

        • Hi Diane and co

          I too think I am a ‘victim’ of George Richardson Moose…
          Did he tell you his parents were killed in a car accident, that his wife cheated on him, she ‘stole’ his money making him penniless. claimed undying love for you?
          Regrettably, I only found out about all the lies after being duped into parting with a considerable amount of money that I can’t afford to part with, and he’s still wanting MORE.
          He’s ‘retiring’ at the end of the month and supposedly making a go of things…
          I feel stupid and violated and can’t believe people would abuse the genuine heroes that are in the army. He’s even gone so far to tell me his ‘fellow’ soldiers were seriously injured in a mission they were on.
          If you have any photos of this parasite, could you forward as I want to see justice done where he’s concerned.
          I too am glad I found this site, tho a little to late…

      • hello,girls!!! adina,Janet,LuanneSanndiMichelle,,Loren,Sharon,nikki,,,,George richardson Moose it is scammer,i finde it too. i still on line with him,,, but seems he feel that i know that.He is in London airpor,,,,no… he told to me he is in dubai,,,and hate arabs,,,he have got trubbles with his luggage,,, he is lying.Iam from LOndon.And i am thinking,he is not the same person on the picture…he is using somebody’s picture,He is not brave enaf to show his face,shame on him

        • @ Ziwa

          You spell and speak just like they do…

  39. This is from SGT roger wade smith sgtroger.smith@yahoo.com. He goes by Wade. “Am Sargent Roger Smith, Am originally from turkey but i spent my whole life in state… Am presently here in Iraq for peace keeping and i stationed in Baghdad’s in Iraq… My work in military is to search for terrorist hide out and to detect bomb areas
    My Hair color: Light Brown
    My Height: 6′ 3″
    My marital status: Single
    have just only one daughter:Tracy she 15years of age and she is pretty, very kind and caring
    My date of birth June 10 1964
    I live in: Baltimore MD
    i have pets: dog and house
    I am most complimented on: as a good listener or something like that
    Favorite dessert: Bread and butter pudding, Pizza
    What i do for fun? swimming, playing basketball, camping, fishing and playing with my family at home..
    My favorite movie or book: Novel, Adventure movies and Romance movies..
    My favorite color is: navy blue
    I love going dress shopping or shoe shopping with my woman
    The kind of music i like most are: country music, R&B and blues
    i can dance, like going to concert, i like traveling, i watch sports on TV and i listen to news and i love going to Cinema..tell me about yours too and if you still have anything to ask me always be free to ask because am a very simple and gentle man…so about you too…and please tell me things you know about military and do you you have any family in army or others?

    Roger”

  40. Beware Sgt. Aaron Ramos profile and pic on
    seniorpeoplemeet..
    Also has anyone been contacted by a Senior airman Jeff Greg Hardy age 56, birthdate 12/28 has two daughters, was in Iraq. He says He lives in Philadelphia PA.

    • Betty,

      He just scammed me on that site under the name of Alex Tock. He also has 2 other profiles posted under HAGGERMAN on the site that I have just reported. He goes by the names of Robert William Haggerman, Chris Haggerman, Patrick Burke Smith (the photos in this blog match the ones I received for Alex Tock) but in reality is poor Aaron Ramos.

      THIS GUY MUST BE STOPPED.

      • Do you mean ramos or jeff g hardy or are they the same could you please send me the pics that you have
        thank you i have been talking with this Jeff for a year and half.

    • This is the best one yet. I’m laughing my ass off.

      56 yrs old and still Senior Airman ? For reference, E-3.
      A person who didn’t advance in the ranks is shown the door rather quickly.

      SCAM SCAM SCAM … Bold face SCAM.

      • @ Joe I see you have placed adds here for your services for a small 3 dollar donation on a blog that isnt even yours so tell us what can you do that CJ doesnt do already Please enlighten us while I go to spokeo and reverse search your email address please let us all know even my Husband wants to see this and he is Military.
        We will wait Lol

  41. i all so am in love wiyh some in army but set up yahoo acount. he has made me dought him when i saw his face book acount. its posted privet he emails mails me every day he said hes in iraq but i queition this please help me find out the truth before it goes any further thanks

  42. This Aaron Ramos has been trying to woo me – says he is Command Sergeant Major Flint Kennedy – but when he sent me a photo of him in his fatigues -it said Ramos on it when I zoomed in on it – he’s the one here in the photos above. Says he is in Baghdad and is going to retire at the end of the month – has a 13 year old son and his wife died 4 years ago. He has been emailing me for approx. 3 weeks. Never asked for money -but he knows I am onto him.
    -

    • Hi Barbara

      I have sent pictures to Tina about the same guy, going by the name of Leonard Raymos, if possible I would be interested in seeing the ones you have and comparing them, have you posted them on here in his military unifom?

    • He also goes under the name of Mchillary Donnel on Facebook…he only has a few friends and everyone of them (apart from the poor female friends) are scammers.
      I have reported them all to Facebook so lets hope that gets rid of a few of them….until they pop up again using another name

    • don’t send him..he is a crazy scammer

  43. Dear Ladies and Men,

    I am writing on behalf of myself for what have happen to me…

    PLEASE READ ALL INFORMATION cause I myself was use from a scammer. He took me for $4000.00 and plus meaning all the Western Union cost and etc..

    He was posing as Col. Peter S Petronzino and I fell deeply in love with him. Yes, he was that damn good of a scammer.

    We chat for months and when I went to the airport to pick him up and coming from a family that have and still is serving in the service I had ways to contact to find out if he was on his flight. Guess what?? You got it. He was not on the the flight nor was his name on the list at the airport or any of the airlines in Texas.

    I stood at the airport looking like a damn fool on my bithday holding a sign for him welcoming him home….

    After that, I did not hear from him for a few days and when I did I cuss him out one ear to the other.

    He told me that he was back in the States but because the General and what the other department that does the retirement papers (which I still have all the fake papers from day one, letters from the General and EVERTHING) made a mistake cause it was in my name and they would not release him til I signed a marriage certif. and again I had to pay for it. Question??? Why could he go to the ATM, bank or what ever and pay????

    LMAO, I told him to go to hell.. cause I knew he was a scammer.

    Did I continue to keep in touch with him? Yes, I did cause I wanted to know know about him and I did. He told me he is a scammer and how he does it and why… I was trying to see if I could get some of my money back but what a joke!! He still lied with all his stories and I told him to go to F***ing hell and that I hope a pray that he gets caught and burn in HELL.

    So my point is?? DO NOT TRUST ANYONE on MySpace, Facebook and others including date sites cause they are there and out to get you and me.

    I have learn my lesson and if I get an email the first thing that I do is read and study.. Sure not everyone is a good speller esp me due to my hearing impairment but I learned the hard way and it has cost me deeply…

    BEWARE OF ALL DOCUMENT SENT TO YOU AND HAVE A MILITARY PERSONNEL READ IT BEFORE SIGNING AND SENDING MONEY!!!!!!!

    As far as calls, I dated a man that is in the Army and we met through Match.com. I gave him my number and it DOES come across on you caller ID United States. AND YES THEY CAN CALL YOU… Do what I did and call the number back and they will let you know if the call is for real or a lie… AND DO NOT fall for a phone service cause it is a scam… Trust me, I know.

    Beware of EVERYTHING…..

    I was raise as a military daughter and because of this I feel I have let my family down and the men and women that are serving for our country…

    As I can say for now is PLEASE BE CAREFUL CAUSE THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR KIDS OR FAMILY…

    Sunshine

    P.S. Due to the ASSHOLE that got me I am now working 2 jobs just to get myself out of what he has done to me… IT SUCKS!!!!!

  44. P.S. When reading the the emails from scammers they never use their name but will put their eamil address on the email.

    I now reply back after learning:

    Thanks for the nice email but I know that you are a scammer!!! You can not spell and your email does not relate to anything on my profile. Do not contact me cause you are NOW REPORTED.

    I had one guy who responded and he was very nice..

    Sorry if I have did anything wrong to you who is doing this website but you never returned any of my emails and most of them did not go through due to being busy so I was left on my own to take care of things. But, thank you for getting information out before someone else gets hurt like I did…

    HATE THOSE SCAMMERS WITH ALL MY HEART and wish that there was a way the Government could catch them.. LMOA that is a joke cause they are to busy spending our money and taking care of themselves

  45. Would like to inform all to be aware of scammer using the Title of Sergeant Major Aaron Ramos Edwards. He is using email under ronramos101@yahoo.com also has a 2 pages on Facebook. Under the name of Aaron Jay Ramos and Aaron Ramos Edwards. Has a friend called John Smith both are based in Kabul. These are scammers using US Army innocent soldiers. Please take care!

    Yoko!

    • Good Afternoon to all.

      First of all thank you for sharing your victimization. I just wanted to reply because I was also worked by a scammer not to long ago. I believe it was Aaron Ramos,but this is a victim of Identity theft the Real Aaron Ramos has been a victim of ID theft, he claim to be Albert D Ramos a 1st Stg officer, in the IRS Unit. He was righting love letters saying beautiful and I was falling in love,however I was feeling I little odd that I person that just seen my pics was falling so deeply inlove as he said he was. So, dispite the feeling that were growing within me I said to myself this is enough I have to share this with my best friend and this friend helped me discover that it was a scam I googled him and I found his photos, but with the surprise that it was in reality Aaron Ramos a real soldier that his ID was stolen to commit this scams.

      I know that it is very hard to admit that you have been a victim of a scamed because it makes you feel dumb, but your not. People like us that are good hearted can imagine that someone is not so honest. The bad thing is that he trust so easy and we give so much information, out there.

      God bless you and I hope that everything goes find.

      I thought everybody would like to know that what you all doing save me from being totally scamed, or fall commplitely in love with this person.

      Thank you!

  46. Beware Captain Mac Donald Bill captdonmac2000@yahoo.com !!

    He says he is from USA, but in his dating profile he stated he is from Sydney, Australia. There are pictures of him that suggests he is located in Pendleton. He sent me an introduction email including 4 photos. The IP address on his email revealed the email had been sent from Lagos, Nigeria. Folks, if you suspect the location of the person you are communicating with is somethine else, check the IP address in the email! (Google: IP tracer or tracker)

    Here is the intro email:

    Hello Dear,

    I have decide to take my time to write out this message to you and I will expect same back from you.hmm i lived in U.S right at this moment,in the beautiful city of Adams,Wisconsin where i had been for so long since the death of my Daddy and Mum.Really before my Dad passed away, we were living peacefully together, but on a official peace keeping mission in Dafur War Region, let me quickly phrase out this that my Dad and my mother are American. My father was from the Marine Military,My mother is a teacher.They both met on a trip down to Paris, they met each other and were friends till they were finally able to find true love which had led them together to have given birth to me. hmm they both were Christians, just like my Mother would say to me, that if my Daddy wasn’t a Christian she wouldn’t have agree to marry him when he proposed to her. We all were living peaceful before the death of my parents, Would tell you more when we get to know ourselves better so please don’t worry about it, i am only trying to be cautious of who i am dealing with, maybe when i know you enough alright? anyway to make it short, my parents and i lived alone in Adams, Wisconsin unfortunately,I lost my father on the line of duty, he was on the sea as a marine Major when he fell to the bullet of Jamaican Militant.His death made me to put more hard work in the U.S Army because he was given a state of heart burial and all his benefits was converted to me as a beneficiary, which will make me to get more benefits after I retire from my present job. It was so painful to recall this memory and after a year later my Mum to died of heart attack. My Mom and i live together in an apartment here before i travel back to my military base when i got deployment letter to join the war region for peace keeping in the country. I am the only child of my parents.
    Honestly she is very nice, kind, caring and loving Mother anyone would pray to have. She treats me in a very loving way like every good Mother would do.
    I have spent 20 good years in the Military,got rapid promotion due to my dedication to my work. I have been to some countries, mostly to lead the troop on peace keeping mission and aid relief mission. I am planing ahead for my future as I am looking forward to meet through right woman, so I can make my final decision to tender my resignation letter, in order to enjoy my new relationship and build a strong family.Now i must tell you what am looking for in a soul mate, someone i could call my own, a woman in whom i could invest my time, good deeds, seriousness. I know out there lies someone who has the nature of God inside of her, someone who would be ready to give 100% of herself. Of course i am not getting any younger as my age increases by year.I am 6’0 in height .. I do not smoke but drink socially. just looking for the rightful one now.Also this is the quality i seek in a woman,one who will be dedicated to being my wife, loyal, faithful and honest. One who knows what it means to being in love, one who is very affectionate, simple, easy going, fun to be with, caring, very sincere, very romantic, giving nature, tolerant home loving, hard working, reliable, with a sense of humor. One who will be a good Wife and who can take care of me and my one and only child.I will be willing to take care of you with the whole of my heart till death do us apart the moment i discover that you have same motive.Distance as always never been my problem and can also relocate too if need be for us to do that. I am tired, need some rest. I led the parade for the troop in my Base some minutes ago.I will want to read more about you too so we can get to know each other better.Can you send me more of your pictures so i can have that with me in here.
    Have a great day and waiting for your message.

    Warm Regards,
    Captain Mac Donald Bill.

  47. I was scammed by Rick Preze Witt whose real name I just found out is Sigmund Witt. Told me his wife and 2 children were killed in a car crash 3 years ago and that he has an adopted son who is in boarding school in West Africa. His picture is on the web site so please don’t let him scam you too. I met him on Match.com. He supposedly lives in Aspen, Co. Comes on strong, has a birthday coming up in order to get you to send him a present. Don’t do it!

    • hi donna,

      i read you 03.09.2011 blog about rick preze witt aka sigmund wit. there is a lot of scammers around that’s using sigmund witt’s pictures. i have a scammer that has been chatting with me and his name is christopher walsh witt. watch out for this man. he keeps asking me for money and he doesnt take no for an answer, but i never send him anything anymore.

      if you would like to compare pictures please email me. pleas ask annon for my email address. thank you donna.

      beth m.

  48. I met a guy on a dating site. That claims to be deployed in Iraq and needed help to come home to meet me that I was the only one he had is this world to help him and I believed him. Watch out for this guy scott_steven7524@yahoo.com. He isnt in the army when I quit talking to him he claimed to be hurt from a plane crash that went down in Iran. Told me he would find someone else to help him.

  49. Hi Girls A few months ago I also got a letter from Mac Donald !!!! He thought that was one name. His pic and letter ( almost exactly the same as Mimi’s letter ). Check it out on CJ’s Wall of Shame. I will continue to torment them every chance I get.Keep it up girls. We are more of a thorn in their side than you may think.

  50. Been Scammed by this Guy going by the name Sergeant Tom Collins Honolulu infantry team leader with company B 1st Battalion 27 Th infantry regiment Wolf Hounds 2ND Striker Brigade Combat Team Warrior 25Th infantry Division MND Kabul, he uses sgttomcollins@yahoo.com and sttomcollins4000@yahoo.com ….He has asked for money for a computer, Sent to address name:oyelowo babatunde
    19 elmham crescent.,l10 7LH,liverpool
    country;United Kingdom. He has also used armyprotalcall@rocketmail.com..Has asked me to give him my SS# to deposit 40,000. This guy was so good had me believing for a minute. But you can’t break a biker chicks heart we don’t have one to give. Found me on Bikerornot.com

  51. Hi All,

    After reading all these I am feeling much better. Watch out for SGT. Steven Bobby, Combat Engineering Dept, Weapons Repair, stationed in Kahbul, Afghanistan. Lost his wife to cancer 2 years ago and looking to fill his empty heart with love.

    This lowest of lows, scammed me out of $800.00 but I got sus. when he asked for more for flight payments and was able to stop the payment. I was told by the Military Dept. at The US embassy here in Australia that it was a scam.

    When confronted he played the guilt card and told me I didn’t trust him and had broken his heart. Then he got nasty. He uses Yahoo messenger id stevbobby@yahoo.com
    facebook email is stevbobby02@yahoo.com
    The below link will show you the identity he is using.
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=100305806715181&set=a.100225246723237.239.100002072850790

    If anyone out there recognises him please let me know. I’d be interested to know.

    I want you all to know, that you are all intelligent, rational people who have been scammed by some very clever people. These people are so good at what they do and when emotions are involved all rational thinking and reason goes out the window. So girls (and guys) Stand tall, heads held high and keep up the fight against these scumbags. Keep posting whatever you can find. We need to raise awareness to minimize the damage these lowlifes can do.

    Cheers All
    Too Trusting

  52. Ok All,

    I have another one for you, SGT James Wiseman, stationed in Afghanistan, do not Know alot about this one, but will keep you posted.

    Cheers

    Too Trusting

  53. Hi there my name is Cherie I have been getting emails to my Yahoo account, from a George Ray Colvin. Iam abit worried about if he’s a scammer or not. He said that he’s in the Third Infantry Division USA. He said he was stationed in Nigeria??? I dont if this is to be true. Please help.

    • Thank you so much for replying to my email CJ and for giving me the advice that you gave…May God bless you and your family…Cheer mate :) :):)

  54. Ladies, please listen to what I have to say. These scammers on dating sites such as Badoo and Meetic pose as military men. First clue they are generally widowed with a young son or daughter. After a very short conversation they want your email address so they can send pictures, and begin to call you names like honey, dearest, darling etc. Very shortly they will tell you you are the kind of women they are looking for. They send email with pictures and a long description of who they are. The use of the English grammer and spelling is very poor. Do you really think a high ranking US Army officer would talk like that?? They will want to talk constantly but would like to know what is the best time to talk, why, because you are not the only women they are talking to. Ever here “lost my internet connection” in the middle of a conversation that’s because you are not the only one they are talking to at that time. Soon they will give you a sob story about needing some money because their son/daughter has been in an accident or it’s their birthday and could you send some money which they will repay. Or they want to send a package to you containing very valuable possesions, gold, jewlry etc. They have no intention of ever repaying they just want money.
    Don’t give them your phone number, or any personel information. Ever wonder why they won’t appear on a web cam? Simple, because they are not who they say. They are probably black, young in a cyber cafe in Ghana or Nigeria not as they say for “security reasons”.
    I could add a lot more of warnings to this as I have been down this road many times. I bait them using phony pictures and talk with them and when they ask for money I nail them. Why??? if I am talking to them (as a very strong willed women)then they just may have less time to scam women who may be less vulnerable and not have my resolve.
    Any questions? Can I help someone? Sure hope so.

    • Hi has anyone heard of SGT Doug Green
      he is in Afgahnastan i met him on a christian website.
      I am not sure if he is a scammer or not. I am suspicious though. He will not use skype
      or can call it could be dangerous and said he cannot recieve care packages. I am thinking of asking for his ako email.

  55. My mother was almost taken by this guy on Facebook…Sgt Michael Wells. There’s more on him at: http://www.scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=22522

    Re: Sgt Michael Wells – Military Scammer

    Following are some of the emails that will be sent by the scammer pretending to be Michael;

    A prayer for you..

    At this time of the rising tide,Always remember God is by your side,guiding you through that steep hill,while you let him do his will.Place your burdens in his hands,
    though might be as grains of sands,trust in him and he will do the rest,for he alone, knows what is best.

    Joke for you…

    A large, powerfully-built guy meets a woman at a bar. After a number of drinks, they agree to go back to his place. As they are making out in the bedroom, he stands up and starts to undress. After he takes his shirt off, he flexes his muscular arms and says, “See that, baby? That”s 1000 pounds of dynamite!” She begins to drool. The man drops his pants, strikes a bodybuilder”s pose, and says, referring to his bulging thighs, “See those, baby? That”s 1000 pounds of dynamite!” She is aching for action at this point. Finally, he drops his underpants, and after a quick glance, she grabs her purse and runs screaming to the front door. He catches her before she is able to leave and asks, “Why are you in such a hurry to go?” She replies, “With 2000 pounds of dynamite and such a short fuse, I was afraid you were about to blow!”

    Just came back from the patrol,sat on the bed with my short on thinking how it would be to have you lying by my side……

    I know the signal sucks but we can get to know more about each other.

    Your Army Man
    Mike

    The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
    I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
    My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
    My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.
    Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
    Transforming the yard to a winter delight.

    The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
    Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.
    My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,
    Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
    In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
    So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

    The sound wasn’t loud, and it wasn’t too near,
    But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear..
    Perhaps just a cough, I didn’t quite know, Then the
    sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.
    My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
    And I crept to the door just to see who was near.

    Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
    A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.
    A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
    Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
    Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
    Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

    “What are you doing?” I asked without fear,
    “Come in this moment, it’s freezing out here!
    Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
    You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!”
    For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
    Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..

    To the window that danced with a warm fire’s light
    Then he sighed and he said “Its really all right,
    I’m out here by choice. I’m here every night.
    “It’s my duty to stand at the front of the line,
    That separates you from the darkest of times.

    No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
    I’m proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
    My Gramps died at ‘ Pearl on a day in December,”
    Then he sighed, “That’s a Christmas ‘Gram always remembers.”
    My dad stood his watch in the jungles of ‘ Nam ‘,
    And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

    I’ve not seen my own son in more than a while,
    But my wife sends me pictures, he’s sure got her smile.
    Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
    The red, white, and blue… an American flag.
    I can live through the cold and the being alone,
    Away from my family, my house and my home.

    I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
    I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
    I can carry the weight of killing another,
    Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
    Who stand at the front against any and all,
    To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall..”

    “So go back inside,” he said, “harbor no fright,
    Your family is waiting and I’ll be all right.”
    “But isn’t there something I can do, at the least,
    “Give you money,” I asked, “or prepare you a feast?
    It seems all too little for all that you’ve done,
    For being away from your wife and your son.”

    Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
    “Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
    To fight for our rights back at home while we’re gone,
    To stand your own watch, no matter how long.
    For when we come home, either standing or dead,
    To know you remember we fought and we bled.
    Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
    That we mattered to you as you mattered to us..”

    PLEASE, would you do me the kind favor of sending this to as many
    people as you can? Easter will be coming soon and some credit is due to our
    U.S service men and women for our being able to celebrate these
    festivities. Let’s try in this small way to pay a tiny bit of what we owe. Make people
    stop and think of our heroes, living and dead, who sacrificed themselves for us.

    Mike

  56. These scammers use pictures of U.S. Military soldiers, indicating it is their picture. This of course is a lie. There is a web site that can identify the real men from the pictures the scammers use. The web site is called Tineye.com. Upload the picture they sent you to this site and if the picture is in the data base the name of the real soldier will come up. Anyone need any help with this let me know I will try to help.

    • please could you help me with this tina

    • Tina can you help me check if there is really a David Drake Honeyman from Fort Collins , Colorado springs

      • Hi Diane,
        Did u find out any information on David Drake Honeyman? I have been talking to him for months now and i dont know what to believe. bren

        • I have been talking to David Honeyman for a few weeks… He was supposed to be divorced for 5 years, have a son in New Jersey, raised in Colorado Springs, but moved to Winnipeg last year… be retired in 6 months…

  57. Hello tina
    ive got pictures too
    i went on tineyes but they saying that i need to download and suscribe and i dont like it to much.so please if you can answer me and tell me where i could sent you the pic that you can look i will be happy to leave you my msn and give it to you from there .im searching for weeks now and im going a bite crazyabout all this (i didnt send any money by the way)and i really need to find the guy on pictures.thanks a lot
    reagrds
    chantal

  58. I also have pictures. I tried it on Tineye .. but without results…

    • I have tried tineye as well without results

      • I also was scammed. I have pictures that I tried on Tineye- but nothing was found.

  59. Sgt.Aaron Ramos, aka Leonard Ramos, aka Ron Ramos, same guy operating under all of the above names. Ron Ramos on Military Dating site as well as camp Shelby Singles dating site and undr Military cupid site. I have pictures of him in military uniform, with a friend in military uniform as well, could this be the friend. Not sure how to post these pictures on here for all to see. Definitely looks like the Aaron Ramos photo’s on here. Tried to scam, but I was already onto him, same sob story…What gets me is these dating site all expect you to pay for it but take no precautions to check. Military cupid now has a photo verification which helps. If the guy in the photo is Aaron Ramos and is ok with his photo been used by scammers, surely the military should take action?? Devoting a little more of time only to shutting down this guy for once and for all…

    • I am communicating with a supposed Sgt Major Aaron Edward Ramos says he is in Afghanistan Zone. I have sent my phone numbers as he asked to speak with me says he has a house in Paris and one in the UK, he is suppose to be a widower, a daughter 15 at school somewhere I have sent pictures to him and he has sent pictures to me. Alarm bells rang today when he asked me to pay the 300 dollars to western union for phone connection and it would be refunded once connection was made I have told him I do not have the money and my answer was a definate NO. How can you tell if a genuine person is on the other end of an email or if they are scammers.Can the military investigate these scammers I’m not stupid and would like the military to put and end to this …..

    • hi i have been chatting to an arron ramos , he says hes a widower his wife was killed in a car crash with his baaby son . his 6yr old daughter lives with his mother

      • I HAVE CHATTED TO HIM ALSO HAVE SOME PIC BUT HE TOLD ME HIS WIFE CHEATED ON HIM WITH HIS FRIEND SO HE BEEN DIVORCED 8 YEARS NOW WHAT A MESS .. DONT TALK TO HIM NOMORE JUST NEVER REPLYED BACK .aka..Sgt Richard Ramos x

        • I also was fooled by this guy. He is know to me as Sgt. Micheal M (Ramos) Johnson, Sgtjohnson1011@yahoo.com. He claims to be widowed 6yrs. with a daughter 18yr. here name is Susan and his home is in Denver Colerado he is also claiming to be going home in March 2012. He asked me for money through western union and when I refused he got mad. I called him on his stuff a few times but he just brushed it off. I cant believe I let some creep see me on webcam. I fell for the army man and I let him know that if he was real that was the guy I had feelings for. I wish these scummy people could get caught and I wish there was a way of making them public on facebook. There should be a flashing post of army scammers on our homepage so we can check them right away, instead of searching stuff after. Not all of us woman think to do this till it is to late. I didnt lose money to hi, but he scarred me for life. I have blocked and reported him on facebook and I will do the same on yahoo but there are still a lot of ladies out there getting hurt as well. I wish I could talk to the real man in the photo, he is hot lol. Thanks for listening to me and all you ladies take care.

    • He is now going under the name of Mchillary Donnel on Facebook

  60. Okay, Chantal, Collette and Pam and anyone else who needs pictures identified you can send them to me and I will try to tell you who they are. Send to Somewhere1941@live.ca.
    Glad to help if I can.

    • Hi again Tina
      if i clic under your name there and send you the image ,it doesnt work ,its always the same error code,so i just send you a email to add you on my contact on msn,had me please just for the time that i cant give you all the pictures.my email started by dauphin……
      Thanks again for your help
      Regards
      Chantal

    • Oh thanks i will send you some and see if you can tell me thanks .

  61. P.S. best pictures to try to identify are those in their dress uniform, perhaps it is the official army photo.

  62. Thank you very much Tina for your help! I’ll send them.

  63. Is there a way of finding out who the real soldiers are???

  64. I too have been scammed by a guy named William Smith Draper, an Army officer in Afghanistan, I lost my heart but not money…He’s back on Smartdate as Dennis/CMDJoe yahoo messenger this time he has two kids a girl and boy and is from lakeland Florida…watch out he’s good and I hope he gets caught…I found out what to look for from this site and other women like me…

  65. Thanks for your help Tina, it is much appreciated. Will send them.

  66. Update on Aaron Ramos,

    Well I have come across Aaron Ramos on myspace. The photo’s that I have are displayed in his albums. Now I am really confused, Is this guy the real guy in the photo’s and the scammer Leonard Ramos has taken them from him? Or is the scammer this guy Aaron Ramos? Can anyone help…confused…

    • yes i googled him and his pics were the same but what hes was telling me didnt match what was on google

    • but that same guy also goes by richard Ramos ..

  67. update on aaron ramos, cpt patrick burcke smith

    hi, his name now is jason ramos and he told me that he is a colonel of the 12th infantry Regiment in afghanistan. he has his profile on the dating platform “b2″. don’t be confused….. you are not alone!!!!!! just do not think about the person behind any longer!!!!!

    • Patrick is now Robert Kessler

  68. Thanks barbara, good to have another name added, dont think about him at all just curious as to why the site on myspace and where all the pictures seem to be coming from has not been closed down by someone yet??

  69. Hello All, I one of the growing people from the u.k. that has been scammed by men claiming to be a US solider and now i have about 5 on the go trying to get something from me ! I’m sorry I didn’t get to read this before I sent money even when I thought it felt wrong, but I glad i found this site it shows that there are really good people all around the world that have been caught out the same as me and there is light at the end of the tunnel and things get better ! so if you need a list and photos of the men I have chasing for money please let me know and I’ll post them to you
    thanks for being here I’m hoping to stop anyone else from getting hurt

    • Hi Alison,

      I am in contact with a supposed American soldier calling himself George Moose. I have some pictures of him. Could we compare notes please. Would really like to find out if this guy is genuine or a scammer.

      Thanks

      Heike

      • Hi Alison
        George Moose is a scammer – if you read earlier posts – he is mentioned. I was chatting to him for a couple of months – got suspicious because of his bad grammer.

    • I also have photos of 4 different guys if anyone wants to have a look let me know .

      • Hi maria could you send them to me, i have been talking to one for 3 months but as yet have not seen his picture any where thans karen k.shutt@hotmail.co.uk

      • maria can i see those pictures so i can see if that is the same man whom i chat..he is also asking money from me and be send to ghana via western union.he wants me send to him right away…he has a son with browny hair whose so cute..he promises me too much..actually from the start i have already doubts because he is so fast he has so many promises…but when he ask me money from me i didnt give in..only time i wasted to him..

  70. I am writing again to tell you that the guy who was writing me first said his name was: Kennedy Flint – or Flint Kennedy. When he sent me his picture in fatigues – it was Ramos and now – finally I got him to admit that he was from Accra – Ghana – is black and 27 years of age, his name is Kwame and he admitted he stole poor Sgt. Aaron Ramos’s pictures – which I too found on his My Space page. I told this guy I have never been scammed before – or will I ever be scammed and that I would never give him any money and he decided to come clean and tell me everything because I am a nice person. (yeah right). Prior to me telling him that – he never did ask me for money but I suppose he was gearing up to it. He even sent me a picture of himself and he is a very black young man who didn’t look at all like this Ramos guy. I also want to say that – I am in my mid 50′s and my husband and I split up after 31 years of marriage because he found a young woman. Hence – I got on these online dating sites because I/we are lonely and very vulnerable and want to meet someone fast. Loneliness can do terrible things to ones self esteem and when someone shows interest in you and says nice things to you when you haven’t heard anything like it in a long time – you are prone to succumb to this kind of thievery. My heart goes out to everyone who has lost money and self esteem. So – really what WE have done is fall for a picture of someone because of our vulnerability. I now have spent many hours researching and researching about these scammers and they say this is far bigger money than the drug war. I might also give some advice if I may; inthat when I set my email account— I put my first name as Barbara and my last name as another first name —- so no one but no has my last name. I never give out my last name. (just in case). I own a business and thank God I had enough sense to do that, just in case and I encourage everyone not to give their last names to anyone. I also let people who know when they get in touch with me through on-line dating that I basically require name, rank and serial number before I ever communicate. What also struck a cord with me was that they wanted to get off the internet dating sites to go live on IM and I realized that they were probably allowed to go free for a day on the internet dating site and that’s all they needed to get someone like myself. When I tried to go back on that dating site on their profile – it had disappeared and that’s how I knew they were probably using someone else’s identity. Man you really got to do your homework. It is extremely hard for us woman who face loneliness whatever the reason or situation you are in and I hope that maybe there are other people who read and research sites like this before they are scammed out of their life savings. Please check YouTube as well. I would be more than happy to email anyone who would like to hear from me. Best regards Barbara from Canada

    • hello i would like to hear from you i have a story to
      i am very sad and feel misused
      didn’t know that could existe pleace , take contact with me

      schmit.chantal@skynet.be

  71. Barbara, I would like to talk with you (also, a Canadian).

    • Tina
      Please give me your email and I will email you.
      Barbara

  72. Barbara it’s somewhere1941@live.ca, we got some things in common when it comes to scammers I think.

  73. A photo of a man who said he was Col Robert Wood also goes by the name of Sgt Damian Padmore. Claims he is coming to see you when he is finished in Iraq. Said he wanted to send me a lot of money because he felt I needed it more than him He had my address but i dont live there anymore. He told me the Diplomat would contact me in a few days when he arrived in Sydney. I was contacted by the so called diplomat Mohammad Hassan in Ghana that he needed $3000 for stamps for his passport when i said i didnt have it not that he was getting any money Damaian suddenly arranged that payment then i was asked to pay the hotel bill well i told damian that the diplomat could rot there in Ghana for all i cared. I talked to this man quite often and he showed his face on cam. Also said he had a daughter in the US Sorry I cant remember where he said he lived

  74. Has anyone been contacted by a Captain Philip C. Grishen?

    • Stacy, can you send me photos of Grishen? I have a feeling my photos are being used again.

      • I did send an email to your cj@soldiersperpectives.com email. The subject header reads: Another victim…Captain Philip C. Grishen real or fraud?

        I appreciate your response. I sure had fun tracing all the IP addresses…I narrowed down the source to a place in Slough, England this morning (I think). Lots of IP’s to trace as evidence in my case.

        I appreciate all your help and I hope it helps other ladies as well.

  75. hi i was wondering if you could check out a couple of people claimimg to be us soliders one is a sgt brian ray who is serving in sharna afganstain and he has a son named richard the next one is a sgt mcdonald peterson he is sevring in iraq and has a 12 year old son and then thers lingo martins he is a computer operater

    • Got any pictures of these guys?

    • Jenn, here’s the one who sent me a Facebook request (that I refused to accept, but I did respond to his messages, hoping I could report as a fake soldier; however I finally tired of his ridiculous messages and told him that I suspected that he was a fake soldier and IF I found out that he was I would help the authorities prosecute him. I told him I was NOT interested in him beyond being a pen pal even if he wasn’t a fake soldier. I never heard from him again. I have not seen his name or photo pictured anywhere on line; however, based on his inability to write grammatically correct English, although he said he was from NY, and based on my gut feeling, he is a fake soldier! Check out his Facebook page and photos: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001906247616&sk=wall .

      • Forgot to give you the name he is using on Facebook: John Mc Fletcher. I did write a few of his “FB friends” warning them that they may be contacted by fake US soldiers, without using his name. One wrote me back that this guy had bee professing his love for her and wanting to see her, etc., etc. She, too, suspected that he was a fake soldier. I pray that his FB friends have not been fleeced by him IF he is a faker.

        May God bless the families of the REAL heroes who were killed over the weekend. So sad. I hope our troops are brought home soon. CJ, thanks for the time you are investing in warning these victims about these scumbags.

  76. Can some one please help me i have been talking to a man named Sgt Peter Walker and i have gave 400:00$ to be able to talk with him on the phone i also have been given photos. I just want to find out if he is real.because if he is a scamer he is really good because he sent me a gift can some please help me.

  77. I would like to know if you have any information on a SFC Ryan Dauger. I have been emailing him for about 2 weeks. He claims to be in Iraq and is station in Killeen Tx at Ft Hood. He claims to be coming back to the states in October of this year. He sent me a list of his military career. Please send me an email if you have any information on this soldier if he exist or not. He hasn’t ask for any money, but he did ask if i could help him get a satellite phone.

    Thanks

    • The phone thing is a scam. If you send me the pictures I may be able to tell you who the real soldier is somewhere1941@live.ca

    • My apoligize to everyone who has seen this, he is a real solider and i’m sorry if i brought attention to this solider by mistake. He is a good man and a find solider. He is serving his country with honor.

      • He is a scam he ask women to get him items states if they don’t get them for him then they are not serious about the relationship. he also has some who is working with him to get satellite phone by the name of susan tucker her add is 2 Jalan Stesen Sentral, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.
        Don’t believe anything this guy says to you he not real. I had a friend who does investagation work and couldn’t find anything on this guy at all. No military record, SS# or drivers license. So be careful out lady and gentleman there are alot of scammers that is taking advance of our military soldier both active and fallen.

      • This person is a scammer. He asks women to give him items like satellite phone, iPod, money, etc. He responds back if you are unable to get the items he states you are not serious about the relationship. He is working with some how claims to be ex-military Susan Tucker she give and address to send money to for satellite phone to 2 Jalam Stesen Sentral, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. If she is real the address she provides can be googled, but googles does have that street name in Malaysia. Be careful ladies and gentleman don’t fall for the men and women who are portraying our soldier who are fighting for our country and to maintain peace in the world. This man has tried to scam my friend

  78. Hi CJ,

    Further to my previous comment, here is my alleged Captain’s facebook profile link:

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/profile.php?id=100001998512421

    I hope you can find this guy, if not you and tell him his identity has been compromised.

    Thanks.
    Stacy

  79. kevin stewart is in iraq kirkuk and i am already chat with him for a few months
    is every person of this kind a scammer are none one true story of them ????

  80. Got contacted by Sgt Aaron Ramos Peterson uses email sgtramospeterson@yahoo.com hes a lying basterd just after womens money his ip adress is based in NIgeria dont think hes in military i understood abt not having pay for leave live right next a millitary base my sisterinlaw works on sev familys in church i go to are military these creeps give bad rotten name those who are fighting a bad name . Scum like this arent fit to be on face the earth .

  81. he uses 3 same pics even on his yahoo site

  82. The names these guys give you are fake, just like the pictures they use. Everything they tell you is just made up, there are no kids etc.
    They usually start by contacting you on a dating site or Facebook, want to talk on MSN or Yahoo. Send long emails and fake pictures.
    Tell you they are widowers with a child.When talking on MSN/Yahoo they dissappear during a conversation for long periods of time. Then tell you they got disconnected. They are in fact talking with other women at the same time. Don’t think you are the only one they are talking to.
    They have many profiles on many different Dating Sites, use many different names and email addresses.
    Does any of this sound familiar???

  83. Yes it all does. will it never end????

  84. Did the guy you have been talking to give you his phone number?
    The website below will give you country codes and area codes for any country.
    You will be able to tell where the call comes from if he gave you his number or it came up on your call display.

    example Ghana – 011 (country code) 233 (area code for all of Ghana)dialing from Canada or the USA is the same.

    http://www.howtocallabroad.com/ghana/

  85. is there no possibilyty any one is right
    i am chatting already 3 month with kevin stewart
    and get many pict and also 3 different phonennumbers
    one of a finance man
    one of a care taker of his children
    even his adres in usa
    pleace answer me

    • if the phone # starts with 233 that is Ghana 234 is Nigeria.

      • yes the numbers are start +233
        i did send an email to the school where the children chould go but they don’t anwer
        i am very sat and don’t know anymore what to think or say

        pleace can someone say me if no of those mans are true

  86. ..hi i have been talking to a US soldier Major Benson Tom,deployed in Iraq,i have pictures of him, how to know he is the real man?????

    • Hi did you ever find out who he was and if so how I would like to look up leo bramble….

  87. Ladies:

    With a little more sleuthing, I’ve discovered there is a network of people involved in this…I’ve been able to trace IP’s from various spots in the world that all hone into Nigeria as originating spot for the Soldier Love scandals. In my particular case I have been able to ascertain that IP’s 41.138.160.0 to 41.138.191.255 come from Nigeria and come from AFRINIC. Then if I use readnotify.com, I’ve been able to also find an originating IP out of the UK on a Blackberry with this IP: 93.186.31.80. I’ve also been able to trace other emails, from the same “Captain Philip C. Grishen” to IP’s in the Dominican. If you ever receive an email from darfurusadmindept@mail2army.com, that IP is in New York…so as you can see there is a global network at play. It makes it very hard for authorities to nail just one person, but knowledge is power. Look for the IP’s ladies and you’ll be able to start connecting the dots. I hope this little bit of information helps you all do your own sleuthing. If you add sign up for readnotify.com you’ll be able to verify all this information yourselves. Good luck to all!

    • seems I can’t find IP’s because I run Safari and it won’t work with Safari. Got any ideas. My scammer was from Ghana. I know that for a fact as he has called me from a # 233 (Ghana) These guys are everywhere.

    • met Captain Philip C Grishen there….and was fooled completely by him

  88. Hello I need help as well

    • what kind of help?

  89. They use an agent named Rose Taveras- Markham Toronto

    and an agent named Adelakun Adewole- Osogbo- Nigeria–

    to collect money from western union, and moneygram

    BE CAREFUL LADIES HE IS SMOOTH

  90. Oh so Captain Philip C. Grishen, does get around!

    And to think that they use “God” in their dialogues to get a person sucked in.

    This Rose person has an address of apparently 16 Wickham Court in Markham…I know this because I almost fell for the send money thing. If anyone has done the Facebook search for “Captain Philip C. Grishen” – he was recently removed by request (my request).

    Keri, can you email me the picture of Captain Grishen so we can compare notes? slmatthes@hotmail.com. Thanks.

    • This person Rose was likely being scammed as well. Scammers often ask the victin to send money to another women, who in turn passes it on to the scammer that way you can’t trace the payment. It’s called money laudering.

  91. pleace could you help me if those persons are fake or real
    his name is STEWART KEVIN born 02.05.1970 he should stay at the moment in Iraq , kirkurk

    he is an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non-commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military…

    I am currently stationed in Iraq , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Baghdad was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005.

    SOLOMON,DAVID,MAVIS,MABLE….. those are the names of the kids
    this is the ADDRESS :1685 19th avenue
    CITY :river side , albion california

    this is the HOSPITAL where the children are some times : Trust Hospital, Accra
    this is the SCHOOL off the children from kevin stewart : Lincoln Community School, Accra Ghana i did contact them on email but they don’t answer me if the kids are staying there
    ADDRESS: F315/2 OSU,ACCRA,GHANA
    TELEPHONE:+233248929849 the phone nr of the car taker from the kids of kevin stewart in ghanna his name is precious obosseay
    wilhem fritz is the finance man of kevin stewart : phone nr +033248929849

    kevins stewart email is wastydon@hotmail.com

    the care taker man email livingstar22@hotmail.com (name rellinger solomon)

    the finance man email Fritz Wilhelm wil_hem@live.com
    can someone help me

    my

    • Hi Chantal
      Looks pretty familiar …Used to chat with a fack military man ,saying the same thing as you ,as one kid schooling in ghana,him statione in irak for 10 months either,suppose to come back in 3 months,he cought his wife with another man when he came back from first mission ,ect ect he was using name on ocansey1woods@hotmail.com,his son its elijha,his brother supposed to be with his kid in ghana but soon he will go to china for work and gonna have accident …so if its looks familiar to you just reply and i will send you my msn name to check pictures with you ,I past and turn page already coz its not worted but if i can help ive got few pictures..one close to choper ,one in office,one at home etc ect ..so just reply and will see if he is the same military man (Fackkkkkk)..talk to you soon
      regards chantal

  92. …Hi,everybody…unfortunatelly, the same story…so similar with others!!!
    Did anybody hear from Greg Howell???…military contractor from Denver Colorado, working for DynCorp International…finacee died being pregnant in a car accident!!!…he supposelly coming back from Afganistan in July…he asked for money for Sattelite phones and scrambler for us to communicate …i didn’t give any…i do have pictures and i wish some advise where to send these pictures so women will know it is a scamm.
    Thank you.

  93. can you send me the pict i will see if i know him i did already found many
    schmit.chantal@skynet.be

    • Love to send you pic of Leo bramble ….find out who he really is!!!

  94. TINA I SENDE YOU ALSO AN EMAIL WITH PICT BUT YOU DO NEVER ANWER
    why

    • No tina you never got back to me after i sent pictures

  95. The Sgt Major Aaron Edward Ramos I am communicating with at the moment was on Zoosk dating site one day only I have pictures of this person can I find out if this is the SCAMMER who can I email these pictures to?????? I feel stupid because I sent my pictures to him and also phone numbers. I haven’t lost anything money or myself to this person on words and some time.

    • I can try to look at your pictures and identify, not always sucessful though. send to… somewhere1941@live.ca

    • i just went back on dating sites after talking to someone foe three months. I was just checking out his profile when he IM me within 2 minutes checking out his profile. I asked him why he didn’t have any pics yet and he said he was new to the site. He asked me for my email address and I told him because of what I went through I wasn’t going to give it out. After a few minutes he came back and told me I could email him at ramos.arron17@yahoo.com Of course it’s not real. In the morning I checked to see if he was still on Match and he removed his profile.I believe it may have been the same person I was talking to for three months. His questions that he asked seemed like he already knew me. If u can email me the pics of who u have it would be helpful. Like all these women. This needs to stop. It puts a bad name on our service men that r true and serving our country.

      • I am dealing with Aaron Ramos Ssith Now. I wish some one would help me. Im reading all these storys,I cant believe what I am reading! This man told me his wife died in car crash 4 years ago. Has a daughter 12. Lives with his mother, While he is in Afghanistan.(Kabul) His tour is up in June. He wants to get Married! He does not even know me. I dont know whare to turn. Lori

  96. say’s he’s in darfur region peace keeping
    he can’t scype or call me and now wants 1ooo dollars to come over and see me is this a scarm

    • You bet it is, dont send him money. He is likely a scammer.

  97. Chantal, Carol, Helen and anyone else that is wanting to know if the pictures they received are real soldiers or are they being used by scammers. Pictures I received from some of you I can’t identify because I’ve never seen these guys before or wearing sun glasses, face isn’t clear etc. However, on the right hand side of this page uner the heading CATEGORIES there is a page called PHOTO PERSPECTIVE. Go to Photo Perspective and you will find dozens of pictures of the real soldiers that are being used by scammers. Is your scammer’s picture there????

  98. Any one else beside me that went for this one??
    He uses the name Steve England,st.england@live.com
    Sais he comes from Chicago and has a house in London.One son and divorced. Based in Iraq. Had his 50th birthday,the 26th of March 2011.
    Skype id: anaho 11
    Use a diplomat with the name Henry Peterson,
    henry.peterson@diplomats.com as his contact.
    Haven’t gotten any good pictures of him so this one I’m sending to you is the only one I’v got, but it looks pretty familiar with the ones I found on Kenneth Steven England and that info did match.
    Only thing he got from me was an used phone but
    now I’m waiting for an fake Mr Peterson to show up with the fake Mr Englands luggage which will contain 15 piece of goldbars include some of his stuff. In return Mr England wants me to give Peterson an amount for the help he has been
    giving England through the years and of course I’m gonna get that back when England comes and get his stuff.
    All I want to give is barrel of a 45 !!!
    I’m sure there will be nothing more to this and I won’t give away a single penny. So all I gave away was my trust and a used phone, could have been worse but anyways I won’t trust one more single person in my way because of it.

    • Tried to send a mail to CJ but not sure if it’s going through. There are a picture in it I really would like you to have.

  99. I am also a victim of Lt.Aaron Ramos of the 82nd SF division of the United States of America Army, Kabul,Afghanistan with the service ID-US273555. He is now a member of http://www.findloveasia.com. He has one daughter. He is telling me that someone needs to write the Headquaters Department of Army Transit Department so that he can visit me in my country. The one who will processed the approval is Col. Steve Smith..

    • That’s a scam, he will ask you to pay for something, don’t do it, no payback ever.

      • REALLY IT IS A SCAM AND I WAS A VICTIM OF THIS DEVIL,CRIMINAL,BASTARD PERSON…

  100. Somebody became my skype friend a while ago under name Gary S. Patton. We did not talk much for a long time but recently he began to chat very often. His English is awful and he is making tons of spelling mistakes. The way he uses English is also not appropriate for a General! I am coming from a military family as well so it didn’t took me long to figure out that he was fake:)
    But real Maj. Gen. Gary S. Patton is really cute on all those websites, so when women google this name, a charming guy appears!

    • do you have a picture of Gen. Gary S. Paton???

  101. Ladies watch out for a Sgt Rob (Robert) Grey from New York who is currently stationed in Baghdad Iraq…..he is a smooth talking scammer to… along with his friend from Face book Chris Connon who is also in the service. Both are fake and have had their Facebook accounts taken down. These people are evil…..

    • And updated post about Robert Grey is here: http://militarygear.com/asp/2011/03/28/still-scamming/

      • CJ-
        If it wasn’t for you, this site and my friend Erin (reply dated 20 April 2011) I’d still be a victim of Robert I Grey. Not only have I received the same letter/request from Deployed embark us army, I also received the same exact love letter from him! Ha! What a tool this liar is! I have another letter from a satellite phone communications company, I have names and addresses on who funds should be sent to via western union (of course)to help get him home, get him a satellite phone etc.etc.etc. I have additional love letters that read like a Hallmark card that would make any woman melt. I have enough info to make a very, very long comment here-I just wanted to check with you first.
        CJ I’m furious! And I am making it my life’s mission to make sure nobody else gets their heart ripped out of their chest the way I did by this idiot. Please advise on how you want this info sent.

        • Andrea, I’m glad you found us. The best thing you can do is contact your local media and tell your story. I bet there are other women in your area probably being scammed and don’t realize it. The way we can beat this is to educate the public through the media. It’s hard, but your story must be told and it may help prevent someone else from losing their life’s savings.

        • Hi CJ,
          I was wondering if u have any pics still of this Robert Grey or any letters u may have.

  102. Sgt. Robinson James – the same scammer!! He claims he’s a UK soldier in Afgahnistan. His wife died in a plane crash travelling from Malaysia, he has no family he knows.
    First he wrote me on Facebook than we were exchanging emails.
    I’m glad I’ve found this site!!

  103. Parts of my story sound familiar to above posts. Met an “Army” guy through Are You Interested? Says he is statioed in Gaza. No mention of being transferred or sent elsewhere. His name is James Smith and uses james_carter164@yahoo.com. Requested me to sign up with Yahoo Messenger. Initial email through facebook stated his ex cheated on him with his best friend. Also says he has a 12 year old son Kelvin. Said he would relocate for love. Originally said he has 1 month left to come home. Now, it’s five months. We have chatted every day, although he signs on to messenger invisible. Today, he asked how I would feel if he were able to come home tomorrow. He had previously asked me to write his Commander to help him come home. Said it would be better from a wife or fiance, which I told him I am neither. When asked if he was looking for someone to be with or someone to help him come home, he was “hurt” and said he didn’t need me for leave. Today, he asked me to borrow money so he could come home because if he is approved to leave early he would have to sponsor himself home. When I told him I didn’t have it (no way I was sending my hard-earned money), he said it was okay. To see if he was scamming, I asked him if I could come up with the money, how would I get it to him. He said I would have to send it to the Troop Welfare Department. I tried to find the website he gave me “troopswelare@gazatroops.com”. Anyone heard of this site? No way I’m sending money but I need to know if he is for real. Real charming, intelligent conversations, and greatly worded emails. His emails DO correspond to our conversations. Any information or guidance is greatly appreciated.

    • It’s a scam. Ask yourself why since he does get paid, does he not have any money?? The army takes care of his food shelter and clothing so why doesn’t he have any money?

      Were you ever able to determine who’s picture he is using? Why does he have 2 different names Smith and Carter?
      If you send me his pic I may be able to tell you who he’s pretending to be. Somewhere1941@live.ca It helps if the picture is without him wearing sunglasses and is nice and clear. Best ones are the formal army pic in full dress uniform.

      • OOps email should be somewhere1941@live.ca. All small letters.

      • I literally just found this site yesterday. I started looking into it as soon as he asked for money.

        I guess out of stupidity I let my guard down. I just assumed that Carter was his middle name. I did ask what the 164 stood for, and he said his birthday (April 16th).

        As far as pics, I have only seen pics on a facebook site. They are clear, both in uniform and out. I’m sure he would accept your friend request, and the pictures are there.

        • I have emailed the pics off facebook to you. Hope they help to get in touch with the real man in them.

          Thanks for your information and support.

  104. CJ — I have lots of pictures of military personel that I have been able to find the names of the real soldiers. Would it be helpful to post these pictures in here so people could see them and perhaps determine that the guys they are talking to are actually scammers.

    • Tina, I have been corresponding with a scammer named Terry Walker James for the past 5 months. The pictures of him can be found by typing in the search section “Terry Walker James Scammer.” Go to the links that have “Scammers and Fake Military Personnel.” Click on that link and they are under that link. Please check those pictures to see if the pictures you have of military personnel are related to these pictures. The pictures of this soldier shows a First Sgt, E-8. Has Airborne patch on left sleeve on combat uniform and has Pathfinder Torch, Paratrooper, Jump Master, and Drill Master Sgt medals on the left side of uniform, along with a Bronze German medal over his name plate on the right side of Dress Blue Service uniform. I would really like to know the name and location, if possible, of this real decorated soldier. How do you go about doing this to find out the real soldier? He stands 6′, Hazel eyes, gray well trimmed hair. He has worked with a “diplomat” named Andrew Vaughn Woolnough who is in Ghana trying to help Terry get a consignment box to Knoxville, TN for Terry. Please email me with the pictures you have so that I can match with my pictures along with the real name of the soldier and rank if possible. Thanks so much for your help.

  105. Hi! I found this just now on the web. The photo is on the so-called Bruce Collins is the same photo that I have the man I loved for eight months but then named Jenn Smith. http://galerie.dating-fraud.net/index.php?twg_album=Sons_Scammer% 2FFake% 2F1300221568 & twg_lang = the

  106. Bruce_collins@ymail.com and jsmitha1@yahoo.com is the same guy and the same photo I can say that man has been messing with the wrong woman. And Jenn smith I can only tell you I hope you find this. And I will make a hell for you. I will report you on every fucking dating site on the internet.

  107. Hi CJ! I want to add the photo I sent to you on the so-called Jenn Smith or Bruce Collins. I have found evidence of a side that he uses the same photo on both names.

  108. Another Name to watch out for on the Dating web and Social Net works Brad Johnon!!! Total Scam Ladies!

  109. Tomorrow morning some guy in Ghana is not going to be happy. Just sent him a email telling him he is a scammer and it is not going to be payday. Called himself James Wanggla (he’s in Facebook with that name). First he asked me for a Mac Air laptop, then an Armani watch, next was going to send me a box full of gold and $500,000 in cash, apparently the King gave it to him. Never did find out what King it was lol. He sent a picture of a Army officer in uniform with the name “Joseph” on it hmmm said his name was Wanggla. Watch out for this guy, if anything he is stupid. Also using the name Jonny Walker, doesn’t even spell Johnny right.

  110. Hi all! Read and enjoy. Hope they will suffer. http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=37703

  111. Would you believe my Ghana scammer came on line tonite and asked me to forgive him??? Told me he really is from Ghana, black 24 years old. Not the fine young man in the soldiers uniform at all. Gave him the lecture and that’s the end of him.

    • Yes my scammer did the same. Told me he was 28 years old and his is from ghana. He wanted to know if we could stay friend lol

  112. I please beware of Ist Staff Sergant Peter Draper Smith of Afaganistan he has a guy by the Name of Albert Taylor that will fly from the USA to bring you a package also with a sob story. He contacts his lady friends through Badoo.

    Then Brigadier General GARY S. PATTON.He is also a scammer, he finds you on Skype.

    Please people if they are from they say they are from the USA or UK take note of their spelling and their grammar as that is a big tip off alot of these scammers of from North African countries such as Ghana, Nigeria, Congo. Their english is very bad.
    Take care and dont give them any personnal details as they us this against you.

  113. Hi! I’m glad I found this site. Has anyone heard of Kelvin Lopez? I met him through Match.com but his profile is no longer available. We chatted once and exchange pictures. One of his pictures showed that he’s with the US Navy. i would appreciate any feedback. Thanks!

    • There is a lot using the name lopez. look on the scammer sites. Just been looking at a paul lopez

  114. I have been talking to Christian Robson US Army, did not give any kind of rank, just investigative unit. Said he was approved for two weeks leave, but on the day he was supossed to arrive to meet me, he was unable to leave Libya, they required $300. immigration fee
    I told him to contact his commander or some military office, but he can not because they think he’d left. Says he has no money, as his salary is in US account, and he can not access from there..
    he did give me military.com to check him out, and sure enough there is a Christian Robson there, but is he the real Chris??

    • It’s a scam. I copied this from the top of this site.

      5) They need your help with “special leave.” This leave will usually need to be signed by a general officer and will come with additional fees. Military personnel do not need a civilian’s help with processing leave. I’m married and I don’t even need my wife’s help if I want to take leave. It doesn’t cost military personnel a single penny to take leave – EVER!

  115. John Raymond Williams ,he used e-mail
    johny5226@yahoo.com ,but i blocked him ans send the report to yahoo as well.
    He use the soldiers pictures,hes language is very well and he has a american accent.
    But he is a big sccammer. If some one heard story about daughter Jasmin,old parents ,and wife who died in crash .Don’t believe him ,be careful its SCAMMER

  116. Hi! did anybody hear about capt. Steve Miller? He pretended he is widower, has a 17 years old boy after his late wife; he says that he grew in Lexington Park, Maryland, have a home in LA Nevada and he is deployeed in Kabul, Afghanistan! He contacted me on facebook, than chated, than sent me mails on my private mail! He scamed me, too! The story is the same, unfortunatly! I discovered this site too later! But, we have to do something to warning others about it!

  117. My story:
    I am danish met this ”guy” in a danish dating site. He called himself Johan Caswell, but it is the picture of Aron Ramon for sure. He told me, he was American soldier in Afghanistan been there for 8 month now on a peace mission, senior sergeant major, 52 years old – he gave me his rank number too – seems SO handsome, nice and sweet, sending me a lot of very sweet and romantic emails. Soon I was in all his sweet words and believed him when he said he loved me.. thinking of me all the time misses me when we were not chatting and so… I just believed him, and felt I was really in love with this guy. We exchange photos so I have photos of him – both in the Afghanistan, with the other soldiers and alone – and from his home. We have been chatting about 1-2 hour every day and every day there was this wonderful email about me being the sunshine of his life, he had never met a woman like me, we were soulmates, he even asked if I want to get married again, because he wants me. I was his angel, his love. He called me his future wife. I felt so happy. From the beginning he said he would be leaving in a few weeks time and then he would come to Denmark. Last year – he told me – he had been in Copenhagen looking for houses because he wants to start a new life. He got divorced 5 years ago and lost his 16 year old son the same year in a car accident…
    One day when we sit there chatting he just claimed: OMG.. I asked him what was wrong and he said he just got a message from this diplomatic guy who did take care of his very personal belongings – this guy had taken this “package” out of Afghanistan and should take it safely to the USA via Asia or Africa. This guy sent him this “message” via Radio message, Johan should call him immediately – My guy was very very worried and begged me to call this diplomatic guy because he could not call international from there???. He gave me a number and I called – this other guy said that there was problems with the diplomatic stamps –My guy had not renewed them so the custum – in – Ghana -where he was standing needed 6200 dollars for that. I wrote back to my guy and he again said: OMG…. Can you help me sweetie, my darling. I will pay you back with interests –you know I love you so much and I have so many plans for you and I when I come to Denmark but right now I just desperately need you help my love. I have a lot of money and very important documents in that package. I was chocked and said no, I did not have so much money and I got suspicious.. have heard so much of this –he begged me for several times and even though I was in tears and felt like my heart was broken I said no. He logged of messenger with a lot of crying smileys…

    After that I did not expect to hear from him anymore – my heart was broken and I just could not believe all that his words were not true. I sent him an email where I told him what I meant about him – I was really nasty I can tell you that – suddenly after one week he came back and wrote that he could not understand why I wrote all those bad words about him. After he left me a week earlier he was involved in a car accident and I should be happy he was still alive…

    Since that we have still been writing and chatting and it is now nearly 2 month since he wrote to me the first time – he is still claiming his love for me , and that he would never lie to me and never had, he is longing for me , can’t wait to see me, kiss me and holding me in his arms – in the beginning I started to believe him again – I believed that the feelings he had for me was at least true – Every time now when he talked about this package who is still at Ghana International airport, custums, then I keep him going telling him that I would try to ask my bank, and when they said no, I said I have this friend who maybe want so help me – so he is still there – in my mailbox and on messenger.

    Now I found out, by searching the internet that it is him on the photos I am chatting or writing with but a Ghana – guy- I just can’t believe it. I really felt I was in love with this guy. His face his eyes – it all seems so sincere, so nice , so trustful looking at… And even though I will never send him money – A little part of him wants to believe that al least his feelings for me were/are true – even though I know it is only me who is stupid here – and very sensitive unfortunately – But now I know it is not the man on the picture, I am in contact with….
    is the name of the guy for real Aron Ramos or it this name a fake too???? Can somebody tell me that?

    • It sounds all so familier Can you email me and we can exchange photos

    • Are you able to send me his photos. At the moment I have fallen deeply in love with him with the same describtion. I want to believe he is real and stating someone has used his photos in the scam and he will investigate. He said he is real and does not want me to contact any boyfriends I have met in the dating line I’ve sent him many love letters from these guys and he is jealous and does not want to loose me. He told me to delete them all. He promise me he is coming here to stay with me forever and would never let me go.
      I trust and have faith in him so much. he sound very geniune to me and I feel he is geniune.
      Please save me to save others.
      Elle

  118. I met a man on facebook email is
    sgt_lesleymiller@yahoo.com. He claims to be a solider in afghanistan and that he is divorced and a single parent of a son Daniel. He wants me to send him $250 thru western union so we can talk on the phone. Which I am not going to do. Wonder if u ladies heard of this one? let me know inklover30@yahoo.com

  119. this is horrible. I was contacted too. he claimed to be a widower, wife died on 9/11 and he is in a peacekeeping at darfur. where do they get the pictures from?

  120. wow, I was contacted by colonel james williams, who is in a peacekeeping with the UN in Darfur,central Africa. widower,wife died on 9/11 son in last year of college. very handsome 55 years old man. picture with a beret and green uniform but no visible rank. even thou I felt emotionally with this guy; some RED FLAGS started waving in my head. same story: needed to meet me, i was his angel that filled the void his wife had left, I took him out of the dark were he has been all these year. then came the request, but when i saw Nigeria and the money has to be sent over there more RED FLAGS, why send money over there if the UN is in NewYork? when i told him i didn’t have that much money $550. well, I haven’t heard from him again. it is unfotunate that they use our military men to do such thing. but i’ll really like to know where they get the pictures from.

  121. Colonel James Williams

  122. Well ladies this James Rmaos, Sgt. Robinson James etc, is going by Steven D. Smith pretending to be a medical officer in the US army and he has about four to six profiles on facebook, found me on Meet New People and his friend John Smith is also there lol his email address for Yahoo is captstevsmith22@yahoo.com and he is looking for money for leave and phone lol, there is no man out there should use a military man’s picture to get money from a any woman out there, it makes me sick that these people can do this to soldiers, I am from Canda and this is my third fake soldier I have come across, first was Sgt. Frank Welch, then Capt. Martins Brown and now this one and I have trace them all to Nigeria lol alot of scammers there. Take care ladies hope this will help.

  123. Aron Ramos not sure if he is the real one because his pictures of the same as James Ramos, Steven D, Smith, etc he goes by alot of names.

  124. Goerge Moose strikes again!gmoose200@yahoo.com

    In Afghanistan supposedly. Retiring in July and coming to London. Got the tip off from a very dear friend when I told him the story, checked it out and found this site. Thank you! Hadn’t got to stage of asking for money, but have since changed all my passwords linked to money. Pictures were good though although it was strange he asked to see the picture he sent me through the webcam!! Strangely the military wouldn’t let him use webcam so never saw him in the flesh.

    And his best friend Dave had been shot in the leg!!

    • Hi Janet,

      I am in contact with a guy calling himself George Moose. I wonder if he is the same guy you are talking about. Is there any way we can compare pictures he has sent me? He sounds very genuine and says all the right things but am now wondering if he is a scammer.

      Look forward to hearing from you.

      Heike

      • Hi there Heike

        I have a pic of George Moose who claims he is in Iraq and due to retire in two month’s time. Email he is using is moosegeorge@rocketmail.com

        I have a pic if you would like to swap to see if it is the same one.

        Luanne
        Sunny South Africa

  125. Sorry – Read George Moose gmoose200@yahoo.com above. Typing too fast!

  126. I have been told that all army uniforms in War Zones tell you the blood type.
    So when I asked Jenn if his blood type so he answers first AA and when I said that he is lying, so I was told that he is 0 +. Then I told him that the man whom I have the photo and that I loved for eight months, none of these blood types.

  127. I have been talking to a man who calls himself Sgt. Jason Williams for about two weeks. I am so glad I stumbled across this site!! He just sent me the “asking for money” email today. I have pictures of a Sgt. Williams and feel that they need to be added. I also saved all the emails that were sent to me. I would like to pass those on for future reference as two of them do have the .mil address. Thank you for this site, and I hope more people become aware of what is going on. To use information of honest, hardworking military men and women to get money from lonely men and women is atrocious. And it needs to be stopped!

  128. Watch out for Sigmund Witt, met on Match.com didn’t ask for money, left IM for when he logs in that I know what he is, a scammer. States he is widowed for 9 yrs, 2 sons 16 and 13 they live with wife’s sister in the Neverlands. Seemed nice and I told him I was gonna Google seeing I was contacted a week prior by a guy in Nigeria christopherlovingsoul. This is a disgrace to the REAL Men in the Army. Very disappoined, hope they all Rot in Hell for scamming.

    • I was also contacted by a guy on match by the name of christopherlovingsoul recently. Can you tell me more about your experience with him?

    • I was also contacted by a guy on Match by the name of christopherlovingsoul recently. Can you tell me more about your experience with him? I had suspected he was a scammer, but now know for sure. Thank you.

    • I SAW SIGMUND WITT’S PICTURE ON TOP OF THIS PAGE. BUT THAT IS NOT HIS NAME. MY FRIEND SAID THAT HIS NAME IS CHRITOPHER WALSH-WITT. AND MY FRIEND HAS ALL THOSE PICTURES THAT ARE POSTED HERE. MY FRIEND WANTS TO SPEAK TO SIGMUND WITT. DO YOU HAVE HIS CONTACTS? SHE TOLD ME THAT DAVID SARPONG IS HIS SON’S CARETAKER IN GHANA. MY FRIEND IS VERY DEVASTATED. SHE CANNOT STOP CRYING. SHE IS HEART BROKEN RIGHT NOW. PLS HELP MY FRIEND TO GET IN TOUCH WITH THIS MAN. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH. SINCERELY YOURS,

      FROM JASMINE

  129. My military scammer:

    EMAIL: “Hirsch Johnson”

    Thanks for the reply am the kind of man that you can trust above all else.I enjoy cuddling on the couch after a romantic dinner, the only lights are from the candles burning, watching a movie or just talking. I enjoy the walks on the beach. Horseback riding in the mountains or visiting the vineyards. Anything is special when you are with the right person.

    I am Major Hirsch Johnson of the united state army presently on deployment to Afghanistan for peace keeping mission. I have been here less than six month now am the major assigned to the sixth ranger battalion with unit no 19081871/afgh in kabul,nato base in Afghanistan.

    I am a widower as i have lost my wife in a ghastly car crash few years back. I have a 3years daughter named Jenny who resides with my elder sister in Italy,Prisca my sister will be taking care of her pending on when my deployment is over. I have spent almost 15 years at in the army.

    I join the army through the R.O.T.C but took some more practical training at Wisconsin in the United State. I am here in search of love and all its vital component like trust love and sincere commitment.

    As for what makes me happy is i love saving people i love my job and i can do anything to make people around me happy,i stay and station in Philadelphia but my whole life now is just me,my sister Prisca and my daughter Jenny left so relocating shouldn’t be a problem to me,meeting the right match is just the problem at the moment.

    I love to laugh,careering and looking for a like minded person who understands the concept of life and living a good balanced lifestyle. Looking for a companion who possess the ability to hold a good conversation…Someone like myself who works hard. Someone who is aware,I’m fun loving, honest, trust worthy, loyal and kind. also like adventure and quiet nites in with a glass of wine!

    I believe the relations between a man and a woman should be based on trust and respect, being able to solve any problem by the way of compromises…That’s the way to keep the sparkle of love burning for many years. I have been looking for a woman to share all the secret things with him and to feel him presence despite any miles between us.

    And please don’t let the distance scare you away from me,we can work it out if we are made to be together,just let us move ahead and get to know each other properly we can break the distance if we are made to be.

    Ooh less i forget am 43 years of age,I will appreciate if you chat on our email(yahoo messenger), my IM is” infantry_hjohnson@yahoo.com ” I have added you on yahoo messenger so that we can have a better and comprehensive communication,please do accept me so that we can chat later in the day…

    Thanks for the time.

    Cheers!!

    Hirsch

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    Hirsch Johnson is Offline –
    Hirsch Johnson will receive your Chat message after signing in.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    helloooooooooooo
    Hirsch Johnson is Available
    Me:
    did you get my emails?
    Hirsch Johnson:
    Oooh will checl\k later
    Me:
    I would check now
    Hirsch Johnson:
    just wanted to stop by and say hi be my patrol
    Me:
    are you aware that there is an internet scam going on right now that exactly matches everything you’ve told me?
    Hirsch Johnson:
    what are u saying with scam scam scam
    pls am noy into this and am not here for ur mon ey okay
    Me:
    read my emails – then send proof – otherwise shame on you
    Hirsch Johnson:
    if u don’t feel confortable with me we coulc call everything off
    Me:
    nothing is on until I get to know you, which, if this were real, I would consider, but, again…
    Hirsch Johnson:
    ok
    Me:
    6th battalion was shut down in 1945. Rangers do not do infantry. No 19081871 is exactly the number used in the scam…
    Hirsch Johnson:
    lol
    Me:
    AND what is a major doing on patrol, when those in his command should be doing it while he supervises…
    Hirsch Johnson:
    so u mean there is no 19081871 right
    i lead the patrol
    Me:
    I did not say that – I don’t know enough about army unit numbers to tell you.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    do u want to teach me my job now
    ???
    Me:
    You’re funny!
    You have to understand where I am coming from. Widowed, alone, easy pickings, right? Only I’m not stupid and I am very careful.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    it up to you
    i never said u are stupid
    think about it very well
    Me:
    I told you what I need – how about an email from your official email.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    make more reserch and decided on what u want
    never
    Me:
    The onus is on you to provide proof, not me
    Hirsch Johnson:
    do u hink am that despirate
    putting my life and job on the line bcos i want a woman to get along with me
    Me:
    so desperate as to provide proof of who you are?
    How about a photo, an obituary for your wife, etc.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    told u am not at home and i am in afhaganostan now
    NINA
    you can go ahead with ur life
    if u can’t trust me okay
    it is never a do or die think
    am not here for ur money okay
    so it up to you now
    ur calling
    Me:
    You actually expect me to trust a complete stranger who has just fed me the same line as scammers, but without any proof of who you are. Denial is tying your noose.
    It’s truly unfortunate, because I am a wonderful person, who is loving and loyal to those close to her and you’re giving me a very bad impression of what is out there.
    Hirsch Johnson:
    listen
    am doing my best here to get on with this ..but it seems there is basically nothing within my power i can do
    fine there might be scammers using my pics or some army pics okay
    feeding pple storys on the military
    Me:
    How about a scan of a photo id?
    Hirsch Johnson:
    but if you think am one of them
    then it okay
    i just said u can move ahead

    Facebook:

    http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=group_105318906183361#!/profile.php?id=100002190877033
    http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=group_105318906183361#!/profile.php?id=100002451397541

    Looks to be a 30 year old man with a 3 year old daughter. Only one friend on one site. Same pic for both.

    Graduated Franklin, Virginia, class of 1956, which would make him about 72 years old!

  130. I was scammed out of $860 Aussie dollars, that I do not have I had to borrow. I have never had money. I was sure in my head it was a scam from the begining my heart took over or my curiosity. I came straight home after sending this money and started resurching scamms etc which I had never even heard of I had not been on the dateing site for long it was all new to me. I am sorry for the soldiers who have been used in theses scamms. Also these scum bags will use our photos.
    I would surely love to meet the soldier in the photos that I have. He is probably a married man so this is never going to happen. These disgusting people who do this will get there KARMA.
    I looked the soldier up he was on my space also another site which i dont remember now.
    I found on here when i first started so i thought it was ok. I was still very sus all along… i guess i wanted to believe it my heart tricked my mind. The soldiers name they used was Eddy Monroy. This name has been used a lot i have found a lot of information. To the real Monroy who ever you are I wish you well XX
    KARMA to scum bag scammers

  131. Like all these women I thought the person was real. I meet him first on Robert Cordingly parentsingle.com. He contacted me a week later telling me he was in Afganistan and it was his last tour before retireing and he was trying to find his soul mate. After, talking to him for a while a few other ladies found me. I guess when he signed up to Yahoo he didn’t know there was a comment bar. I left comments and One of the ladies I chatted with said, she was talking to him for a while. Wanted to know how I meet him and I told her on parentsingle.com. She was from Virgina and another from Ohio. I just got a message from the one in Ohio. All she said was to be careful that he not who he says he is. So, I started reseaching. Have a lot of pics of him in uniform holding my pics in front of him.He made a point of sending pics of him with my pics. Everything seemed fine till the end when he said, he was sending a package and a friend was bringing it to me. Then his friend ran out of money in Ghana. His friend he called Dankyi called and said to tell my husband that he ran out of money to give customs for the package to go through. I told him your agreement was to deliever first than get paid.After, asking for money many times.I told him I didn’t have money to give. This went on for a little while then he emailed and said he was getting a bank draft from a bank to my bank so I could pay the Attorney and the Attorney could pay for his friends flight back to Afganistan.All he said he needed was a Trustee.I really don’t see how anyone could get a loan without collatral.

    • It’s a scam, no doubt about it. I have talked with a few of these guys and have heard the story of the package containing,his important doc’s, silver gold and all kinds of sparkly stuff. Somehow they person delivering it runs out of money and they ask you to pay for it, DON’T, there is no repayment ever.

    • hi i believe this story is the same i am currently being told althouh he is using a different name do you think we could compare notes and pics see if hes the same person as mine?
      I fee so dumb

  132. Sometimes these guys mess up and I just caught one doing just that. I met him on Badoo said his name was Wilson Buck, using the pictures of General Wesley Clark hmmm. He sent a email with the same old widower 1 child in the army retiring etc. however, he sent the same letter to about 8 other women all at the same time. So, I sent a reply to his email and included all the other women, told him he was a scammer using the picture of Wesley Clark. Hope the other ladies realize what he was up to, and tell him to get lost.

  133. George R Moose has been at it again – or rather his scammer. He was on Fifty/fifty dating website and is back again. He uses 2 email addresses, gmoose100@hotmail.com and gmoose200@yahoo.com. He is presently British living in Bedforshire for local government on £30,000 – £90,000 a year. When I was corresponding with him he went from being on a peace mission in Kabul to mechanical engineer and finally Staff Sergeant E6. Everything he said was false and obviously a scammer. I wish there was some way that he and those like him could be caught. I kept him online for as long as possible trying to turn the tables on him but he found me out eventually.

  134. I have been communicating with a Sgt Mitchell Dendy and a Jonathan Turley. Both have asked for money. Dendy needed a phone, which I fell for and sent money…no phone has ever been processed. Turley needs money to come home. I continally refuse to send money but he sticks around begging and pleading that I am all he has. We have only spoken a couple of times…but declarations of love abound! Jerks!!!
    Has anyone else dealt with either of these losers?
    Thanks!

  135. Been talking to a soldier by the name o Sgt Major James Muller in Kabul Afghanstan. He to has ask for money for phone and money to come home on leave. As fool i sent him money for phone but have not sent money for him to come home. I want to know if this person is for real or not. I do have a couple of pictures he sent. He says he is from Ohio which i looked up and found that he does not exsist. The last e-mail i sent him was to tell if i reveived a letter from the army and that i have not opened it yet. He emailme back and said he was hurt and told me to put it in the trash and dont open it. I never received that letter and when he told me to throw it away that is when i knew something was wrong. I will try to send his pic to anyone who wants them. I did not find them on your site here.

  136. I also thin i have been scam by a soldier in Afghanistan. Did not find his picture on your site. He goes by the name of Sgt. Major James Muller in Kabul. At first he just wanted to have a friendship and later he started to say he love me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Well dumb me i fell for it. We talked for a few weeks and then he asked if i would get him a phone so i could talk to him. Of course i was stupid and sent the money for the phone, a few days he called me and said he just got the phone. We talked for awhile. He does have accent and he said he was polish. We talked for a few weeks and then he wanted to come home on leave and that i would have to request it for him. He gave me an email address of us.deptofdefencearmy@americamail.com. He just sent me a email saying he has told me the truth from day one and he wants me to be on line later to talk to me. I will talk to him and not let him know i know he is not who he says he is. I hope someone can find our for me because i would like to know if he is for real or not. What happen is that i told him that i received a letter from the army(not really get one) and i wanted to know if i should open it or not. He told me to just put it in the garbage and not read it. Red Flag

  137. Hi guys, there’re more out there … “Military Officer” Sean M. 49, I also got a mail from Cpt. Sigmund Witt from NY. In my case his wife died during child birth. Then there’s Steffes Jaeson claims to be from Montana, speaks very bad English. Then there’s Sgt. Timothy Hawkins, running through the www on Facebook with another profile Thomas Merrick, even send you the pics with his second name. And I’m not sure about a Sgt. Carbone yet … but I’ll figure that one out as well :) I assume that one is fake oo. Btw … they’re all overseas right now and two of them are widowers. This is just hilarious :) But nobody asked for money … yet ;)

  138. Hi Ladys,
    I am really shocked but deep inside I expected it until the first contact of (he calls himself) Sergt. Jim Bruce (James Ramos Bruce) born on 25.5.1964
    Unfortunatly he made some bad mistakes:
    I checked his schools (with the secretary) and nobody there knows him!
    How it all began: One day a nice hansome guy from the army contacted me on facebook. I dont know why, may be I was excited about, i rode him back. He calls me sweetie and soon he tells me how much he loves me and all that stuff. In the beginning his english was very very bad. (only using words like pix for picture and ending every sentence with “lol”)
    Than (oh what a cuincidance) his english became better. We were writing since more than 2 weeks. Than he asks me to order a cellular phone for him. I had to order it at Tadiran Communications which is a real company but of course not in contact with the scammers. The scammers use a fake-Email: tadirancommunications@email.com and the amout should be 355$- They use the real official email of tadiran and put it in their mail! Of course I informed Tadiran of that circumstance. Jim sended me a lot of photos, of himself (??), his penis, and his son. So if anybody likes to see them, please get in contact with me.
    He told me that his wife died 5 years ago about breast cancer and his son is living in california.
    He is using the jimbruce43@yahoo.com as his email. He told me that his facebook account was deleted because of a f…bitch which contacts him every day, but he didnt want to.
    I hope he will burn in hell because I stopped writing to him thanks good I saw this internetside 2 days ago!!!!!!!!

    • CASSANDRA ?TADIRANCOMMUNICATION THEY USED AN EMAIL FOR IT RIGHT, ISNT THE REAL TADIRANCOMMICATIONS@LIVE.COM IS THIS THE REAL ADDRESS. AND DID YOU RECIEVE AN EMAIL BACK FROM A COLONEL PHILLIP. AND THEY CAN BYE THERE OWN SATILLITE PHONES THERE IN AFHGANISTAN, RIGHT OR DO SOMEONE ELSE HAS TO BUY IT FOR THEM.IM JUST COURIOS,PLS LET ME KNOW SO I KNOW MY NEXT STEP ON WHAT TO DO.OH DONT GET ME WRONG THERE ISNT ANY MONEY GOING ANYWHERE FROM ME TO THEM.BUT I NEED TO PULL THIS COACH OUT OF THE WOOD WORK ONCE AND FOR ALL. HE SLIPPED UP SENT SAME EMAIL TO 6 OTHERS AND CANT EXPLAIN Y SAYS HE GOT VIRUS ,AND DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. BE WAITING FOR UR REPLY THANKS

  139. Forgot to say that he claims to be in Kabul Afghanistan and doing every day 3-4 patrols. But of course he is not allowed to say in which camp he is and because of the war he has no access to his money. Of course he told me, they dont have phones over there.

    • HEY WHAT NAME DOES HE GO BY IS HE A CAPTAIN,

  140. if he with this e-mail sgtseffesjaeson, he is a scammer/ he has 2 fake profiles on tagged.

  141. can someone explain me, how to upload photos (only faces ;-) ))

  142. The following web site from YouTube has some very interesting information on the scammers posing as American soldiers. I f you search on YouTube fro “scammers from Nigeria and Ghana” lots of videos come up and most are very informative. Try looking at this site it was issued by the American Army.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWtHBE1saQo&feature=related

  143. Hello everyone!
    oh my god i am so shocked and saddened at what has happened to all of us!! I joined some dating sites here in australia and I had three encounters with three soldiers two were in afghanistan and one in baghdad!! How gullible and stupid have i been!! I cannot believe how i was so manipulated. The three of them all asked me to apply for leave for them one of them asked me to email a gen.david petraus and the other one asked me to email ts2 rescueteam and the other one who claimed he was a major also asked me to apply for leave with opm with a fellow by the name of Lt.Col. Robert Gonzalez. Have any of you ladies heard of these places? The stories I was told by the three of them all seemed pretty real to me but I did apply for leave for the major I actually called the american embassy before I sent any money and spoke to a military attache there and he said that all of their soldiers serving apply for their own leave and that it was a scam!! It really hurts doesn’t it?? I have just about given up now!!!
    I have lots of pictures from them as well
    Their names are:
    Major Thomas Benson
    ssgt Daniel Lopez
    ssgt James Miller
    I actually went and looked on you tube last night and there was james’s pictures there oh my god what a fool I have been but you know I am sooo lucky I didn’t send any money to any of them
    If any of you ladies have had involvement with any of them can you let me know please?
    Thanks i really hope this helps other women out there stay away from these guys they are poison they are not real!! I know we are all looking for our soulmates these people are such scum bags!!
    God will get them one day!!!

    • yes I have also heard of COl: ROBERT GONZALEZ .. BUT CAN YOU TELL ME WAS IT ALSO A MILITARY MAILBOX EMAIL ADDRESS .. tHIS IS THE ADDRESS I HAVE ( usmilitaryadministrativedept@militarymailbox.us HOW CAN THEY USE THIS EMAIL ADDRESS DONT GET IT IT SHOULD BE MORE SECURE IF THEY ARE USING MILITARY EMAIL ADDRESSES I WOULD OF THOUGHT ..

      • I have these names too and the forms and they are fake – says so on the American website. I thought that too sadly I sent some money before I realised and checked out.

        I have been chatting to this guy to – see my last two posts for 4 months. Looks like we have been scammed, two timed, three timed or whatever. His pictures are on You Tube too :)

        Looks like I applied for leave for the same guy too!!! My goodness how much leave does this guy get and how many wives does he have!! I did think that there wasn’t enough information on that form originally and looked suspect and when the other form arrived. What a fool.

        And how many times does the phone, lap top get broken?

        My advice to anybody is don’t!!

        Re. the poems – guess you have had them all too, the English is crap, spelling bad, says My Queen, OK Baby (that would drive me mad), OK hunnie (a lot!).

      • Military mailboxes in with the following such extension. us.army.mil not militarymailbox.us

    • Please be aware someone using this name in Facebook acoount name :Bradon Howard Garcia, military base in Kabul Afghanistan , lives in Colombia, Washington District. AKA Mark Garcia using a captmcg43@yahoo.com or majorgarcia43@yahoo.com. and his daughter account for yahoo, pat4garcia@yahoo.com…pretending this name i know that this person is widow with two kids Patricia 15 yrs old and Allison 13 yrs old. Mark is only son and his mother is in Malaysia with Allison while Patricia is in Nigeria for school. he said he is a widow for five years, he wants to marry me and i need to send money and he is using also a name of Lt, Capt. Roberto Gonzalez a releasing officer, and i feel stupid because i send money , i feel bad because i know that both these people are innocence, oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh God

  144. Dear Dawn,
    yes, I know. It hurts so much and is eating you up inside. I think the resume should be go out to a cafe and meet some “real” guys. I will never again do this via net.
    And if you send them photos of you, than you will find YOUR photos on other dating sites just to attract men and than the scammer is also asking for money for what else!!!They are criminals!!

    • YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK WE SHOULD BE ALLOWED ONE HOUR IN THE SAME ROOM WITH THESES WANT TO BE BAD BOYS SCAMMERS. AND WHEN WERE DONE WITH THEM,MAYBE THEY WILL WAKE UP AND SEE WHAT THEY DONE TO THE GOOD HONEST SOLDIERS THAT KNOWS THE MEANING OF TO SERVE YOUR COUNTRY AND RESPECT THE INNOCENT LIVES THAT THEY DESTOYED. BUT THEY WONT BCOS THEY DONT HAVE THE COURAGE TO FACE THEMSELVES, THERE COWARDS.AND THEY WILL BE COWARDS TO FACE THE PEOPLE THEY SCAMMED.

  145. Guess that George Mosse has surfaced again. Boy I love google lol. Thank you all for writing this page. It has saved me from some emotional hurt yet again.

    Claims he is in Iraq and is due to retire in two month’s time. Email address he is using is moosegeorge@rocketmail.com.

    Guess that’s the end of that…

    • GEORGE_MOOSE60@YAHOO.COM…………………is my scammer…………….he is a real darling with the romantic chat……………………had me for 6 months…can u believe that………………….i even told him someone was using his name for scamming and he told me he was getting it sorted with the authorities when i said i was reporting it myself….told me no dont…..hed do it through official channels…………………..didnt start looking really suspicious until september when it was ‘approaching his birthday’…and wanted me to send gifts and several days later we fell out ..but he came back…………..and eventually a week or so later asked for his gifts for his birthday and also an iphone nokia x7…he had it all worked out…when i said things didnt feel right and we should stop chatting……………………he told me to F..k O.f …………had enough of you hun….haha..hes gone now….but please beware girls hes a real cutie and his pics are gorgeous………..stay away

  146. Hi everyone, I think i am quite good at spotting the scammers on this site, i have been contacted by a Lt Aaron Ramos, yes he exists, his picture is on here, however the person i have been chatting to, can’t spell and his grammer is off, I am sure that Lt Ramos can spell etc; I asked this scammer for his military email he sent me a contact email to confirm his ID, first the military would not confirm his ID to me, that I know, also the email address is wrong, I have reported him and I will continue to report scammers like him, they think just because a single woman is on a dating site that they are desperate or stupid, not so…. mind you a military guy would be nice…. xxxx

  147. Ok i bien talkin to this guyy peter rolland who claims he is in iraq ! I have looked at the piks he has sent they look the same Wut things that he has saids is lagit imi totaly dum wen It comes to this crap pleaser help me

  148. Thank you for taking the time to email me, feel free to call me Henry. I want to be as open as I can be to you I would tell you a little more about me, I was born in Cave City but spent most of my life in London, I did all my schooling in the UK before dad brought us back to the US and my passion for the Air Force was supported then in no time I went to United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, dad moved back to the UK before I was commissioned so I was left back in the US, I later got married to my old London girlfriend who I’ve had back in London many years after and she bore me Carmen, she will be thirteen very soon, you will wonder why it took me that long to raise a baby, I was married to Alice for fifteen years before we had Carmen and complications from the late birth and later cancer of the breast took her away from me, Carmen was just two years old when she passed on so please know that I’m over it, even though I love her more than anyone could imagine and I can’t completely erase her off my mind there’s nothing I could do but to carry on, I promised to give myself ten years of widowhood in respect of her demise but I must confess even though I’ve accomplished, it was never easy, Carmen has not made easy for me at all, she has always asked me to get her a mom, I know if this works out and she find out I’m in a relationship she will be the happiest in this world to know you more and she mentioned that she wants a really big family which means she wants brothers and sisters and cousins and all, I’m sorry that I’m a victim of my dad’s contract work in the US but I’m not regretting it because I love what I’m doing but Carmen has been too lonely in life as the only person she knows apart from me is our maid who bears Alice too.

    Apart from being in the force I have a business inheritance from dad which I want to face at my retirement which I seriously can’t wait to come, he supplies leather wares all over Europe, UK, US and also Asia. At his demise he asked that his attorney let me have 51% of his supply business which would require full time running by me so once this Peace Keeping Mission is over I’m going to retire into that business and settle down with Carmen and the love of my life too. I really want the normal life so please don’t be scared to work things out with me, I will be very open to you so I don’t spoil the idea of getting to know each other and please if there’s any area of concentration you wish to know about my life you can ask so I shed more light on it.

    My job has not allowed me date anyone since my wife died and now I feel its time for me to start a serious relationship as I can’t continue like this plus Carmen is growing into the teenage scene and really needs the tutelage of a mother so I plead with you to have this at the back of your mind when you’re deciding whether or not to give this a chance, I really need you. I love swimming from time to time and I visit restaurants in my free time, I frequent museums and art galleries as I have a strong interest in art and culture, I’m looking to start a serious relationship with the intention of marriage I believe at our age there is no room for games am very serious minded and I remain open hearted, honest and faithful at all times, I’m willing to put in my time and effort for the right woman.

    I’m looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me, communicate her feelings to me, make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need, stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, who is not afraid to receive and give love, a romantic woman, creative, I know you will think what is a man like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the Internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting and in fact I feel one can learn so much about some other through letters and establish a concrete connection that will stand as a proper foundation for a long lasting and loving relationship, a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, it allows you gain a better understanding of each other.

    The most important characteristics to me are compatibility and friendship, I’d like to find someone who’s open hearted, honest and easy going, a sense of humor is a big addition, Ideally we should have some shared interests and goals as well as some similarities in opinion about what’s important in life. If you love to laugh, travel and appreciate the warmth of a furry coat or the arms of your lover around you as you sleep, a wet nose playfulness, Getting caught with my woman in the rain, dance with her in the rain, pillow fights, Stargaze on a clear night, Watch the sunset together, spend all day with her doing nothing but loving and bonding with each other, be proud of each other, go on a carriage ride through the park, do a crossword together, have a disagreement (it will only make us stronger), go for a twilight horseback ride, Watch a bad or good movie together, spend the rest of my life with her, taking pictures and making photo albums and reminisce special moments together, make love passionately, go to a museum together, talk to each other using only body language, give each other space when needed but not space to hurt each other.

    I sincerely hope we can take things to the next level and share better the days to come. I will prefer we chat online first before we meet up for lunch or coffee so we can get comfortable with each other and establish the connection and chemistry we can build a proper relationship on. I hope am not too forward if I am please forgive my go for it attitude, at your response I will let you have Carmen’s info too so you can contact her and get to know her too if you don’t mind.

    Let me know as I sit here fingers crossed with high hopes of reading back from you real soon .. THIS WAS MY FIRST EMAIL..

  149. I have been chatting to Aaron Ramos on FB..
    When I did a search (in FB) I found that there are 5 of them….Stand up the real Aaron ramos.
    He also went under the Name of Michillary donel and I had that arias deleted in FB.
    Can someone check this hustler out for me…
    I just fronted him and told him he was a scammer. Now he’s gone offline..

  150. I have been speaking to a capaptain sigmund j witt. saying that would i send him money for a hes fare to the usa as he couldnt get to hes bank account as the army as sole control over hes money. he told me that hes wife died giveing birth and that the baby also died. he told me he was the only child and he had no brothers and sisters. i asked for hes address he gave me this. Giz Office Kabul.ISAF-AFG, Fieldpost. D-64298 DARMSTADT. i SEE A PICTURE OF HIM ON HERE. He sent to me. I susted him out myself.

  151. Hes Email address is. cpt.sigmund103@yahoo.com.

  152. I have recently been talking to someone from us military called joshua, he is on a uk dating site and a scammer, he is one of the guys above, he was a bit too ott so i stopped emailing him. Must be a glutton for punishment as i started chatting to a guy called William Glass, give or take the odd word it is identical the one from James massingale above. I only came accross this site by mistake, looking up some info on stuff he told me. He wont be doing it again, how could i have been so stupid. Talk about hitting a woman when she is down. This site is brilliant well done.

  153. I need help i been talking to Aaron Ramos Peterson.. foe all most a year now.. he told me to write to the military help deck and i did i sent my info to the omg and they want me to send 500 I’m not.. I’m so glad i came on here some one told me to check him out… but now he has my info and don’t know what to do… I was threaten by the helpdisk… jezzzz.

  154. Hi Sherrie. Yeah I’ve been talking to Doug green for the past month and he professed his undying love for me. He wanted me to request his leave that’s what made me suspicious and I started investigating things. I called him out and he acted like I hurt his feelings by calling him a scam and he would never hurt anyone.

  155. Someone else who contacted me after joining widow dating was an Alfred White – did not say he was US army but said he worked for intelligence agency for the government. He too talked in a kind of broken english. has anyone else heard of him?

  156. Up until 2 days ago I had been corresponding with a very handsome picture of a soldier in Iraq. Long story as short as possible. He claims to be retiring from the Army after 25 years, but had to stay as a contractor to help repair an oil rig. Yes, I sent the 5K needed so this great guy could come home. security people were shot, so he wanted more $, which I didn’t send, for more security (black water trained). He wouldnt’ provide me with anything real about his identity. No phone # (claims didnt have one), after arguing on IM, he sent me a house address (turned out to be fake). He said he is in a war zone and unable to give out any personal information that its not safe. He claims to be a widower, 20 yr old son in Ireland. I had written to the son, but still not convinced it wasn’t this ‘soldier’ who wrote it. I will admit that the $ was sent to a bank (bank of china in Hong kong), that supposedly was somehow taken by those security people I spoke of. More recently he had asked for money to be sent western union. I would do anything to know who the man in the picture is. Any thoughts on how to do this? Oh yeah, he claims to be in a private camp just outside of camp victory and for a month and 1/2 the military planes were not flying due to repair. Thats when he had originally asked for 5k for a private airline operated by the chinese..or some crap like that. Can anyone help me??

  157. this is the message receive from scammer

    Attention: Mr John,

    We received your request for contact on behalf of Sergent Melissa Wiliams and your request has been initiated. We will get back to you as soon as we made a verification and confirm your relationship with this Sergent.Pls get back to us with the officer deployment number and all this details..

    1. FULL NAME :
    2. DATE OF BIRTH:
    3. SEX :
    4.PHONE NUMBER :
    5. RELATIONSHIP WITH DEPLOYED OFFICER:
    6. FULL ADDRESS,

    Note;make sure you include the officer’s deployment number in any communication with us.

    Regards,

    GENERAL RAYMOND T.. ODIERNO
    Multi-National Corps – Afghanistan
    Public Affairs Office, Camp Victory
    APO AE 09342

  158. The Aaron Ramos went by “Johnson Ramos” when speaking to my mother, he also had had a courier man named Muller that was going to drop off stuff, I’m sure a pay-now scam. I do not know what all he does entirely, but beware that he often changes his story.

    • I too was chatting with this Ramos person claiming to be a George Ramos when in actuallity it says hes name is Aaron Ramos, This george ramos claims to be a widow and has a son in the UK says his wife died of cancer and that hi. dad is from Houston, TX and that his mum is from the UK, he first asked me to help him with a gift card then selling a laptop next was he need money to send to his son in the UK. I have refused to give him any money now hes asking for money for an airline ticket say hes commander doesnt know hes leaving and has to pay for his own ticket. I thought of the scam and sure enuf found his pictures on here George also has 2 facebook pages with no friend by the way and a Myspace page as well which is where he contacted me thru. I hope this helps anyone in contact with this indiviual and I sorry that this is causing to the actual individual whos pictures are being used,

  159. I have been chatting to an Alex Ramos, there are loads of similar profiles of Ramos on Facebook including Aaron Shaun Ramos, Aaron Ramos. Innumerable ones in fact and yes, if it is the one in the pink shirt in the car, that’s him been chatting to him for months!

    First he was in Qatar, then he was in Iraq and I thought it strange why do I need money to send leave forms and I am coming out of the army- you are my beneficiary. Ha ha. What a fool, I was unwell and taken in by those stories and his promises. Stupidly I paid for the forms then I realised it was a scam because he wanted money for his flights. I thought this is strange, kept asking for money, no access to bank accounts wanted me to open a bank account. Within days, there was undying love, poetry. Will u be my wife? Etc

    But I challenged him on his behaviour thought you ought to get a lawyer and hand yourself in.

  160. The other pictures on Aaron’s Ramos Wall are the same ones that I have been sent and also on Alex’s Walls.

    Claims they are all fakes!! I actually don’t know who I am talking to! Refuses to give address, or in fact where he is based other than Baghdad but Aaron is in Kabul!! They are the same ones that are on You Tube too.

    He wants money for his PDA and also broken laptop yet still manages to use a colleagues one daily.

    The money the initial address was to send to was Nigeria? I am not sending money to Nigeria and then came up with Debra Lucas in Ohio in USA to pick up. The warning bells should have gone off but was so unwell that it didn’t dawn on me that 5 Nigerian friends joined on the day that I transferred money!!!!

    When challenged over the forms, he states they are not – yet they specifically say so on the American Embassy website.

    I also said that he needed to go and see his doctor as this is somewhat odd behaviour to have quite so numerous profiles.

    I actually asked him where was he – in Nigeria or Ghana. But insisted that he was in Iraq. Oh well.

  161. Am sorry about all this am assuring we will take measure in tracking down all online scammers, their as been a meeting with the erupean union and african concerning this issue, a conclution a been made, to pay compensation of $80,000 to all victim kindly contact us if you are scammed and evidence to back it up

    Thanks

    • AU and EU will do – am in contact with said spammer at the minute, have more profiles today still in contact. Suggested he get a lawyer and psych cos I do think he is ill. I have evidence to back it up.

      He said he is in Baghdad at the minute!

      Western Union need to put a stop to all of this too.

      • Please do NOT listen to AU and EU, this person is a scammer and only trying to carry the scam on longer. There is no fund being set up, no compensation for the victims of these scams. This is what we call the recovery scam. You are asked to fill out all kinds of information, basically setting you up for identity theft. If you are asked for a bank account it will be used to launder money through. After all the forms are filed out and they have all of your information, then come the fees. There are fees for everything. I know people who have lost thousands of dollars more in an effort to recover the initial money that was lost.

        This is a scam 100%. Please don’t fall for this also. Oh and an IP trace on your soldier will show that you are really talking to someone in West Africa. I have run a website romancescams.org and a yahoo support group for over 6 years, so I know what I am talking about and I just want to see you safe.

        • Thanks thought it was another scam, wasn’t going to fall for it! Oops and I can have my money back if I pay $150 to Western Union, not going to fall for that one either!!

  162. I had never heard of any of these play with your heart scammers. I thought scamming was like the emails we have all received, send 3000 and help me get my inheritance and you will get 50 million.
    Guess I am naive especially in these times. After reading all these comments. And after realizing the man I was communicating with for months and falling in love with!!!–I received numerous messages from men with the same sob story, some down to the name of their supposed children! This man just stole my heart and made all kinds of plans with me. He started asking for money to help me get a passport. I kept telling him I could get one on my own! He still haa a site on FB. He portrays himself as being in the Military in Iraq, from Ohio. I talked to him on the phone once and he had a beautiful French accent. He also said he is a widow, and that he is a fireman in Ohio!
    To anyone including this person who is a scammer. I Am thinking it is a big money maker for him, LOL or even her! I thought this person was the most wonderful man in the world. Anyone who scams is a low life, but playing with someones heart is the lowest of low. Not only is this person a low life, but obviously he is very mean to be able to fool with hearts and never think twice

  163. i have been talking to somone who says his name is JOHN WESLEY FISHER A SARGENT MAJOR IN THE USA ARMY AND HE WANTS ME TO ACCEPT A PACKAGE BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS HE RECONS HES IN AVATION IN KABUL COULD YOU PLEASE LET ME KNOW THANKS

    • Please do not accept a package from this guy. He is a scammer. The merchandise will have been purchased with a stolen credit card and you will be in receipt of stolen merchandise. Then you will receive a huge story about how you have to send the package to west africa. Once you accept one package you will get tons because they will see an easy way to get merchandise reshipped.

      The reason that the scammers do this is because merchants will not ship to West Africa because of the scams. You can do an IP check on the emails to see where they are coming from. My advice would be to stop communications with this person and block and delete them out of your life.

  164. I wish I knew for sure if I was being scammed. I will make this as short as possible.

  165. Oops..sent too soon. Anyway, Army guy in Iraq, wife passed away 5 years ago. Needed 5k for transport home because he was retiring but the military planes were in repair. He also needed 5k (started as 10K)to pay for military security as he was contracted by the army as an engineer. Didn’t ask for $ to go by Western Union (Bank in Hong Kong)…only when he claims to have gotten all but the last $1500 did he ask for it to be sent via Western Union..to the UK, then from there someone would supposedly send it to him.. I would do anything to know if the man in the picture is really him. How can I do that? Anyone with a similar story to this? Probably everyone.

  166. Oh yeah, about my ‘encounter’ that went on for two months. He said he didn’t have a phone number to give me, and when I asked for his address in both states that he claimed to have homes in, he said that he is not to give that info over Instant Messaging due to security reasons. He finally gave me one, and it is in foreclosure and owned by a family who is still living in it. He said to ask ANY person in the military and they will back up the story about giving out any info. He even said there is nobody to take a pic. What is the story with giving out info. He wouldn’t even do it in an email.

  167. Christina – yes, we have probably been talking to the same person for months :(

    There is a group on Facebook with a lot of pictures in there – more confidential!

    http://www.facebook.com/groups/117771231591662?ap=1

  168. Has anyone heard of Major Carl Edwards? Supposedly in the US Army as a major, and of course his wife died, has not mentioned any children, did the same thing, enticed, and wrote such beautiful emails, then eventually asked me for money, which I resisted for a very long time because I honestly don’t have it. I was going to send $100.00 to see if I could tell if it was a scam, and my best friend added $400.00 more, and of course, I have figured out all to be a scam. Carl Edwards even gave me a name of a friend, and I have contacted her on Facebook and Yahoo. I am not sure if she is in on the scam. Please let me know if anyone is being scammed by Carl Edwards too.

    • HI Danielle .. I am not sure if this is your guy … but Fred J Morgan – claiming to be Sgt. in US military in Kabul, Afghanistan has sent me photos with the name “Edwards” on his uniform. He told me he borrowed the uniform from a friend as his got covered in blood that day from a terrorist. I have pics if you want to see them. He is on Yahoo.com and I met him through a Facebook site … “Who is Near” … his pic is on FB… under the name of Fred J Morgan.

      Take care,
      Brenda

  169. It’s a scam – that’s the going rate for the leave forms and the beneficiary forms via Western Union, Nigeria. Don’t send any.

  170. hi,
    I was chatting with a Philip Nobiler, has anyone heard about him, he is a scammer, it took awhile for him to ask for money but he claims he owes another guy in the military money and the guy is beating him up cause he can’t pay, and he has a son that has to have dialysis and he has to pay for it so that is why he borrowed the money and he needs money to pay this guy back, he says his wife died in a car accident and his son lives in the UK with his sister in law who has custody but he sends his son all his money, he said he would send me a cheque to cash or put money on my credit card that a friend will send him to pay this other guy off. I did not fall for this as I would never send money to anyone I don’t know. Yes he did say he loved me and wanted to be with me and he was getting a leave and would be together soon but soon kept on changing, I caught on soon after we talked and played along with it for awhile then he got mad cause I would not send him money and will not talk to me anymore. Scam,Scam,Scam

  171. I just went on match.com and within less than 24 hours a guy named “Joe Marvin” contacted me. Our IM had a very slow connection so I agreed to “chat” with him using yahoo messenger. He sounded way too good to be true and when I searched his name, this site came up – and there he was. His picture is on your site! I quit match and have blocked his messages. He had poor grammar, asked odd questions, and all of his answers were vague. Thank you for your site!

  172. scum aaron daniel ramos johnson

  173. wow they are on POFso watch out ladies!!

  174. Hi, everyone. Listen, I hate to break to the new and old readers here, but I’m now deployed to Afghanistan. I can’t do anything to update or track down these scammers currently. Please save my inbox and don’t write me for information over the next year so I can focus on making Afghanistan a safer place and bring our troops home. Thanks and good luck!

    • CJ – This guy has so many different profiles on Facebook!!! We are in the process of gathering them on Facebook Group Stop American Soldiers Scamming. There are just so many it is ridiculous. Guy in pink shirt comes in so many different names – Michael Douglas :) , Ramos et al. He then suddenly was in Baghdad, Iraq. There are rather a lot of them. Ramos needs stopping once and for all. I have the fake leave forms too and beneficiary forms. At times, I did not think I was always speaking to him. His English is bad. Personally I think he is in Nigeria as that is where all the money seems to go to. On one of his profiles, he is in the Marine Corps, in another profile, he is in Sudan!

      If Ramos is a genuine bloke, I feel sorry for him. Personally I don’t think the guy is very well and needs some sort of psychiatric help.

      But Diane sorry to hear that your friends has been scammed out of a David Drake Honeyman, he just picks vulnerable people and I would class myself as that as he scammed me when I wasn’t very well.

  175. One of my best friends just told me today that she thinks she’s been scammed….does anyone know or has been scammed by a person named David Drake Honeyman from Colorado. He told my girlfriend that he’s in the front line in Afghanistan and yes, in some united nations ally special forces. She has been bilked out of $67,000 of her 401k. She is a recent widow and was very vulnerable. she met him on the site BADOO. Is there any recourse in that anyone knows about to recover her money? I contacted the FBI but not much they can do…Can the military do anything?

  176. I have also been aproached on Facebook by a Captain Larry J. Butterfield, who’s serving in Kabul, Afghanistan. Been corresponding for several months and everything I have read on here describes him to a “t”. I personally haven’t sent him any money but he defiantely has tried. It’s sad because i’ve come to care for the Handsome Man in the pictures and would like to know He’s alright.

    • Tina, I have been in contact with a “Peter Butterfield”. I wonder if it is the same person. This guy is very handsome, the picture he sent me was of one where he is sitting at a table with his hands cuffed, another in a uniform in front of a flag, and another where he is working on somerhing. He says he was on deployment 9 years ago and found his wife in bed with another man. she moved to florida with his son while he stayed in whereever…she died 3 years ago of cancer. now he is looking for love and hasn’t dated in 9 years.

      Has anyone heard of Peter Butterfield from Match.com? sweetpetter0977 is his username.

      • Dear Kandi,
        I have also met a Peter Butterfield on Match.com. Are you still communicating with him? Did he try to scam you? I have just been curious about him. Wondering if he is another one try to hurt us ladies emotionally as well as financially. Thank you for your time. I appreciate any help you can give me. You can also e-mail me at:
        luv2dohair@sc.rr.com Have a great day! Gigi

      • Dear Kandi,

        I saw your question regarding Peter Butterfield on Match.com. Are you still corresponding with him? I did for a time and wondered if you found out anything? Is he like the rest of these men taking advantage of us ladies emotionally and financially? I do hope you can give me some insight? He still contacts me occasionally. Thank you in advance for any help you can give me. Gigi

  177. Women watch the man from UK ,name Harry Raymond,he is looking for the money,too. He is man with one son. He was on the dat. side “LuckyUSALover.com. Stay far away ,he is scam.

  178. help me steve miller finden please please

  179. Ok,so here it goes.It is about my friend,I think she is being scammed and I am really worried. She met this man on tagged,he calls himself Henry Bryant,Bryant Henry on facebook. He says he is 41 years old,and based in Cardiff,Wales with the Us Army.I myself am a US Soldier Girlfriend,and I know there is NO US Army in Wales,or the rest of the Uk.Only US Airforce.He says he is based out in Afghanistan,has a Uk mobile phone number,which I tried calling numerous times,but no one ever answers. He tells her he cant ring her,cause he can only phone registered family members. Which again is bollocks…. Also he tells her he is a widow,and his son Shawn lives in Cambridge with a Military Guardian. She even had a E-mail of his son,where he asks if he can call her Mum…. I don’t think any 16 year old would say that to a stranger.
    She says his grammar is attrocious,and I have read a few Messages myself,and he calls her *BABIE*,when she told him it’s spelt Baby,he said he invented the spelling for her… O.o Last week,he told her he is running a company with his father,and had to import some goods,but the guy that was taking it across the Border didn’t have enough money for Customs… He didn’t exactly ask for money (Or not that she told me),but that’s when my alarm went off. I just don’t know how to tell her,as she is so loved up. I keep telling her,ask him what FOB he is on,which Batalion he is in,what rank he is,etc,but she is just denying it to herself,saying she isn’t interested in Army Stuff. It is just so heavy on my heart,and I don’t know what to do. He told her on the second day he loves her,and on the third he asked her to marry her. I just don’t want her to get hurt.

    • concerned friend tell your friend she is being scammed this is the same guy thats talking to me.and has been saying the same thing. find out wat his email is and i will tell you forsure. but im possitive this man is who im talking to now

  180. I have been chatting with Steven Ramos, clains to live in Kabul. States he is a widower, has an 11 year old daughter that lives with a care taker. He has never asked for money, but has asked me to buy him an unlocked Apple I-phone 4 (so that we can talk) I have recieded an e-mail from someone claiming to be his daughter (Kathy) wanting me to tell her more about myself as I am going to be her “mum”. Today Steven asked me for my address so that he could send me a package, told me he like to buy, “my wife nice things” I gave my address, then he asked if I could meet with a diplomat at the local airport to recieve a package he was sending me, with 1.6 million dollars in it. For me to keep the money safe, and when he retires (as soon as his deployment is up) we would buy a house……This is when my thoughts turned to wrong doing, and I stumbled apon this site. I have chatted with Steven on Facebook, and my yearbook. As soon as we started chatting on yahoo, he deleted my friendship off facebook. (I had become suspicious when he had posted a pic of his Virginia home, with palm trees surrounding it (having been in that are I have NEVER seen palm trees in Virginia. Stevem claimed this were “planted, “fake” trees.

    I have informed him of being caught, anxiously waiting his reply

  181. okay, here is another name I believe is a scam: Sgt Roland Smith, US Army…. uses myyearbook.com and his address listed as Kabol (sp) should be Kabul…He has a yahoo messenger acct of sgt_rolandsmith… a facebook account under roland smith in Afghanistan… he called his mother Mum which is a very british thing to do, considering hes suppossed to be from Cali.. His wife died in an auto crash 6 years ago and he has an 8 year old son living with his mother…he has football on his fb page as his favorite sport but has soccer as the pictures… not a very american thing to do….. his FB pictures, although in uniform do not show his name….be very suspicious….waiting patiently for him to ask me for something….he has not friends on FB, just started Aug 5th…His YB account is set to private and he wont accept friend… all very suspicious.. has anyone else heard from him?

    • ladies; just heard from him again… he’s def. a scammer… he told me he likes football but gave barcelona and chelsea as his favorite teams… asked him why an american would be calling it football instead of soccer, he cut me off… after telling me he had feelings for me and couldnt see why I was calling him out… says his wife died in a auto accident Sept 25, 2007 and her name was Judith… I cant find an obit anywhere…he also says he likes to play chess, lawn tennis and fishing… his mothers name is Judith and lives in Cali somewhere with his son Larry who is 8…. his email is sgt_rolansmith@yahoo.com
      please be careful, he thinks he’s charming…..he has two sisters…he’s professed his feeling for me every day for the last week… sad individual.. he is scamming but not very good at it…at least not yet…

    • amy if you notice there account will also say not a reciepent also ive tried to send things and thats what pops up be very careful this guy is bad news.if he starts to ask for money for things tell him he makes more money than you do and if he tells you he dont have access to his money then he is lying to you dont get scammed.these scammers needs to be stopped.

    • i had last week a chat with sgt roland smith. he told me he was in afhanistan. Working as a sniper.
      Asking me how much money i get for work He told me he got 35000 dollars each month. He would buy me big presents like a powerbike when we would be eachother. i told him i don t want such big presents. His mum and dad were not alive anymore, they where sick. His wife died in a car accident 4 years ago, he was at the store at the moment it happens. she was burning for his eyes. he had a son 8 years He would meet me, couldnt concentrate anymore at work, he was scared to dying cause he wasn t concentrate, so he told me meeting was the best option. he would come and stay in a hotel. i had to make a request for leave. then he send me a militairy adress, but it ends on hotmail.com. i thought it can t be an hotmailadress. so i send a message.
      he told me he was in camp phonix and his number. few minutes after i send the mail, he was called by his superior. mail was not their yet, but the man told him for leaving their must be payed between 400-600 dollar, but when he was here the money will be received. i wrote his number on google and what did i find??? nike air shoes haha. i didn t chat with him anymore. he is on tagged and facebook. using pictures from millitairy man.

  182. Have been talking with a man who said he is in baghdad and E-6 Staff Sergeant he said he name is Marvin Ramso and has a 15 yr old son. His story is the same as what I have been reading on here. how do I know if he is real or not? he hasn’t asked for money or anything but have had someone else try to scam me so am very careful now.

  183. Hi my military scammer uses the name Lt Col James Hernandez (Kabul) Afghanistan – asking for payment on his special leave request yes, and i fell for it made payment to the agent in Nigeria. If some one can tell me how to add his pictures i would gladly do so.

  184. Paul Graves on SeniorPeopleMeet.com. Said was using a friends acct cause people in the army cannot accerss Dating sites. Well he obviously did. Said in Iraq from Liberty SC has a 9 yr old son who lives with a friend in Ghana. Is 51 yrs old been in Iraq for 8 months and will be ‘home’ in 2 months to retire.
    an excerpt:
    Paul Graves: I am so proud to stand for my nation. I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non-commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    Professes to be attracted to me. After randomly finding me. Does not use a .mil email, uses paul_graves @yahoo.com. Pictures of him in a nice house with ladies purse in background and picture of him in fatigues holding a little boy looking younger than 9 yrs old. Will post if I can figure out how to,

    • Thanks Cara. You verified what I have thought all along about this guy my aunt met on a senior dating site. Now I have to convince her before she gets in too deep. Beware PAUL GRAVES ladies.

  185. Has anyone heard of “Peter Butterfield”?

  186. Latest is James Morris. Uses same lines as Robert Haggard. Email is james_morris2020@ymail.com
    Comes from Match.com latched on to me as I was deleting my account.
    He said his birthday was Sept. 6th. I am sure he was getting ready to ask for money. If a guy tells you he loves you after three days of emails something is not right. Listen to your instincts.
    Here is a copy of the email I sent to him.

    From: Maria Cicalese
    To: Jim
    Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 11:41 PM
    Subject: Happy Birthday

    http://militarygear.com/asp/2010/12/20/new-online-military-scammers/
    My name is Robert Haggard.I was born on the 2nd of August, 1961 at Baptist Hospital of California. I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn’t spend much time at home. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field.
    I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience.
    I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.
    As you already know, I am currently stationed in Baghdad , the capital of Iraq.I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Iraq and I have already spent 10 months here in Iraq. My first mission to Iraq was in 2003. My mission ended in 2005. When back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.

    Hey Jim, sound familiar does to me…I will update the site with your information. Have a nice day…Don’t get shot in the ass!!! Maria

    • James Morris aka Alex Tock aka Calvin Miller aka Patrick Burke Smith aka Aaron Ramos Edwards aka Aaron Jay Ramos! This is all the same person. The picture is actually a poor real person named Aaron Ramos.

      Let’s get this guy ladies!!!

      • Sorry, he is also Robert Bill Haggard!

      • @ Monica are you sure the real persons name is Aaron Ramos because Ramos is NOT a common last name for real scammers in fact I have NEVER heard of an African with the last name Ramos I susspect this is a Nigerian or ghanian or in any case an African Scammer so I dont think this real scammers name is Aaron Ramos

      • @ Monica are you sure the real persons name is Aaron Ramos because Ramos is NOT a common last name for real scammers in fact I have NEVER heard of an African with the last name Ramos I suspect this is a Nigerian or ghanian or in any case an African Scammer so I dont think this real scammers name is Aaron Ramos

  187. I have been scammed by a man named James Larsen 14 from yahoo.. he states in his letter his is widower and has one son who is being watched by a diplomat who is now in Africa and will be retiring in two months and will return to Avon Ct. He will write and ask questions and CJ I have pictures to share so this will not happen to others.. He originally contacted me on IM match.. and asked me if I had IM yahoo…

  188. Two new names for you to ponder over, one using the above mentioned forms signed by Robert Gonzalez

    Joel Hernandez – Afganistan
    Christopher Logan – Iraq

    Be interesting to see who has had contacts with these guys.

    • I have photo’s, e-mail addresses and even a phone number that is still active for one of the above, plus other’s involved.

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    Tell us a little about yourself: If I had to describe myself it would go like this, I am an easy going, energetic person who actually looks and feels younger than I am. I enjoy being active, cookouts, and having a good time with friends. I have a spontaneous and adventurous spirit and am open to new things, places and events. I love to travel whether it is a short trip, extended weekend, or vacationing at a beach or other exotic location. A drive through the mountains, or a spot with a serene setting would make a great weekend getaway. I enjoy all sorts of sports, including auto racing, baseball, and hockey to name a few. I have my favorites, however; I am not someone who normally sits in front of the TV to watch them. The Chesapeake Bay always seems to beckon me with her beauty and the smell of salt in the air. I have a passion for lighthouses and try to seek out and explore these structures when I am in the vicinity of one. A long walk on a sandy beach shared with someone special would put a song in my heart. I have a can-do attitude, and believe if you can dream it, then it can be done. Working on home improvement projects, or repairing things around the house seems to come to me naturally to me, jack of all trades I suppose. I try to be positive and optimistic about life, I see the glass as being half full, not half empty I have a passion to succeed and do not give up easily. I have one great son, I feel that he is a gift given by God to cherish. I am a movie buff and enjoy a varied genre of films ranging from fictional titles to romance. I love the big screen or better yet enjoying a good film at home with someone special.
    I speak these languages: I’m originally from Germany so I have an accent..
    Last Online Today!
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    Gender: Male
    Sexuality: Straight
    Age: 54 years old
    Location: Neu-Isenburg, Berlin, DE
    Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
    Religion: Christian
    Occupation: Military
    Education: Some College
    Hair Color: Blonde
    Eye Color: Brown
    Body Type: Average
    Height: 180 cm
    Children: I have children
    Smoking: Non-Smoker
    Relationship Status: Widowed
    Astrological Sign: Leo
    He matches your search preferences.

  190. New names for you : christopher.logan45@yahoo.com, sgt in Iraq, usual story wife and parents dead, 10 yr old son Micheal tammylogan54@yahoo.com in military school Paris, best friend jeffreysnipper@yahoo.com consoling a grieving girlfriend after Christopher’s plane fell out of the sky on it’s way to an airport to drop Christopher off to meet his Internet girlfriend after she transferred £1000 through Western Union to pay for his flight. Christopher luckily survived but needs major leg surgery according to his doctor godownslife56@yahoo.com who informed girlfriend that it would cost £6000. Funnily enough the cell phone number is still active!!

    Meanwhile, same lady is chatting to hernandezjoel1@hotmail.com, hernandezjoel2010@googlemail.com who sent all the “official forms” for her to fill in requesting leave, signed at the bottom by Robert Gonzalez, consequently this has not been done. Money needs to be transferred to
    Name: Mrs Sylvia Joan Hennessy
    Bank Name: NATIONWIDE
    SORT CODE: 07 02 46
    ACCOUNT No: 11570766

    Obviously once bitten twice shy!!

  191. From: Patrick Mcdonald
    Sent: Wednesday, September 7, 2011 6:47 PM
    Subject: MY INTENTION

    I feel so happy chatting with you today babe and i believe you feel thesame here too….I never thought this was possible. I want to marry you now, I want to be your husband.I would describe myself as a kindhearted person sometimes too kind for my own good but that’s the person i am. and to let you know i am looking for a serious relationship as i am not the type to play mind games with people and all i ask is for the same in return. I believe in honesty and trust in any relationship because without these two things how can any relationship work between two people.
    I also believe that the virtue of love is not finding the perfect but loving the imperfect person perfectly.
    knowing each other is important because relationship is all about knowing your partner well, caring for each other in good and bad times and most of all its all about friendship.

    I am a very loving person and if I will give my love to someone I will be totally devoted to her. I will be sincere with my soul mate in any way, and I look for someone who would be as sincere with me. I want someone with whom I would share all of joys of my life, and who will be with me in sad days. I want to find a partner in life to enjoy life together and to go in the future together

    Am looking for a woman to spend quality time with, the ultimate goal is to find love. The mutual support of one another in life endeavors, and believing in each other is a key factor in any relationship, and with that comes a deep trust of one another. The ability to love like there is no tomorrow… So be it if a “LTR” results from a friendship. I would not be apposed to that. I’m fun loving, spontaneous, adventurous, and caring. I enjoy the simple things in life; quiet evenings at home, lets pull the white board out and lets play Pictionary….., , playing a good game of softball, playing cards or board games and just enjoying life it self.
    I would like to enjoy the rest of my life spending quality time with someone that can make me laugh , as I can with them, someone that makes my heart skip a beat when I see them, as I would hope the same for them. People who love to experience new adventures, I’m game if you are. A woman that knows how to show her feelings, the smallest of gestures that let the other person know that they are on your mind at all times. The sultry look from across the room with that gleam in your eyes, the slightest of touches across the small of the back as we pass by one another, and just enjoy experiencing what life has to offer together. I desire a “LTR”, (a long term, loving and sharing, committed to one another relationship), someone to live life with.
    I want to find a woman who will be my support and protection. I want to find a woman, with whom we will create the world of love, kindness and honesty. I want to see honesty and kindness in a woman. It’s most important because lies and anger spoil any relations. I want to find a lady who will grant me her love in response to mine. Heart of a woman is most important. I have very quiet and balanced character. I am very slow to anger and am rarely upset with anyone or anything. I believe life is too short for bad feeling..would appreciate a person who has a good sense of humor with a sense of direction about where and what she wants to be. I will appreciate a woman who sees a man as a friend and a partner……someone that cares and understandable.who will be wiling to take me as a partner. someone that is honest,trustworthy,hardworking, encouraging,devoted,loving and caring woman for a serious and long term relationship, A matured woman who really know what true love is all about and who is ready for a serious relationship…….a woman who will be my companion,confidant, soul mate and most of all be my best friend,a woman that can take good care of a man ,A woman to build the future with.

    Hope to hear from you soon
    Hugs

    but you see I play along cuz I trust no one and his whole letter was a red flag too me he said he is from Kabul hahahaha. Not really funny more like a shame low life have to do this to good men who serve our country

    • you go may we need more like you and me to stand up to theses wnat a be scamming soldiers, they have ruined many hearts out here,and its time they shut up or put up.my soldier boy dont know what to think about me now,since the shoe is on the other foot. now he s worried what i might do.see we have to stick together to defend the goo honest men and women that are doing there duty for us and our country.and we need to be strong for them.one day we all will meet the right person to spend our lives together with. and those who done us wrong will stay in misery, thats all they know how to do. i recommend they find a new line of work to do thanks

  192. I’m also chatting to a SSgt George Moose, 55 yrs old, stationed in Baghdad, Iraq, soon to retire (doesn’t have a def. date though)
    Expressesing his undying and everlasting love for me continuously…
    Wounded in the thigh a few years ago, caught his wife in bed with another man, has an 11yr old son.
    Wants to retire in S.A. with me, no less, ‘coz God had brought us together…
    B-date 2/8, email ad: george_moose@hotmail.com
    Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me…!

  193. Also been duped by George Moose…

    He uses the email george_moose@hotmail.com

    Endless declarations of love; 55yrs old; retires in a month or so; b-day 2/8; been wounded in the thigh; found wife in bed with another man; son of 11 years old.

    Prying on lonely women.

    Scammer.

    Shit..

  194. Am gary white from mobile alabama i work with the us army currently on peackeeping mission in kabul afghanistan am divorced two years ago with a daughter name vicky 21 years of age, i would describe myself as a kindhearted person sometimes too kind for my own good but that’s the person i am. ears and to let you know i am looking for a serious relationship as i am not the type to play mind games with people and all i ask is for the same in return. I believe in honesty and trust in any relationship because without these two things how can any relationship work between two people.

    I also believe that the virtue of love is not finding the perfect but loving the imperfect person perfectly.
    knowing each other is important because relationship is all about knowing your partner well, caring for each other in good and bad times and most of all its all about friendship.

    I am a very loving person and if I will give my love to someone I will be totally devoted to her. I will be sincere with my soul mate in any way, and I look for someone who would be as sincere with me. I want someone with whom I would share all of joys of my life, and who will be with me in sad days. I want to find a partner in life to enjoy life together and to go in the future together

    Am looking for a woman to spend quality time with, the ultimate goal is to find love. The mutual support of one another in life endeavors, and believing in each other is a key factor in any relationship, and with that comes a deep trust of one another. The ability to love like there is no tomorrow… So be it if a “LTR” results from a friendship. I would not be apposed to that. I’m fun loving, spontaneous, adventurous, and caring. I enjoy the simple things in life; quiet evenings at home, lets pull the white board out and lets play Pictionary….., , playing a good game of softball, playing cards or board games and just enjoying life it self.
    I would like to enjoy the rest of my life spending quality time with someone that can make me laugh , as I can with them, someone that makes my heart skip a beat when I see them, as I would hope the same for them. People who love to experience new adventures, I’m game if you are. A woman that knows how to show her feelings, the smallest of gestures that let the other person know that they are on your mind at all times. The sultry look from across the room with that gleam in your eyes, the slightest of touches across the small of the back as we pass by one another, and just enjoy experiencing what life has to offer together. I desire a “LTR”, (a long term, loving and sharing, committed to one another relationship), someone to live life with.
    I want to find a woman who will be my support and protection. I want to find a woman, with whom we will create the world of love, kindness and honesty. I want to see honesty and kindness in a woman. It’s most important because lies and anger spoil any relations. I want to find a lady who will grant me her love in response to mine. Heart of a woman is most important. I have very quiet and balanced character. I am very slow to anger and am rarely upset with anyone or anything. I believe life is too short for bad feeling..would appreciate a person who has a good sense of humor with a sense of direction about where and what she wants to be. I will appreciate a woman who sees a man as a friend and a partner……someone that cares and understandable.who will be wiling to take me as a partner. someone that is honest,trustworthy,hardworking, encouraging,devoted,loving and caring woman for a serious and long term relationship, A matured woman who really know what true love is all about and who is ready for a serious relationship…….a woman who will be my companion,confidant, soul mate and most of all be my best friend,a woman that can take good care of a man ,A woman to build the future with,i would have added you to my list for chat on the messenger but don’t want to be forward about it was why i decide to send you an email then we talk more and hit up a chat if you are interested in getting along with me.
    I am not one to lie or play games, so if you want someone who is determined to make this the most Wonderfully Exciting, Romantic, Passionate, Caring, Understanding and Loving relationship imaginable then let us begin Our Journey together.
    I will accept nothing less as I expect that you will also want the same in me …
    I demand an Unconditional love affair, which will benefit both of us and secure our feelings for each other, which will mean that our Love for each other will be strengthened knowing that we can and will Fall In Love forever.
    I have considered what would be an appropriate way to conduct ourselves during our first time together hopefully on arrival and what we both expect to be the outcome that is suitable and amicable to us …
    Love is in my opinion, a feeling that you want to be together and kiss, hold hands, touch each other intimately and then we will make love and at that time we will Fall In Love during this marvelous coming together of two bodies …
    We need to be 100% certain of our feelings and then we can make a decision for our future together more rationally once we have spent some quality time together, getting to know each others habits, more likes, more dislikes and intimately. I personally think it could be disastrous if we do not make the right decision, that is based on what our Hearts and feelings tell us is, what We want as a couple …
    People come into our lives for a reason, whether it is because we were destined to meet and become lovers and more, or just as friends, but in our case I truly believe it was meant to be, it matters little really, except that we will meet, stay together and become best friends, soul-mates and lovers when the time is right for us to meet, not before, but precisely when our paths must cross …
    So in conclusion, if you want someone who is ready to be loved, and to love you, then I must be the only one………..lol.How about we chat on instant messenger either msn or yahoo?
    Honesty and trust are paramount and being willing to compromise and understand each other …Tell me your view…Did i make you hungry?

    • you know i got simular letter also. and in the end the man is running scared of me, he dont even know what hit him.what he didnt realize i am army brat, and know how to find out things, these soldiers likes to play games with innocent people hay send them my way,they wont know wat hit them the tadiran comm stay away from it ladies and gentlemen,they are bad news

  195. Hi there,
    I had been on a dating site called Mrright when I started talking to a Sgt Lewis Robb who said he was Iraq his email address is lewisrobb@ymail.com. After awhile of talking he asked me to request leave for him. He sent me a letter to send off stating his rank and unit number, when i sent it off too usmilitaryprosessingdept@usa.com attentioned to General Martin E. Dempsey, I received a leave form had asked for all sorts of information my mother maiden name and reason for leave and thing likes that and was told when corresponding to always sent it with Case file no:88787 and was told the leave would cost $480 AUD through WU to a Marie Johnson of 191 Swan Lane, Georgia 31826. Then that was granted. I was told that as he was not going home to the USA that his plane ticket needed to be paid for because the army personal were not able to access their accounts i was asked to provide this but due to my financial situation i was unable to come up with the full amount so Lewis stated that he asked his commander for help and this money needed to be sent to Marie Beatrice of 78-2-1 Jalan matang 2, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia 51200. Then they asked for money to be sent for Beneficiary documents at a cost of $280. After all this Sgt Lewis Robb was mean to be on his way I was emailed his flight details with a ticket number but not the E-ticket number and he was flying through Emirates. I saw that the flight was delayed in Dubia by 20 min then at 3:55pm Brisbane time i received an email from Marie Beatrice stating that he had been attacked by Taliban in Dubai UAE and that the US Military will not be responsible for the medical expenses incurred and has asked for $2700 and i told her that there would be no way i could come up with the money.I have kept all emails and from Lewis, photos and corresponding emails pertaining to him. But there was an other guy before this that claimed that he was in Iraq and hie name was PFC Repetto Lind Smith and he had also asked for an amount of $480 for leave but as he was just so pushy I blocked him and deleted all emails and conversations and pictures. Could you tell me if this is a scam please?

    • Hell yeah! Of course it’s a scam – the same story they all use!

      • hi sandi, nice to meet you wow its been somthing else our own soldiers doing this to ennocent people like us feel sorry for the real soldiers.anyway i was thinking about how to get even with these want to be bad boys.ive already started on my bad boy, and he dont know what to think, i know he’s worried about what im going to do about him. still say he loves me and dont know y im acting like this says he not scamming me we will see if its true.if it comes out to be true then i just messed things up but its not.was fun while it lasted.i thought about contacting c.j.graham seeing if he wants some help with these bad boys.i believe these bad boys had there fun with us. they really messed up alot of lives doing this. now its time to mess there lives up.im up for any challenge they throw at me but in the end i will be the last one laughing.there is a 1-800-number that anybody can call to see if there being scammed,before they send any money to these want a be bad boys and i will post it. to anybody that wants it. thanks sandi for reading this we all have to stick together to try and stop these bad boys from ruining innocent people lives. katie

        • I too have been scammed, I know how much money the US ARMY GUYS ARE ON IN AFGHANISTAN,
          THEY DO NOT NEED OUR MONEY, IF THEY ARE GENUINE THEY WILL GIVE AS MUCH INFORMATION,
          THEY ARE ABLE TO.i WOULD LIKE THE 1800 NUMBER TO LOOK UP HARRY CAMPBELL, TO SEE IF HIS NAME APPEARS.

    • yup hate to say it youve been scammed oh dont get me wrong i was and he still is trying to get 1500 out of me now they tell you all sorts of thigs im rich,got all these vehicles, late wifes jews, love and sad stories. but what my guy didnt know about me i put things on the other foot i started telling him you send me money for this and that.then i would you in return.right he probable dont know who doing the scamming they dont like it.ya i sent him the money threw tadiran comm just to see what he do next.you got my reply in the beginning of this. well once he found out, my true nature and my bad attitude i have and that i do have connections to find out about things, his tone changed. so i tell everybody out there dont send any money or anything until you know what you gotten yourself into. and there is a 1-800-number to find out if your being scammed. and its a free number.need no money to dial it. to all of us out here i think its time our devoted soldiers and non soldiers find out how it feels to be scammed.we just have to stick together. anybody want help leave a post

  196. Hi Ladies…..just caught a scammer today. I met him on the dating site. SeniorPeople.com. under the screen name barden232. Claims his name is Staff Sargent Wesley Barden (49 yrs old). born in Duarte California, divorced with one 9yr old son. He Also claims to be currently serving in the ARMY, in Iraq at camp Victory.

    He sweet talked me and sent me pics of him in military uniform in the pics are him and 2 other soldiers, he also sent me a pic of him in full military uniform. I do not doubt these pics are real, they probably are from a real soldier who is NOT named Wesley Barden. However the name badge on his uniform does say the last name BARDEN. .I believe that these are genuine pics of a Army soldier with the last name BARDEN…

    .He also sent me pics of him in civilian clothes , the picture shows him and his son goofing around both have thier finger stuck up thier noses!!! I also got a pic of him in a nice dark suit & red tie, he is sitting at a computer you can see the Kitchen in the background. Another pic is of him wearing a khaki green t-shirt, sunglasses and a Black Toque, he is sitting with his arms folded across his chest and part of a “GREEN COLORED STAR” tatoo is visible on his “upper back arm”…he also has other tatoo’s such as flames up part of one arm and a “celtic cross” on the other. He is about 5″8 blonde, fair skinned….cute whoever he is!
    He claims to be an only child, mom was a teacher, dad a medic in the army who later worked for the UN. He claims he went to military academy, he will be finished his deployment in Iraq in January 2012, coming back to california. He likes Chocolate Ice Cream…also served in the Gulf War. I will include a few sentenances of his email to me…please see below…

    I have been in the Army for 24 years now, joined right away after the Military Academy. Its been a tough time for me in the ARMY , I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience…that’s just by the way… Its been 10 months I have been deployed here in Iraq, Baghdad, and looking forward to be home soon. Miss my boy and miss all the “Home sweet home stuff you know”….
    Miami Dolphins….that’s my favorite NFL team…i do love to watch them play anytime..The Yankees are also my favorite when it comes to baseball…
    I do love watching romantic movies..adventure and action movies too…the movie i always love to watch is Titanic..i can watch that over and over again..
    The last book i read was a novel by Shake spears…i have forgotten about the name …may be i will tell you later on….The new Stephen King collection of short stories – After the Sunset is also my favorite…
    I do love to listen to love and romantic songs..country music..R and B and Christian songs as well…I hope you now know a bit about me…you will get to know me more as we keep sending each other mails..

    This guy asked me this week to send him a blackberry torch phone…yeah right!!! RED FLAGS went off for sure. A Seargent does not need to ask for financial help from a woman!!!! I told him to buy his own, I found this website last night and confronted him today because I saw part of the letter he sent me posted by another woman he scammed….same letter, same words!!!!….Im sickened that those pathetic scammers are sending pics of this man’s son all over the internet to women. As a parent this infuriates me and Im sure the real soldier “Barden” would be pissed to know this too!….Can anyone out there relate to the information I have provided, I have pics and if you want more info, please contact me & I will help anyway I can. These Freaks need to be stopped!!

  197. Sgt Peter Butterfield is a scam. I fell for his story completely. I considered myself to be intelligent. Really questioning myself now. I’m taking everything I know and have to authorities although it is doubtful anything will become of it. LADIES DO TRUST this scammed Peter Butterfield. His Match.com name is SweetPetter0977. Email is petterboat10013@yahoo.com. Beware and trust your instinct!! Wish I would have!!

    • Hello, I also have been talking to Peter Butterfield he is a smooth talker and a scammer, Beaware Ladies he is scum. Wanted me to transfer $50,000. from his account in London to my personal account to seal a deal, with Arabs for antique purchase. I have pictures. He was hounding me for money, I finally caught on and told him today to get lost.

  198. Correction. DO NOT trust this Peter Butterfield scammer. Petterboat10913@yahoo.com.

  199. YOU GO LUCY IM VERY PROUD OF YOU, BUT UNFORTUNATELY THERES STILL ALOT OF MEN AND WOMEN OUT THERE THATS BEING SUCKED IN BY THESE WANT A BE BAD BOYS, IF YOU WANT TO HELP POST THIS ON YOUR WEB SITE FACEBOOK,TWITTER, OR WHAT EVER YOU HAVE. TO HELP PREVENT THESE SOLDIERS SCAMMERS FROM DOING ANYMORE HARM TO INNOCENT LIVES, THERE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT DONT KNOW ABOUT THE SCAMS THATS GOING ON.AND IT NEEDS TO BE PUBLIC INFORMATION TO EVERYONE. CJ GRAHAM WILL BE PROUD OF US .

  200. Hey ladies be careful with this guy that says he is thomasadams7474 or Thom Adams,Thomas John Adams. He gave me his e-mail as thomasadams@gmail.com. He is a scammer we have been talking for about a week. He has three profiles in FB he was on pof. and he put me in IM. He seem so real at first until he started asking me for my home address so he can send me some gifts and flowers. He send me some pictures of him what a joke he has three profiles on FB so which one is true. He said he is station in Kabul his wife died of cancer and his son is 15 and lives in Poland with grandma. He also said that his parents died and his brother died in the Navy, he claims he is a sargent and has a Masters Degree in civil engineering. he claims he was stationed at Ft. Sam and he will be retiring in December he wants to see me when he comes home. But I found out that he is a scammer yesterday he told me that if could have my home address so that he can send me flowers and gifts I said no way and he got upset he said I did not trust him. Well I had my guns loaded and I out smarted him he started cussing me out so I unloaded on him in words.Check him out how do I know he is real. Be real careful

  201. I too was on a Christian website and was contacted by a man claiming to be Major Gregory Staud or Staudd; he spelled it both ways in emails/chats. He said he was divorced, had no living family…son who was killed in a motorcycle accident; brother who was killed in Iraq. He said he was serving in Afghanastan and at first wanted me to write a letter to his commander to have Emergency Leave, then when I questioned that after reading on the web about these scams, he quickly moved to telling me he had health issues and was going to be discharged honorably and he could retire and come home. His email address is onelife2live4@ymail.com. He still has a posting on Facebook. http://www.facebook.com/people/Gregory-Staud/100002889807666.

    I was able to trace his IP address to Sunnyvale, CA…still believing that this might be wrong. After confronting him again, I found that he deleted his profile from the Christian Dating website and then today he removed his profile from yahoo messenger so I could not contact him.

    There is a special place in HELL for these people. The hardest thing is that I really fell for the guy in the photos. Would like to post them so people can see who he is, just don’t know where to go to post. If anyone knows, please share.

    • @Gwen yes you can go to romance scam.com and post your pics there and you may very well find that this begger is already there and the greatest part about romancescam is that they also have pics of the REAL Faces behind the scams and the peoples pics they use to lie and scam with you will find much joy comfort and support there.

    • i met the same guy by the name major gregory staud, can you exchange picture with me thanks

  202. Alex Witt, using lexiwitt50@yahoo.com, states he is from AL/TN, a marine in afganistan. I told him yesterday i was on to him and surprise no response. He sent me photos of soldier Sigmund Witt on this website.

  203. Clearly the pictures show Mr. Witt wearing an US ARMY jacket, although he reports being marine, he has reasons for all of this, and states he knows about the fake pictures. His story is clearly different from the person calling himself Sigmund Witt. But anyone having any information, please email me. I have no experience honestly with any military contact so am slightly clueless on what is normal and what isn’t. mllwhynot1@yahoo.com

    • MICHELLE THESE GUYS ARE GOOD BUT NOT GOOD ENOUGH. 1.DONT SEND THEM PICTURES OF YOU THEY WILL POST THEM TO OTHER SCAMMERS,IF YOU DO SEND OLD PICTURE.AND IF HE STARTS TO TELL YOU HE NEEDS MONEY DONT THEY HAVE ACCESS TO THERE MONEY.AND THEY MAKE GOOD MONEY TRUST ME ON THIS I ALREADY KNOW WHAT THEY MAKE.AND IF YOU DESIDE TO DO IT AND IF YOU GO WESTERN UNION ASK THEM TO CALL THE TWO 1-800 NUMBERS AND THAT WILL TELL YOU IF YOU BEING SCAMMED.AND DONT SEND MONEY TO A SECOND PARTY.THEY WILL TRLL YOU THEY ARE THE ANNEX RECIEVER.I WISH WE COULD TALK I LIKE TO SEE THESE PICTURES YOU AND SOME OF THE OTHERS HAS HOPE THIS HELPS YOU OUT NEED ANYMORE POST IT AND I WILL HELP YOU

    • He is a scammer, i was scammed for 4,000.00 by him…he is a really smooth talker and will give you good anwers…i just sent all picks and names that he uses to (update) faces of military scammers…don’t trust him at all…He is on Cupid an flirt going under 3 different names….as of today he is still contacting me..He just won’t leave me alone…Sgt. G. Witt, Sgt. G. Sigmund Witt and now Mr. Smith

  204. UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE BEEN SCAMMD OUT OF MONEY…….. HE IS USING THE NAME OF MAJOR LARRY SCOTT. WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF ANY ONE ELSE HAS BEEN SCAMMED BY THIS PERSON. THE E-MAIL ADDRESS. MAJOR.LARRYSCOTT@YAHOO.COM, WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF ANY ONE ELSE HAS BEEN SCAMMED BY THIS PERSON??????
    THE THING THAT GETS ME REALLY ANGRY, IS THAT HE TOLD ME THAT HE NEARLY DIED IN A BOMB ATTACK IN KABUL……. PITTY HE DIDNT REALLY DIE!!!!!!!!!!!
    THESE PEOPLE ARE REALLY GIVEN THE AMERICAN MILITARY A BAD NAME…..
    SOMETHING SERIOUSLY NEEDS TO BE DONE……..
    AND SERIOUSLY I HOPE THESE SCAMMERS GET THEIRS ONE DAY………

  205. Sgt. Fred Marculy, fmarculy@live.com, asked me to apply for a satellite phone for him from the phone dpt. Sun, 9 Oct 2011, because ” i just received a letter to be deployed to Baghdad and that means i would loss total contact with you babe that hurts me so much hunnie over in Baghdad camp there is no internet or general phone connection and i would miss you so much my love”. I was lucky I couldn’t answer till now so I found this site.
    Now I don’t know what to do exactly, but one thing is sure: I’ll tell him no.

  206. Ladies i have a name for you, have you ever been contacted by Sgt. Roland Smith from US army, who is on deployment in afghanistan?
    This is his yahoo address: sgt_rolandsmith@yahoo.com

    BECAREFUL LADIES…

  207. Looking for Kennedy Craig RUDDOCK Colonel from Erbil Uraq
    contact with Tublu Godwin Accra Ghana
    Michael Oduro Accra Ghana
    Emmanuel Ogeo Accra Ghana

    BIG TIME SCAMMER

  208. Hi all,

    Have you heard or have you been contacted by someone named Sgt. Bobby George? His email address is sgt.bobbygeorge@yahoo.com

    I knew him through Asian Dating site. He told me he is 40-year-old from Seattle, is a widower, has a 7-year-old son named Cole but living with this “soldier”‘s mom in UK since his “wife” died when giving birth to the “child”. He’s the only son of the family. When I confronted about him writing his nationality as a German on his profile, he gave me reason that his mom was originally from there.

    He is stationed in Afghanistan with Camp Black Jack. I did make a research and found the name in an article which mentioned his son’s name Cole…and a wife named Shannon. The article was written and posted in 2009! So I assumed this scammer was taking someone’s real name randomly from a website and used it to prove that he is “real”. I once asked for his facebook and skype account, but he said he didn’t have any of them.

    More info he revealed about his “service” in the army is:
    “I was a former US Marine infantryman, having served 10 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Pendleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Lejeune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment). I have been to a bunch of places in the world, some of them hot spots, and continue to do so today. I am privileged to have served with highly professional individuals in the Marines, and the tradition continues now in the Army. I’m fortunate to command a small, very specialized unit and get to interact with many guys on the tip of the spear: US service members of all branches and ranks, Coalition forces, contractors and locals”.

    This scammer and I didn’t chat often through YM because I gave him my alternative email for addresses I suspect to be scammers. He of course called me with pet names and convinced me to see me by coming to my country once he finished his duty in Afghanistan. He liked to click the “buzz” many times when I got idle when we was chatting. It took him 3 weeks after he sent his first email to tell me he was not happy because he couldn’t send any money to UK to pay for his son’s school fee and food. He asked me to help him by sending money USD 1,200 which he said he will pay back to me when he meet me and when I “agreed to help”, he told me to send the money through Western Union and he gave me contact name and address for the money to be sent as follow:
    sgt.bobbygeorge(10/04/2011 11:48:22 AM) : Name; GEORGINA GABRIEL
    100c Broadway, Lancashire, Manchester
    M40 3WQ, United Kingdom.

    He asked me to send him the info such as MTCN Control Number from Western Union to his email address so his contact in UK can withdraw the money. I only said “yes, will do that soon”.

    No, I didn’t fell for his request. I ran away from him by setting the stealth setting on the YM permanently off so he won’t be able to see me online anymore there because he kept sending me messages after that asking me for the info he has been waiting for (MTCN Control Number and so on) which surely I had none because I didn’t send him any cents.

    I am keeping record of the photos, e-mails, and chat conversation when he asked the money. If anyone of you are contacted by the same name, please be careful. Any stranger asks me for money, I categorize him/her as scammer.

    That’s my experience.

  209. hiya CJ,
    my mum i think is being scammed, the ts2 has been mentioned and keeps cropping up i have two emails for a certain Sergeant Daniel Winn i would appreciate if u could check them for me, they are daniel_sgtwinn02@yahoo.com or daniel_sgtwinn02@hotmail.com if u could get back to me at deanapannett@rocketmail.com as soon as possible please im worried about my mum, much appreciated.
    Deana

  210. I was scammed by Sgt. G. Witt who said that he was in the military in Iraq,,,i have been chatting with him for 4 months.. I met him on a the dating site (flirt) and we continued to chat on yahoo…
    I feel so ashamed and betrayed not to mention alot of other emotions,,,how can we stop these people..

    • LISA SORRY BUT YOU NEED TO MOVE ON THEY AND BAD AND CANT HELP WHAT THEY DO TO INNOCENT LIVES. THATS ALL THEY KNOW HOW TO DO WHAT EVER DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY TO THEM FOR ANYTHING THEY MAKE MORE MONEY THAN WHAT THEY SAY THEY DO IM HERE FOR YOU AND FEEL YOUIF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO IM HERE OR ON FACEBOOK YOU CAN POST EVERYTHING ON FACEBOOK,TWEETER AND OTHER SITES YOU CAN GO TO MILITARY BASE WITH ALL OF HIS INFO AND SEE WHAT THEY CAN DO TO TRACK HIM DOWN IF YOU DO LET ME KNOW WHAT THEY SAY IF NOT I CAN HELP YOU FURTHER SEND ME THIS MAN EMAIL ADDRESS AND LET ME SEE WHAT I CAN DO TAKE IT PUBLIC WITH THE PRESS ALSO KATIE

      • I have all his pics that he sent and all emails, incuding docs…he just doesn’t stop calling or emailing even after i told him that knew…He back on flirt using one of the same pics, but now calls himself Smith30911 for a screen name..I notified flirt, but they haven’t done any yet…..He also uses the name Sgt. G. Sigmund Witt…

        I have called the Military in my area and have gotten no response…what else can i do but fight them on my own.

        Just recently tonight a got a new email from a man that calls himself Lieutenant Colonel Michael Moore….these guys are everywhere….

      • Hi Katie, I have a new scam that there trying to use now.. Is there anyway that i can post it here or send to you…i have alot of info. to share…There also using young kids pics…Please let me know…This guy is from Flirt..

    • THIS IS FOR LISA. I TOO WAS ROMANCE BY SIGMUND WITT SINCE SEPTEMBER 2011. HIS NAME THAT HE WAS USING WAS CHRIS WALSH-WITT. I HAVE ALL THE PICTURES THAT WAS POSTED ABOVE. WE MEET ON OKCUPID SITE. HE SAID HE LOVES ME AND THAT I AM THE ONLY ONE HE HAS IN LIFE. HE SAID THAT HE WILL DO EVERYTHING IN HIS POWER TO MAKE ME HAPPY. I TOO HAD A DOUBTS ABOUT HIM AT FIRST BEC. HE TOLD ME HE LOVES ME ON THE SECOND DAY WE CHATTED. I AM SO HURT RIGHT NOW THAT I HAVE BEEN CRYING. I LOANED HIM $130.00 CUZ HIS ADOPTED SON IN GHANA WAS SICK WITH CHOLERA. I SENT $50 AT FIRST AND HE SAID WHY SO SMALL AMT. AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE NEED MONEY TO EAT TOO. AND HE SOUNDED LIKE HE DIDNT CARE IF WE EAT OR NOT. SO I CUT CORNERS WITH MY OTHER BILLS SO I CAN SEND THAT MONEY FOR HIS SON AND MONEY FOR US TO BUY FOOD. TWO DAYS AFTER THAT HE ASKED FOR MORE AND HE ASKED ME HOW MUCH I WOULD SEND. I WAS EMBARRASSED TO TELL HIM THAT I WOULD SEND $60 CUZ MY BILLS AND FOOD. AND HE SAID IF I COULD ADD MORE TO MAKE IT A $100. HOWEVER, I DIDNT SEND HIM THAT AMT. MY FRIENDS AND COWORKERS WARNED ME ABOUT HIM AND THE PEOPLE FROM AFRICA ON HOW THEY SCAM PEOPLE. BUT I DIDNT LISTEN. ALL I WAS THINKING WAS HELP HIS SON GET BETTER. HIS SAID THAT THE DR. WANTS THE MONEY FIRST BEFORE HE COULD GIVE HIS SON THE MEDICAL TREATMENT. ANYWAY, HE LEFT FOR GHANA TO PICK UP HIS SON. AND BEFORE THAT HE TOLD ME THAT HES GOING TO SEND THE BIG BOXES FULL OF IMPT STUFF TO ME. I TOLD HIM NO BEC I DONT WANT TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT BOX. IT MIGHT GET LOST IN TRANSIT. HE WAS ASKING ME ALSO TO PAY HIS HOTEL BILLS CUZ HE SPENT A LOT OF MONEY FOR HIS FLIGHT TO GHANA AND FROM GHANA BACK HERE IN THE U.S. WITH HIS ADOTED SON. I TOLD HIM NO, THAT I DONT WANT TO SEND HIM MONEY. I SAID HE HAS TO FIND SOMEONE TO HELP HIM WITH MONEY CUZ I DONT HAVE IT. AND I WILL LET HIM GO TO DO THAT EVEN THOUGH I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. BUT HE SAID IM THE ONLY ONE THAT HE LOVES AND NO ONE ELSE. YESTERDAY I ASKED HIM TO COME ONLINE SO I CAN SEE HIM ON THE WEBCAM AND HE GAVE ME THIS STUPID ALIBI NOT TO SHOW HIS FACE TO ME. HE PLAYED US AND THE OTHER WOMEN FOR A FOOL. I AM VERY HURT AND STILL CRYING. I WANT TO FORGET ABOUT HIM AND MOVE ON BUT IT HURTS TO LET GO. PLS LETS CHAT. PLS ASKED CJ FOR MY EMAIL ADDRESS. THANX LISA.. PS. HE IS TALKING TO ONE OF THE WOMEN BY THE NAME GINA. AND SHE HAS POSTED A COMMENT HERE IN THIS SITE WITH CJ AS WELL..

      FROM ANNE

  211. CJ…. I think I have a new one for you to post here but I think the pictures might be real. The person behind them is not though. I met him on match. I did fall for it for the first four days but from the beginning something didn’t seem right and getting a letter from his 16 year old daughter “hello mommy” just topped it all for me. So I went and found your website and than I just played his gamefor the next two days…. all loving and missing and slowly got him scrambled like eggs on a pan after my last question to him where his base in states is located and he got of line. He came back with googled address. I will continue to play his game but I think he know I’m after him. In the meantime I have found him on facebook and thanks to that idiot posting new picture on our chat and he gave it to me. This pic was on his facebook. He is of course in Kabul right now and is coming home soon and retiring and his wife and little boy died in accident six years ago. His 16 years daughter though is being raised by a home taker. Here’s the thing, on his facebook his “daughter” is under different name. More detail about him: came from France when he was 15, he is from Albany, NY, on fb says NY,NY his parents died, he speaks Spanish, French and not so good English. I’m glad I have trust issues. CJ I want to send you pictures. I have pics he used on me and from his fb. Please contact me.

    • And forgot he goes by Albert Miller

  212. would like to know if anyone has been approached by a major randy gillmore suppositly live in oakcliff,texas has daughter 8 years old lost his wife 5 years ago to cancer. had another 14 years supposedly passed away, dont know how long ago . he says he is in iraq near bagdad at log base seitz camp retiring this month after 30 years of service he is supposed to in navy but really not sure.we met on a date line. called girls date for freewe met september 13th of this year, never met in person yet, he is supposeed to be in love with me and calls me his wife. suppose to be half brazilian and half american sends all kind of poems to me everyday.talked to himjust 9 days and he wanted cell phone over there, said he had no excess to his money, that he couldnt recieve or send mail.yes i sent money through western union to a guy here in indiana, to purchase phone for him after 3 weeks he says he got the phone, but now he says phone needs to be unlocked what ever that means. never once for any of my phone numbers. now he comes back with needing 2800dollars, to be sent to the same man in indiana only by western union. major gillmore messages me everyday and always about the money. i dont have that kind of money.. i need to know if there is such a person or not . so many people say to me he is a fraud and a scammer…please i need help on this.

    • @ Beverly I cannot break it to you easy but he is a SCAMMER google the poems hes sent to you online you will find they are not his he is not of mixed race he is an UGLY BROKE BEGGING SCAMMING AFRICAN you are being scammed you sent money for a cellphone which he is using now to scam others that phone is unlocked you sent money once and he will keep coming up with fake tragedies and he is not in Iraq he is in Nigeria or Ghana or in Africa cut this scammer off and go to romancescam.com for support.DELETE and BLOCK him he does NOT Love you he is only after your money

    • He could receive email and mail if he were a real us military member but he is NOT if he were real he would have access to his money at all times he is a fraud ask him to send you a copy of his military id one hint it is not green and it will NOT say military id card,next ask him to take a pic of himself with the phone u paid for in his uniform holding a sign saying I love you Beverly make sure the last name he gave you matches the one on his uniform I bet you will not see the man in the pics this scammer has stolen but you will see an ugly african with an odd shaped head do NOT send him money for anything YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED NOW PAY ATTENTION.

    • HI BEVERLY DO NOT SEND HIM ANY MONEY AT ALL HE IS A SCAMMER AND HE HAS AXCESS TO HIS OWN MONEY AND HE MAKES A FAIRLY DECENT AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR HIM TO BE DEPLOYED. REPORT HIM TO FRAUD AND YOU CAN BLOCK HIM FROM YOUR COMPUTER IM SORRY HE HAS MESSED WITH YOUR EMOTIONS BUT THATS WHAT THEY DO THEY HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR OTHERS THERE SCUMS

  213. HEY IF ANYBODY WANTS TO TALK IM HERE FOR US AND WANT TO HELP I CAN BE REACHED AT KATHY.SKINNER80@YAHOO.COM OR ON FACEBOOK I FOUGHT OBBARRIAN CANCER FOR TWO YEARS AND NOW I WANT TO HELP STOP THESE WANNA BE BAD BOYS THAT CALLS THEMSELF USA SOLDIERS
    THEY ARE WORSE THAN SCUMS

    • @ Katie why is your grammer and spelling so bad could you perhaps be a scammer hmmmmm I think I smell a Scammer as scammers do visit this site often LOL nice try

      • HI NO IM NOT A SCAMMER MY SISTER WAS TAKING FOR ALOT OF MONEY AND I ALMOST FELL FOR ONE MYSELF I FOUND THIS SITE OUT FROM ANOTHER FRIEND AND I WANT TO STOP THESE MILITARY SCAMMERS FROM HURTING OTHER INNOCENT PEOPLE LIKE US

  214. CJ…. I think I have a new one for you to post here but I think the pictures might be real. The person behind them is not though. I met him on match. I did fall for it for the first four days but from the beginning something didn’t seem right and getting a letter from his 16 year old daughter “hello mommy” just topped it all for me. So I went and found your website and than I just played his game for the next two days…. all loving and missing and slowly got him scrambled like eggs on a pan after my last question to him where his base in states is located and he got of line. He came back with googled address. Also he said his camera is broken so he can’t do video chat, right…. and his loptop crashed and he had to format it so he has no pictures with him and his daughter together… I will continue to play his game but I think he knows I’m after him. In the meantime I have found him on facebook and thanks to that idiot posting new picture on our chat and he gave it to me. This pic was on his facebook. He is of course in Kabul right now and is coming home soon and retiring and his wife and little boy died in accident six years ago. His 16 years old “daughter” though is being raised by a home taker. Here’s the thing, on his facebook his “daughter” is under different name and it’s not his daughter there. More details about him: goes by Albert Miller, daughter Tracy Miller,came from France when he was 15, he is from Albany, NY, on fb says NY,NY his parents died, he speaks Spanish, French and not so good English. CJ I want to send you pictures. I have pics he used on me and from his fb. Please contact
    I’ve been on his fb and was trying to warn a woman he was exchanging love words with, but I’m pretty sure he will convince her I’m a lunatic and will make her guilty for not trusting him. He has two facebook profiles.

  215. The pictures are the same as well but he was so polite he sent me six pictures.
    I too am a victim of RAMOS, EDWARD NICHOLAS DOB 11/14/1965 FROM PA. He contacted me through “Are interested” a dating website through Face book….I have heard it all…he wanted me to request leave for him because we are getting married. So I did…through an email to his Commander:
    commander@gazatroops.com, he actually emailed me the letter to send.
    (Letter sent to commander)
    To: Commander,

    Good morning Sir.
    I will not take up much of your time as I am sure you are very busy. I am xxxxxxx , the fiancée of Capt. Edwards Ramos. I have most recently had to endure a very agonizing and painful loneliness and preparation of our Wedding coming up end of the season. Due to this fact I would like the help, support, and comfort Capt. Edwards can give me during my examination.
    Commander, I respectfully request that you grant Capt. Edwards Ramos leave so that he may come home and tend to his family. If you would see to it that this matter is taken care of right away it would be greatly appreciated.

    If there are any additional questions or if you need to contact me, you may email @xxxxxxxxxxx

    Thank you, for your time in this matter and for your service to our country. I pray your military installation is capable of a 13-gun salute today, our Independence Day, to boost the spirits of our troops. Have a wonderful day Sir.
    ___________________________________________________________________________________

    This was his response today that I received from the commander today 10/14/11
    From commander
    Hello Madam,

    I Was a little surprised to receive an email from you requesting a leave for
    Capt Edwards because I was not expecting to read from you. Well I will
    like to help because it will be my joy to see Edwards get a time off. But
    I must tell you this since the killing of Osama bin laden the defense
    department closed all leave application for now. But I do have an
    authority to let any officer go home if I think he merit it. The officer
    will have to take responsibility for his flight home and any other expenses
    he might have to do. A refund will be made available to him as soon as the
    defense department makes available the leave packages. Get back to me if he
    can afford the cost then I can issue him a letter which will let him
    travel. Thank you and have a good day

    Regards,
    Gen. L Austin

    I thought it was so unusual first of all he did not use a military email address, I asked him why? and he said he did not for security reason as well. I am glad that I looked this up because this is how I found out he was a liar….and a scam!!! He had already asked me for the money for his flight too, I am just glad I did not send any money, was always skeptical!!!Please keep posting your stories.
    I have yet to email or text him that I am onto his scam…

  216. Crazy stupid, Im sorry he hurt you, but I am thankful for your post. You helped me to be assured that myb gut instinct was true about Peter Butterfield. I wonder if the real Peter Butterfield knows he is being used by a scammer.

  217. Crazy Stupid I also have photos and his fake Bank Information, He wanted me to transfer $50,000 from his bank in London, to seal a deal with the Arabs, he is in Afgan and suppose to be coming home actually today, his son named Austin and he has apt at Ft Sam Houston.

  218. Has any one been contacted by someone posing as Gabriel Rivera based in Afghanistan, but lives in Georgia? I met him on match.com and have been sent photos of a soldier in army uniform with the name Rivera printed, standing next to another soldier, also other photos of him without a shirt on. He insisted that we didnt speak on the phone as it would be too costly, but i noticed his written english on gmail chat looked fishy. Like someone whose first language was not english. After weeks of chatting and he even suggested that I visit his home in Georgia whiles travelling the USA. Then he asked for help to send money to his 21 yr old son who’d gone to China without his permission and got robbed of all his money!!! I thought what a story. anyone had anything similar happen? When I said I didnt believe him and would never send money to someone I hadnt met, he got so angry and said he thought I was the woman for him, but if i can’t help him when he needed me, then there’s no point in chatting anymore!the sad thing is that I know the person in the photo is definitely not who I was speaking to and would really want him to know that his photos are being used by scammers.

  219. can someone tell me, is it right that in afghanistan, that you have to pay for a phone line, namely 250 pound, so that you can keep in touch with someone, also, do you have to pay for replacement leave so they can come home, or do they have everything done by military if they want to come home, think im being scammed, why do you have to pay anything

    • @ Ennis NO you do NOT have to pay for a phone line that is a scammer you are chatting with drop and delete and block him he is a fraud a BEGGER a Scammer you are being scammed US Military members will NOT need you money for any reason this african is begging for your money and will probably buy the new Iphone or blackberry they are mostly young uneducated idiots that continue to beg until you are BROKE and leave is like Vacation time on your job and it does not have to be paid for and this so called replacement leave is a crock of bullshit this is a SCAMMER trying to scam you out of your hard earned money tell him to get a JOB and stop lying and begging.

  220. I knew David Ramos in Oasisactive.com…..his mail was bluesky_dave@hotmail.com…..and gave me his telephone number 00233244460155….He send me a lot of love letters and he wrote me twice a day for almost 4 weeks…He said he was in Irak in a mission….he send me a lot of pictures….and i felt in love with him….nobody wrote me love letters like this….One week ago he told me that he was shoot and 2 friends died…and asked me to keep a package ( later he said that the package has a diamonds and gold)…He said that he want that i´ll keep this package until christmas….when he finish his mission and could come to visit me in south america…I said no!!!!…one week later…he start to write me again…and said he was in a hospital and need to send money to his son 13 years old Chris in New jersey….i was in shock…but i closed any comunication with him….Then I decided to investigate him…and i founded this!!!!..it is amaizing!!!!! nobody can stop this????

  221. I knew David Ramos in Oasisactive.com…..his mail was bluesky_dave@hotmail.com…..and gave me his telephone number 00233244460155….He send me a lot of love letters and he wrote me twice a day for almost 4 weeks…He said he was in Irak in a mission….he send me a lot of pictures….and i felt in love with him….nobody wrote me love letters like this….One week ago he told me that he was shoot and 2 friends died…and asked me to keep a package ( later he said that the package has a diamonds and gold)…He said that he want that i´ll keep this package until christmas….when he finish his mission and could come to visit me in south america…I said no!!!!…one week later…he start to write me again…and said he was in a hospital and need to send money to his son 13 years old Chris in New jersey….i was in shock…but i closed any comunication with him….Then I decided to investigate him…and i founded this!!!!..it is amaizing!!!!! nobody can stop this????….

  222. We need quicker assess to photos and information that can better help all of us identify and catch this diabolical individuals, or groups, so that we can but a stop to all of the money being lost in the US to overseas scammers. The problem is that no one agency handles this kind of crime. I one place has been built to accommodate the information to anyone with a questions. That is what the scammers have going for them. (They count on this.)
    I was scammed by someone that said he was SMSGT Bryan Jordan of the USAF. So if you know this individual please let him know that not only was he name used but I received many pictures of him and his children. I would post pictures if that was an option for me to do.
    We are all looking to find love that is true and forgiving, that was my fault, and to that I lost about $25,000. Well it was a very hard lesson to learn but I am trying to warn all and report scam but every agency sends me to another agency. (Gee, I wonder why they get away with it?) It has been almost 2 weeks of trying and I still have yet to have anyone come to my house and look at IP addresses and any of all information that I have saved.
    If anybody can tell me where to post the photo’s or can warn the Bryan, that I am sure I never communicated with, I would be happy to do whatever I need too.
    Thank you for a place to vent my frustration and an ear to listen to me.
    You can email me at meetthebee07@yahoo.com with any information that I might need or will help.
    Thank you in advance for your time.
    God bless our military and keep them safe
    Deborah

  223. My mom has been talking to a Danny Ramos with the same pictures but he has actually set her more pics than the ones on here and has asked her to send him $3800.00 for his return flight home because he said the military won’t pay for him to come home and he told my mom that he was supposed to be discharged on nov 5th. he said his wife died 6 yrs ago in car crash and that he had 3 kids. 2 died with their mom and his oldest was in college overseas. He just asked my mom for this money 3 days ago and i got on her phone and told him to go to hell that i was contacting the news stations and i have. I refuse to allow my mother to be scammed. I have made it a point to contact local news stations and tell them about this so that other women will know what is going on and i hope they all get what is coming to them.

    • Johnna… that sounds almost exactly like the story a guy with the same name told one of my friends… did he say he was in Kabuhl? UN Peacekeeping forces?

  224. I to got caught up with these dreadful online scammmers they targeted the website girlsdateforfree, and i thought i was talking to a genuine staff sargent Dave Smith pics that i am sending into this website for ID PURPOSES. i never parted with any money as i was way too suspicious esp when they sent a certificate stating the iraq army was giving him money and gold medals for good works out in Iraq. And then he invented an u diplomat who was taking the money out of iraq for him, it was the same old story, wife died had none, retiring in a few months wanting to get married. I THOUGHT THIS GUY COULD WRITE FOR HOLLYWOOD with his vivid imagination. I thought as if the US military are going to allow any of that kind of nonsense going on, that is what alerted my suspicion, so i contacted the 3rd infantry divisons HQ and reported it to them, but no rely came back from them. I also contacted the internet onlines crimes website and reported it. I was quite shocked when i found out about the scammers as normally never use internet dating it was a one off and i thought this guy is just too good to be true, it took 3 weeks of chatting, to this so called miltary sargent, when i stopped chatting to HIM and just sent emails HE lost interest because HE couldn’t get any money out of me, it is only when they are chatting to you constantly that THINK they can lure you in, these people are very good at what they do. because it like a full time job to them Girls this is a wakeup call for everyone, global crime is massive, since researching about online dating scams since this happened to me, it is time to fight back and take action. The pictures that were sent to me of the so called military Staff Sargent Dave Smith serving in IRAQ, WELL I MANGED TO FIND ONE OF of the pics on 12meetsenior.de on the website Tineye.com they find the photos straight away, wether the real person behind those photos has any idea what is going on and how you get to tell them is a hard one esp when they haven’t being using their profiles on the said dating sites. I feel sorry for the women who send money. The US military must be besides themselves, how do they stop these perpetators from using and abusing genuine US military personnel. I would love to hear any other comments. FIGHT BACK GIRLS IT IS THE ONLY WAY FORWARD.

  225. Hi

    linktel@engineer.com

    hello Ms Jolanda,
    the phone subcription for one week is 50euro and for one month is 250euro…..this is to inform you that the former said agent would not be available for some days due to some reasons so the only available agent for now is this one in africa and this agent is even more closer to the war zone afghanistan….

    NAME: Oladimeji Rotimi

    CITY: Ado Ekiti

    STATE: Ekiti State

    COUNTRY: Nigeria

    thanks for your cooperation..

    Signed,
    Col W Booker,
    Linktel Engineers,
    Afghanistan.
    stil i don’t nowe of its fake are real bicause to day hi have call mi today on fone his name is Roland Edwin cee

    http://www.facebook.com/jolanda.stam2#!/redwincee

    http://www.facebook.com/search.php?q=Oladimeji%20Rotimi&init=quick&tas=0.4439824052649202&search_first_focus=1319459390173#!/oladimeji.rotimi

    Your application received, Please kindly advise your detail name and address to the appropriate quarters written below for the call connection between you and your partner to be set up from this GCON telecomnmunication Unit.
    Kindly acknowledge the sum worth (250euro) into the US Gulf Zone for the prompt accomplishment of your connection by the military telecommunication unit at the Afghanistan zone…

    please remit your payment to our agent nearest to you for easy and safe delivery of your payment and we would notify you as soon as your payment has been confirmed….make your payment through western union or moneygram and get back to us with your payment receipt..

    NAME: Miss Tambudzai Nariswa

    CITY:Milton Keynes

    STATE: Buckinghamshire

    COUNTRY: United Kingdom

    we assure you that your connection would be set up just 48hours after your payment has been confirmed……. thanks for your anticipated cooperation

    Signed,

    Booker.W,

    linktel engineers,

    Afghanistan.

    I have only make 1 paymend for 50 euro but i don’t pay anny more
    but i ask my self nowe ho have call mi its was no
    Strange he did not sound on the phone as Nigerian

    http://a2.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/116/2183677dc9604c1295023cb453f9a61a/l.jpg

    • @ Jolanda do NOT send any more of your hard earned money The Military does NOT need your money for any reason this is a scammer and let me tell you they know we are on to them so just because he didnt have an accent does not mean he is real he is a SCAMMER

      Tell him to get on cam and have an interactive video chat with you for 30 minutes to an hour HE wont he will come up with an excuse
      ask him for his address tell him you want to send a care package he wont he will have excuses HE IS A SCAMMER

      go to romancescam.com and scamwarners.com for support and Im sure the same pics this lying leech has sent you is already there.

    • the phone subcription for one week is 50euro and for one month is 250euro…..this is to inform you that the former said agent would not be available for some days due to some reasons so the only available agent for now is this one in africa and this agent is even more closer to the war zone afghanistan….

      NAME: Oladimeji Rotimi

      CITY: Ado Ekiti

      STATE: Ekiti State

      COUNTRY: Nigeria

      Scammer all day what you did was basically just added some minutes to this scammers cellphone and he’s calling everyone but you the Military would not conduct business this way they do NOT use western union nor moneygram nor do they use free email accounts and look how this is typed this is a scam

      and Nigeria of all places there is NO MILITARY base in Nigeria military would not be in a shit hole like Nigeria.

  226. This Col Robert Wood also goes by Col Steve Robbonson and claims he is in Afghanisten and is from Texas, he try ed to give me a line needed monwy to get hook up on his radio there and that he love me so much, such a scammer he try to scam my girlfriend also, He is on facebook, why can’t he press charges against these men, they nare the worst kind of trash.

  227. Ramos, is now using the first name Edward and he is going to retire in 18 months. I knew right off that something was not right. 1. you don’t declare love for a stranger in just a couple of text and 2. if you are special opps, I don’t think you are suspose to tell it. LADIES beware he is a smooth talker. I do believe he could charm a snake. I truly feel sorry for the correct Mr. Ramos who served in the US Army.

  228. sorry i havent been on here in awhile but has anybody else had anything to do with tadirran communications besides me theres this guy says he s in kabul and says needs money i know he is a scammer of mine just the way he rights to me and says the same things, but have any of you had contact with a colonel philips from them theres no way im sending anything to none of them they have the money to do it themselves

  229. Has anyone been contacted by a Capt Patrick Osborne? Typical widowed 8 year old son looked after nanny. Have even talked to them both on phone!!!!! Where do i send the photos i have so the innocent serviceman/men can be traced and made aware. Thanks

  230. Has anyone been contacted by Senior Staff Sergeant Bernard “Chris” Gresham deployed to Kabul, Afghanistan.

    Firstly he advertised on an Australian dating site claiming he was from Melbourne, later that his mother came from Melbourne and that actually comes from Boston MA. He told me his profile on the dating site stuffed up so he encouraged me to go to MSN (where he used two names – Bernard & Chris) then Yahoo.

    He said his parents and only brother were dead and he has an 11 year old Stacie living with her mother in NYC.

    He certainly has certainly expressed strong emotions in a short period of time including marriage. At this point he did not ask for personal banking details (I suspect he was working up to that). He claims he wanted to retire when he finishes his deployment in a month or so and settle anywhere in the world with me.

    He has certainly told me about the difficulty of accessing money and his car import business.
    He has promised to visit Melbourne on his way home (if the “authorities” will let him).

    He told me he was an Australian/German American assigned to a secret intelligence unit – which should have set the red flags going!

    He always says he was going to reply to my emails but rarely has and he won’t give me any details about who he belongs to in the military (I had to guess his rank of SSGT from his email address – which he corrected to SSSGT) and I had no idea of which regiment/unit/whatever until I pushed him – 52nd Infantry Regiment. However, when I showed his photograph to an Australian serviceman he noted the rank as captain – unlike what had been stated to me as Senior Staff Sergeant.
    In another conversation when I explained that my organisation was introducing the mission command doctrine – he barely acknowledged it, an unusual response for a career army senior staff sergeant……..

    His email address is ssgt_cg50@live.com and ssgt_cg50@yahoo.com

    I can forward pictures of SSGT Gresham if required – sadly the real Captain Gresham probably doesn’t know his identity has been stolen.

    I am out before I got scammed financially and I feel for all of you who have been. It’s so easy to have someone say lovely things to you and convince you of their sincerity.

  231. I have traced the PDA number he gave me too. It’s a UK number +447716722361 – those scammers are also working out of the UK!!!!!!!!!

    • @ Sam some of them are also still in Africa using the numbers 4470-4477 and so on these are intercept numbers scammers do this often a scammer can call you from Nigeria and you will think he is in your City because it has been done before you can google how they do this as baiters do this to their dumb asses all the time. they know we are on to the 233 234 and 229 numbers we all know those are dead giveaways for scammers

      • HOW DO YOU TRACE A PDA ON SOMEONE I TRIED TO TRACE IP ON THIS GUY AND THEY WANT TO CHARGE ME FOR IT I BEEN TALKING HIM SINCE JANUARY AND NOW HE SAYS HE NEEDS MONEY FOR PHONE I KNOW THATS A RED FLAG BUT I WANT TO CHECK THIS MAN OUT CAN YOU HELP ME WITH THANKS

        • try whatismyipaddress.com there you can also see if this scammers email address has been blacklisted and I am glad you recognize he is a SCAMMER

      • Hi Anonn, I need to say this to you, that you and the other contributors to this blog are absolutely wonderful. It was through reading all your helpful information that I was able to confront the scammer and dispense with him (after I told him what a pig he was). As predicted he told me I would regret my actions and that he would “expose me for the whore I am!”. Love your work and you deserve so much praise. Thankyou. I am indebted. XSam

        • @ Sam they almost ALWAYS make threats when the gig is up means no money for their begging asses he has no power he is stuck in a third world country trying to get where you are so delete and block this scamming piece of shit and check your security settings on your computer and tell him the jokes on him leave him with NOTHING good job Sam

        • @ sam I do not derserve the praises CJ does I just came here and added my two cents because i am tired of hearing about these lying begging leeches using the US Military to beg for money yet they know NOTHING about the US Military or what they do they sit in Africa or other shit holes all day and Lie so I brought it to womens as well as mens attention that look they are in Africa they are African and they are scammers

          They Can use the web cam
          They Can Receive care packages and Mail ONLY IF THEY ARE REAL
          They do NOT need your Money for any reason the Military takes care of its own
          They will not solicit on ANY social network Love you a few days later and then ask you for money for any reason SCAMMER

          Scammers Know absolutely NOTHING about the US Military it has been proven THANK GOD

  232. I JUST WANT TO SHARE THIS WITH ALL OF YOU ON 11-2-2011 A YOUNG MARINE LANCE CPL JORDAN S.BASTEAN WAS LAID TO REST HERE IN MY HOME TOWN PEKIN ILLINOIS HE WAS ONLY 20YRS OLD HE JOINED THE MILITARY WHEN HE GRADUATED OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL I HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS THAT WENT TO SCHOOL WITH HIM. JORDAN JOINED TO SERVICE TO PROTECT OUR COUNTRY AND HE DIED FOR OUR COUNTRY HE WILL BE SADLY MISS BY HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS JORDAN AND ALL OF THE MEN AND WOMEN THAT LOST THERE LIVES FOR US AND THERE COUNTRY ARE OUR HERO;S AND WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. WILL YOU PLEASE SAY A PRAYER FOR LANCE CPL JORDAN BASTEAN AND HIS FAMILY AND FOR ALL OF THE OTHERS THAT LOST THERE LIVES FOR US .AND PLEASE SAY A PRAY FOR ALL OF THE GOOD MEN AND WOMEN THAT IS DOING THERE DUTY FOR US NOW.MAY GOD END THIS WAR SOON AND BRING ALL OF OUR MEN AND WOMEN HOME SAFELY THANK YOU

  233. Just realized today that Sgt. Kevin Butterfield is a FAKE. Said he is stationed in Camp Taji in Baghdad Iraq. Fixing to retire…wife died in car accident, 13 yr old son named Ryan that lives in Holland with his wife’s sister. Just glad I was smart enough to not send any of the items he was requesting. Like a laptop, iphone, Ralph Lauren Tshirts and underwear…basketball shoes and other expensive items. I have looked on several of these types of websites and have yet to see “his” name listed …but he has a way with words. “pretty” being one of the most used! I was on match.com that we met and of course he is no longer there. There is a FB page of Kevin Butterfield with same pic…but not sure who is who anymore). I consider myself a smart woman…but these are evil men…and using our military men like this is shameful and really sad. Wish there was something I could do to report this.

  234. SCAM Sergent Frank Lucas SCAM he was very good but not good enough to get money. Said he had no family but 1 brother on drugs some where. Said he loved me way to fast. Asked me to say I was his fiance and get him early leave so he could be home 4 Christmas gave me all of this fake info master sergent MSG E8 Base Afghanistan/Kabul Camp: Camp Pheonix Military Unit Name: AMC FSB-AF Expanded name:Army Material Command Forward Battalion Afghanistan Unit Code: WODAH 7 Service: ArmyTheater Afghanistan MOS Counter Terrorism That almost convinced me but I did more checking and strung him along until he finally said he wanted to talk to me but I would have to buy him a Tmobile card and send it to him. well then I new for sure. Please be careful If he is to wonderful and good looking he is probably not for real

  235. sgt frank lucas said he was 45yrs old. franklucas147@yahoo.com from Phiily Pa. but moved to Maryland but now all the sudden has a Italian accent some times he could spell and other times not so I think it is more than 1 person in on the scam ( i just thought he was tired) I hate that they use our wonderful military men to make money for there lazy a_ _es

  236. I too was chatting for coming up 8 months to a guy.he claimed to be in American special forces . 3.3 Air force. I said please do not insult my intelligence because Special forces would not tell anyone that they were in that because they are trained not to divulge this information..& The photo he sent me the guy is in a British Navy Uniform (with medals on too ) I said that’s a British Uniform & a Naval one at that. He said No It is American I’m attached to UK Special forces .He said he was in Libya he even had it correct when the guys were to pull out of Libya He told me it would be the end of Oct before it was announced on the news but even so I was still suspicious of him because a couple of years back I had spoke to a guy who sent me the exact same photo Frank had sent me. I knew the guy had a different name but could not remember the name so I gave him benefit of the doubt.. Then the end of Oct he messaged me said he needed £1000 I laughed & said Why would I give money to you we have never met . He got some guy to ring my mobile .the guy claimed he was a diplomat & frank had said I was his wife. he said I had to pay £1000 & give him my Home Address & My Passport Of course I did not do that Nor did I send him money .. Last Thurs Frank contacted again & asked for £150 said he was in Ghana & owed hotel bills I said why cant you pay it if you have just returned from 7 months in Libya you will have more than enough money to pay your bill. .Anyway I googled his name to see if he really was from Pennsylvania & I was directed to Romance scam site & low & behold he had scammed others & Used Lots of Different Names mostly claiming to be either in US Forces Or UK Forces ..One woman had actually given him her Bank Account Details .Her Home Address & Even her Passport details.. The thing is a Law should be in place because these guys are using genuine military guys pictures & its unfair On you Guys & Getting you guys a bad reputation …I am Proud of all Our Troops British & American.Canadian etc & It needs stopping .

  237. The following is an email I received from a guy who claims to be Sergeant Wes A Smith who is stationed in Iraq. I have pics of him, a phone number, and a third person address, and his APO address. He wanted me to send a laptop, gold cross necklace, watch, and an IPOD. He actually called me today with a( 216) area code. He sent roses to me. He thinks I am sending a package to Washington to the address he provided. He said the person at this address will deliver it to Iraq, because he will be deployed soon. I was thinking about sending a box full of **** to that address and sending him the tracking info, so he would think I fell for his scam, meanwhile I would notify the police in Washington of this scam. Please tell me what I need to do to help stop these scammers. Thank you!!!
    would like to know what I can do to help stop this guy. And, yes, he contacted me on the PLENTY OF FISH dating site.

    On Mon, Nov 14, 2011 at 2:10 AM, Wesley Smith wrote:

    I grew up in a military family with all that entails: moving every couple of years, learning what time “Colors” and “Taps” would be every day, being able to identify friendly and OpFor tanks and aircraft by the time I was nine, being able to hit a target at 300m from the prone position with an M-16 by the time I was ten and knowing how to make my rack and set my gig line by the precocious age of six.
    Seriously, we did move around a lot, I was born in Mason, OH but moved to greenville, Ohio within a few months and Omaha, Nebraska when I was three. My family moved to Athens, Greece when I was seven and we were there for four years, when I was eleven we moved to London, UK ,We spent some years there tho cos my Mom was from the UK and when I was 18 we moved back to Mason, so basically I have not lived anywhere that people speak English since we left Omaha.

    I joined the Army Corps after high school and managed to get into a unit that spent a lot of it’s time overseas. Unfortunately most of that was in the hot, miserable, stinking sandbox of the Middle East, I can still say “damn it’s hot” and “pass the camel ka-bob” in Arabic and Farsi. The upside was that we also got to go to places like Thailand, Bali, Hong Kong, Singapore and, best of all, Australia (Side note on Australia, it is the second best place on earth, pretty, great beer, beautiful countryside and friendly people but then again I was so plastered on the beer I might have been imagining everything else)…Am right now in Iraq and I hope am gonna be home real soon…Told you that?
    To cut the long story short:…Some years later I met the right one and we got married with two great kids…I lost her about 6 years ago..since then have been searching for the right to make me happy again and take me as I am….love my kids and I don’t want someone who’s gonna treat bad….Well I think am gonna stop here for now….More question for me?….and I do hope you gonna like my Accent,..Looking forward to hearing from you. and do you have yahoo messenger so we can chat more and more and know more about each other.Hugs!
    Wes

  238. Can I forward the pics of him? I did check the facbook site( Military Scam in UK) out that you recommended. The exact word-by- word letter was posted on this page.

  239. He is now on Facebook under the name “Ramos Daniel Johnson” on the road and has been attempted in the friendliest and most charming way with me. And when I got suspicious, I did some research and found out the truth. I wrote to him again to eventuel zuerfahren anything. He must have noticed, however, he is so cowardly too.
    My sympathy goes to the real Cpt. Patrick Burke Smith. May he have the necessary strength to the whole thing to stand well.

  240. well finely found out the truth about my cap. edwards preston he scammed me for$400 thats all . but took my heart with him .

  241. I have meet this Sgt on a dateing web site he says his parents are dead and is due to retire after 23 years in the Army His name is Sgt. Bryan Smith Miller he says hes stationed in Kabul. He has called me several times on my cell phone. He says his father was American and mother from UK he said his wife was killed in a car accident and he is divorced from the second wife says he caught his wife cheating with his best friend. His email address is sgtmiller.smith50@yahoo.com I had a friend do a secuity check on him and he says hes who he says he is but I still have a gut feeling hes not who he is. He has sent me many pictures of himself.

    • @ Anita go with your gut feeling have you seen him have you had an interactive chat with this Man for 30 minutes or longer have you heard his voice while on cam with him? go to scamwarners.com and romancescam NOW so that you can post headers from his emails hes sending you trust me this is a scammer he is telling the typical lies they are NOT very smart so they steal eachother stories often and the old my parents are dead and I am half American and Half of any other race is typical of scammers and any relative killed in a car accident and the cheating wife with the best friend is typical of scammers also so understand what I am saying he is a scammer.

      He says his father was American and mother from UK he said his wife was killed in a car accident and he is divorced from the second wife says he caught his wife cheating with his best friend. His email address is

      This is a crock of bull and this is a scammer you have been warned Anonn

  242. I have been contacted by a Master Sgt. James Lingo or Lingo James. Born 29 Feb 1964 and an adopted orphan who is recently widowed- his wife died in childbirth and left him with a son. Now 10yo, his only son Bright Lingo is in military boarding school in Baltimore, MD. I have gotten 90 text messages on my cell phone and numerous calls. I have traced them to Clayton, Ohio near Dayton, Ohio where Sgt. James Lingo said he was born. He is supposed to be in special forces on assignment in Camp Kabul, Afghanistan. He also claims to be an E-7 rank. Sgt. Lingo has cried and written heartfelt feelings of needing to leave immediately.
    Sgt.lingojames@yahoo.com asked me and my church for $880.00 last week and a signature to his CO so he could come home for Christmas. Sgt. Lingo also asked that items be mailed to a Patricia in the USA to Washington,state. Sgt. Lingo James said he owned a home in Alice, TX and was stationed in San Antonio.
    He asked me for a size 38 men’s belt, a watch and a gold chain and promise ring, size 9 for his XMAS gift. I am at a loss here, he had no APO or AKO address. His method was to speak nice and sombre at first. Then his demeanor was demanding, both vulgar and profane since he was not persuading me to these tasks.
    Sgt.Lingo James or James Lingo has a picture of himself in uniform and pulling security to authenicate his position in Afghanistan. I have also received threats in text form from a 92082 cell number or phone card. I was in need of cell minutes for emergency over the Holiday, and used up all my minutes reading his texts.
    He said he is on a social network of TWOO and also HEART DETECTIVES looking for a new girlfriend now.

  243. I forgot to mention that his location is untraceable also is his name anywhere in those United States locations.
    Sgt. Lingo James was not in any state of OH, MD, or TX. The picture of what he sent to us is also on a romance scammers site brought in to our church from a young member who is our church secretary. I feel this is a scam.
    Since when can’t a service man with 23 years in the US ARMY, not be able to access his own money. Sgt. James Lingo asked me to sign a letter for his leave back to the states, we found out later through a Veteran member that if he was deployed there for a year already, he would be granted a three month leave without a need for anyone’s signature or loan of upwards to a thousand dollars, which was to be reimbursed to us by the CO and US ARMY. Sgt. Lingo is dark haired, 6’2″ brown eyes, and attractive, this is all he has to go on.
    I am sickened that someone is doing this to Churches now, and has no conscience or intelligence to think with that with the Internet being available that no one would investigate this matter any further, and just send a check to a woman who might? get it to the appropriate solider, These women called diplomats are part of the scammer’s plot as well. I actually called the woman, and she did not know a thing about it or was lying also.
    If anyone has been approached in this same manner, I would appreciate hearing about it personally, too.

    • He is a scammer, I have talked to him for over a year but the name is Raymond Lingo he is always changing his name. I never sent any money but he keeps trying and was suppose to come home a long time ago. The real Mr. Lingo is no longer serving and is aware of this. I am constantly looking for for him on other sites to block him when I can. And is captain is also another scammer and uses different names. I have blocked him a few times as well.

    • COLONEL DAVID BEN JAMES GARBER – LINGO that’s my swindler Pastor Leeza. He has reinvented himself. Can you make out the name he volunteered to you from the one I had?
      The strategy is the same. And the sad stories repeat. What a sad dickhead.

    • Do not communicate with this Lingo fella. He was using the name Randy Lingo and from March of 2011 to August of 2011 my sister sent him a numerous amount of money. She was a church goer and on a disability, she thought she had finally found someone to love her for who she was — when the reality hit her that he was not coming she committed suicide at the age of 50. Our family is devastated and the FBI cannot do anything about trying to find him either.

  244. @ Pastor I am so glad you found this blog here and two things this IS a SCAMMER and yes they do have access to their own bank accounts at ALL times no matter where they are and NO real Military member will need to beg anyone for money for any reason as they do NOT have the time to get on social sites and beg complate strangers for money but guess what Scammers do they consider this a job in their tiny little scamming minds they are proud to be beggars and thieves and he became demanding and vulgar because he knew you were on to him he knew that meant no Money.They are such Morons they do not know if it is the last Name or first Name on the Soldier or Sailors uniform pics that they have stolen they are so pathetic and in a perfect world all social sites would BLOCK isp coming from Africa and Malaysia or any other areas full of scammers especially dating sites and fb and Tagged they are full of scammers or block their proxies to keep them from joining any social site it is just to big of a risk scammers are EVERYSWHERE they do not care what lies they tell they just want the money.

  245. I wish I had founf this site earlier. I just got scammed by the person pretending to be Aaron Ramos, his picture is above, But he used the name Michael C Ramos, Lt Col in the Army. Originally from Greece, was stationed at Fort Gordon Garrison in Georgia, redployed to Afghanastan.Widowed with a 15 yr old Daughter, Monica, in greece with his Mother I was stupid and fell for it, even after I was skeptical of a scam. I lost alot of money, lost my heart and my pride. Even after I just caught on he still tried to profess his innocence. What a fool I was.

  246. Hello My name is Diana and I am from Upstate New York the Capital District. I would also like to share my story with everyone here. A few months ago I had opened up a profile in search of looking to make new friends on a dating site called POF. I did meet a very nice gentleman, who I have met in person, and is in the Army as well. He is from Watertown, and not once has he ever asked me for anything. On our first date he picked me up in a Hummer, and we went out to dinner which he paid for. So ladies there are some real guys out there, you just have to be careful. He and I speak to one another everyday.

    I still continue looking to make new friends on that site. December 17, 2011 of this year, a guy by the name of MICHEAL BLAKE HUDSON contacted me on pof. His username is HandsomeHudson, and his subject line is…Looking for a good hearted woman. He stated he lives in Cherry Valley, NY, that he is 40 years old, 5-7 with a athletic body. He has never been married, and have no kids. He only has 1 picture posted on that site. He stated that both of his parents are dead and that he is an only child. He also told me that he has an aunt who lives in Liverpool, NY. He told me he has been on deployment since January, and that he works for IT Dept. in Afgahanistan. Late last night on 12/18/11 he asked me if I could do him a favor and send him $200.00 so he can get a Ts2 so we can talk. While he was chatting away with me on Yahoo messenger. I was looking up the site in reagrds to that, and I even opened up a few other sites pretaining to the Army as well. I wanted to see what other facilities are in Iraq like camps, airbases, and airports. Whe I asked him what base he gave me one that was not on the list. So I started thinking to myself this guy is trying to scam me out of money…and that will never happen. Needless to say I played along with his bullshit. He told me that his Commander’s name was Charles Adkins, so I looked that name up, and guess what ladies….he was killed in active duty on 04/16/11. So I continued chatting trying to get any other info I can from the bastard. He gave me his commander’s email which is c.adkins36@yahoo.com, so I can apply for his Ts2 for him. This morning he sent me 3 pictures, 2 in civilian clothes and 1 in uniform. But get this it he sent it from his email but when I went to save them, it said sent from nel.attach.mai.ymail.com. I asked him to send me the info on where to send the money and he did. Name of person is Felelaron Samuel, City: Ikere State: Ekiti Country: Niageria. I was sitting here thinking to myself what a scumbag! I am so sorry that there has been so many women taken advantage of, my heart goes out to all of you. Remember love does not cost a thing, it is given. If anyone has been in contact with this person to not respond to this scumbag. His email address is michealhudson82@yahoo.com If you would like to contact me my email is dtamexy2005@gmail.com

  247. I was scammed – the so called “gentleman” is now using the name Staff Sgt. Micheal Witt. He is the only child of Italian parent – who of course are dead. He is 1/2 Italian, 1/2 American. He is both divorced and widowed – divorced the wife who later died of breast cancer 3 years ago! He has adopted a child from Ghana. The Boy, Joshua, has been with a caretaker, Joel, for over 11 months. I met Micheal on a dating site – yes, I have reported him! – said he was stationed in Iraq. He hadn’t heard from his son in a very long – sob story. I must admitt I fell for it!!! After the annonucement of the end of the Iraqi war, he got orders to be shipped to Afghanistan for the next 2 to 3 weeks, thus missing Christmas. He gave me the phone # of the caretaker. I did not call, at first. However, I felt that I had to try and contact the son to let him know that his father was well, so I created a calling account on yahoo – this was one of the best things I’ve ever done!. Since my account was new, I only had 5 minutes for each call until my account is verified! I called the caretaker and was told the boy was doing well, given the circumstances – he has been very upset because he hasn’t heard from his father. All were doing fine, however, the caretaker had lost his job and money was tight, etc. I said I would pass his message back to Micheal and that I would call back to talk to Joshua the next day. Both of which I did. Joshua, had developed a high fever overnight and was taken to “First Aid.” Again, only 5 minutes to talk – probably saved me from the full force sob story.

    A friend at work, did not like part of the story I was told and started to invesitage and found this site. Thank you for creating this!! I am only out about $5 and a slightly brusied ego. I feel embarrassed and very stuipd. I will survive and will be all the more aware in the future. Hopefully, someone will be able to advoid this situation, by reading my story!!!

    • THIS IS FOR TRISH HI . MICHAEL WITT IS SIGMUND WITT’S ADOPTED SON IN GHANA. HIS SON WAS SICK OF CHOLERA. AND I TOO HAS THE NUMBER OF HIS CARETAKER. IS IT 011 233 244 976 613. THIS NUMBER BELONGS TO DAVID SARPONG, HIS CARETAKER, THIS TWO ARE CONIEVING WITH EACH OTHER. SIGMUND OR MICHAEL WITT IS VERY MAD EVERY TIME I SAID SOMETHING AGAINST DAVID AND I ASKED SIGMUND OR MICHAEL IF HE IS DAVID OR DAVID IS WITH HIM CUZ THERES CIRCUMSTANCES THAT I NOTICE THAT MADE ME THINK THAT EITHER THEY ARE AT THE SAME PLACE OR THEY ARE ONE PERSON. MICHAEL WITT GOES BY THE NAME CHRISTOPHER WALSH-WITT ALSO. HE IS ON FB AND OKCUPID SITE. TRISH I LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT HOW BAD AND A GOOD SCAMMER THIS PERSON IS BY READING ALL OF CJ’S SITE. ALL THOSE WOMEN THAT HE USED. GOOD THING THAT HE SCAMMED YOU FOR $5.00 ONLY. MY FRIENDS WARNED ABOUT HIM ALSO, BUT I DIDNT LISTEN. THEY HATED HIM FOR HURTING ME AND SUCH A BIG LIAR. PLS EMAIL ME. PLS ASK CJ FOR MY EMAIL ADDRESS. WE NEED TO TALK. MAYBE TALKING ABOUT HIM WILL HELP US GET OVER HIM

      TAKE CARE.. FROM ANNE

  248. These are scammers…and if they are portraying themselves as US military- that is a fraud….You can report these incidents to the FBI especially since thy are seeking money (for what purpose? narcotraffickers, terrorism etc) and most importantly proclaiming and putting on uniforms with rank insignia or medals that don’t add up….

    Best advice…do not open the email attachments, no member of the Armed Forces or DoD wold solicit money from private citizens (and if they did…that would be a crime in itself punsible under the Uniform Code of Military Justice and other Federal Laws) any email of that nature would be highly suspect…REPORT REPORT REPORT- to whom? THE FBI……http://www.fbi.gov/scams-safety/

  249. Has anyone heard of a Geoff Ayres? He says hes from San Fransico and my friend has been talking to him. She has sent him money and paid for his leave. And he never showed up. She believes hell be here. But i know he is just a scammer.

    • @ Smo he is a SCAMMER and she just helped him with Christmas Money tell your friend NOT to hold her breath no one can apply for leave for ANY Military member except for the military member so tell her he wont EVER be there he is in Africa and he lives there because he is an African. Anonn

  250. what to say in all this …
    an ordinary robbery that internet is ok …
    I wonder whether the American military is really such, or they are legally allowed only would ask the gentlemen from the FBI to respond …
    Regards to all from Serbia

  251. I met a man about a month ago on match.com, goes by the name Jake Issac, (email: is_jake01@yahoo.com) says is currently serving in the Army and is in Iraq, says he adopted an son that lost both his parents in Liberia during the war about two years and ago is now living in an orphanage in Gahanaweith his grandmother lucy. My kids, in wanting to protect me from being scammed, have run a background check on him and came up with nothing, they also had a friend currently a Lt. in the Army run a check and he found nothing as well, not even a Jake Issac in the Army. Has any one had an encounter with this man at all. Please let me know. He has never asked me for money, but he did say that he is retiring from the army on the 31st of Dec. 2011. I just don’t understand why hes is not found in military records. please if anyone has had contact with him as well let me know by sending me a message at liloleme56@yahoo.com. i’d really appreciate it. Thank you and I am sorry to hear of all these sad stories of women falling in love with some man that is not for real. Irene

  252. they are using TAGGED…i HAVE THREE,,,,LOOK OUT ROBERT MILLER BARBER, MILFRED WILLIAMS, SGT CHABERLAAIN HARRIS, THEY ALSO WANT MONEY, ITS A SHAME….BUT THAYS HOW THEY LIVE

  253. hello my name is janet am from canada. ive meant this man who claims he is in the usa army presently in afganistan . ive been in relationship with him since october 6 2011. his name is stg noble david that he claims to be ,can someone tell me if they know this person please before he come hometo me in canada thank u .

    • my email is janet671@hotmail.com .if a person knows this person plz let me know i gave my heart to this person thank u

    • @ Janet hes NOT coming home to you he is a scammer why would he come home to you is he homeless? doesnt he have his own home or is he using the old Ive met you and Im so in love with you that I am retiring scam have you seen this man on cam for more than 1 hour? have you seen his military ID or State Id card he says hes coming home to you ask him for a copy of his most recent Les for the last 6 Months demand them ask him to email you from his military email account it should end with .MIL anything passed .Mil is a scam ok if hes coming home to you before he asks you for money tell him to send you money so that you can get things ready for him this scammer sounds as if hes in jail the military takes care of its own if you have never met this fool face to face why would you even welcome him into your home he is a SCAMMER you have been warned Anonn

      • take u for the concern . but did u ever talk to this supose stg noble david . who is presntly in kabul afganistan and he s home town is new-york . plz let me know. but i check out youtube and there is video thats call us soldier video part 3 it shows picture of real soldier that scammers use for there scam and omg i saw a picture of the suppose soldier noble david that loves me . omg i was crying i couldnt believe what i was seeing . but if this is the case of a scam mark my words this scammer is gonna be caught cuz i fell in love with this supose soldier noble david and this soldier that i have picture of as to be notify . its not right to still a person identity like that . its so sick and discussting . i know in my heart whats coming to me a realy big broken heart but i will play the game until the end and if am broken heart again i will teach a beter lessons not to trust no man again in my life can u email please . thank u

        • @ Janet the question is have you spoken with this so called Noble david or David Noble have you seen him on cam had an interactive chat with him for 1 hour or more you are right you will wind up with a broken heart Ive told you he is a scammer the rest is up to you but REAL MILITARY members will NOT need anything from you the Military takes care of its own but you know this is a scammer or you wouldnt be here

        • yeah i chatt with him everyday and he calls me true military phone. but for the cam since am from canada i chatt true msn canada and he has yahoo.com .once he ask me to see him on cam .but we tried and and it didnt work cuz of the net work since he far away and i have msn canada. and i ask one of m friends over here and he chatt with someone that as yahoo.messenger and they couldnt do cam.so he download yahoo my friend and it work he could see the person that he was chattin with . so i only have to download yahoo messenger to do cam with him. but the thing i want to know if u know some one who knows this suppose stg noble david who is in the usa army .

        • @ Janet no I do not but what I DO KNOW is if he found you on any social network and you have NOT yet seen him on cam an interactive chat for an hour or more he is a scammer REAL Military members have no time to search social sites many have families back home and they have no time for extras but SCAMERS do I have warned you told yo to let it go but seems your mind is made up so good luck maybe like so many other women and men thought yours is really in the us army ask him to email you from his AKO ask him for a copy of his most recent LES ask hi to scan and send you a copy of his military Id and his State ID card you will be able to spot a fake they are not very bright before he asks you for money invent an emergency and ask him for money guess what he will tell you he cannot access his funds guarantee it but I am done with this Good luck your going to need it AFTER you fall for his BS go to romancescam.com for support ANONN!

  254. The fake aaron ramos is going by kelvin scott ramos .

  255. His name is Kelvin Butterfield, or Davidson Kelvin Butterfield. Posing as a sargeant in the us army…..I would post the photo’s he sent me, but I can’t see how to on this page.

  256. I just found this site can some one please help me i have been talking to a sgt.paulrapp@yahoo.com for many months he had me convinced he was a soilder in Kabul wife died in a car accident and has a 12 year old son he has con me in to sending money to an adress in Nigeria for his leave to come home now he claims an additional 2,900 is needed to complete the transit form refundable to me he had a document and all sent to my email when i told him i could not send the money their he gave me another name and addres in England, he said he would delete my yahoo if i did not send the money to get him home. His grammer is bad he speaks nothing like an american soilder, when i told him i did’nt have the money he became very angry and cursed me he has talked me into saleing my car for the money but have not sent it yet could any one please find out if a sgt.paulrapp even exsist or if he is a scammer he has my adress now and i am very worried and so very broken hearted thank you for any help you can email me at pansypainter94@yahoo.com

    • @ Pansy Painter are you SERIOUS he is a fraud a fake a Con a Beggar a Thief ever seen him on cam more than once for at least an Hour or more? You sent Money to Nigeria Scam Central where they teach them to impersonate US Military and teach them to start scamming when they come out of the womb Let him be angry and better yet delete him since when does love cost money he sounds like a damn child throwing a temper tantrum lol he is a JOKE he is a Nigerian its where he lives he is African and unless you are desperate why would you even want to keep a total stranger on your messenger who actually threatens to delete you if you dont send him money for a fake transit Delete and block this lying beggar you have been warned Anonn

      NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE YOU DO NOT KNOW

      MILITARY MEMBERS WILL NEVER FIND YOU ON A SOCIAL SITE AND BEG YOU FOR MONEY
      REAL MILITARY MEMBERS WILL NOT NEED ANYTHING FROM YOU THE MILITARY TAKES CARE OF ITS OWN

      Tell this lying beggar to get a job or tell him to send you money to visit him or you will delete him but the best thing to do is DELETE and BLOCK him and check your settings on your computer security settings that is .

    • @ Pansy NO ONE can apply for military leave but the military member and it does NOT have to be paid for what you did was send money to a scammer there I just confirmed it for you he is not in love with you he is in love with your money and will say and do anything to get it he would NEVER be granted leave if he didnt know how he would leave and return he is a LIAR

    • when i told him i did’nt have the money he became very angry and cursed me he has talked me into saleing my car for the money but have not sent it yet

      Please I am begging you do NOT send the money buy yourself another car you will NEVER see this scammer he is a lazy lying begging bum he doesnt give a fuck about you he is only in it for the money he is NOT a real military member NOR is he American get him online and demand to see him ASAP and tell him you need money and he needs to help you since he is supposedly so in Love with you KEEP your money in your pocket this clown doesnt care about you he would sell his own mother to get money get the picture he is a LOSER a SCAMMER a BEGGAR a CON Anonn

  257. CJ, SIGMUND WITT (I KNOW THIS ISNT THE REAL ONE) CAME ONLINE ON FB AND SAID THAT HIS OTHER EMAIL ADDRESS WAS HACKED BY THE SCAMMERS. HE SAID HE CANT SIGNED IN. SO HE CREATED A DIFFERENT EMAIL ADDRESS. WELL HE SAID THAT HE’S STILL IN THE HOSPITAL AND HE WANTS TO GET OUT OF THERE. HE WANTS ME TO SEND HIM MONEY TO PAY FOR THE HOSPITAL. I TOLD HIM THAT I DONT HAVE MONEY AND THAT HE HAS TO SELL ONE OF HIS JEWELRIES IN THOSE BOXES. HE SAID HE CANT AND HE WONT. SO I TOLD HIM THAT HE WILL BE STAYING THERE LONGER AND KEEP ACCUMULATING BIG HOSPITAL BILLS. HE TOLD ME NOT TO TALK TO ANYONE ON HIS OTHER EMAIL ADDRESS CUZ THOSE WERE THE HACKERS POSING AS HIM. I DONT BELIEVE HIM AT ALL. CJ HOW CAN I GET HOLD OF THE REAL SIGMUND WITT TO LET HIM KNOW THAT HIS NAME HAS BEEN TORTURED BY THIS MAN POSING AS HIM. I AM INLOVE WITH THE REAL SIGMUNT WITT IN THAT PICTURE. PLEASE HELP ME. PLEASE!!

    ANNE M.

  258. sgtsimonhoward64@yahoo.com,he wants me to write a letter so he can home ,f.bullshitter,theres so many out there,unbelievable how a person can stoop so low….

  259. I have just discovered that scammers are so desperate now that they are using threats and intimidation on their Victims but PLEASE realize that even if they can find out what City you live in they are still NO THREAT they have NO POWER the US has made it VERY HARD for them to get into the US they need a Visa as well as an INVITE to get out of Africa so other than that their threats mean absolutely NOTHING do NOT let these lying begging leeches scare you THEY HAVE NO POWER they are just broke desperate lying beggars who will sell their souls to the devil if he promised them a little bit of money sick and pathetic idiots

  260. I need help please i belive i am being scammed his email address is Gen.Scottgreg@yahoo.com ..i have been talking to him for 2 months he said he had a package that he needed to send home and i was the only person he trusted he said he needed 5.000 dollars please if someone could help me.. i didnot send no money
    thank you kim

  261. He also asked me to send him a computer i told i couldnt then about two weeks after that thats when he started to ask for money cause the guy got stuck in africa.Yesterday he wanted me to sell my car i said no so he said he was going to take me off his contact list that i didnt care for him.Like a dummy i fell for this piece of scum.but didnot send no money.i hope no one else comes in contact with Gen.scottgreg@yahoo.com

  262. I have been chatting recently [2011/2012]with Sgt Michael Pedersen. I don’t think he was the poor soul who was killed in 2006 because he did’nt resemble him at all, but had Pedersen on the arm of his jacket.I live in North Wales in the U.K. Iwent on this dating site called flirt and his photo was up there.I went into my email week later and he sent one .he told me was divorced no kids and his life was the army, said he was 46.I am 64yrs old and a widow, tried to put him off but he would’nt have any of it .A few emails later I started chatting on yahoo with him very charming and we were chatting about 2 hrs. Xmas day Ihad downed couple bottles of wine and sent him a email saying I smelt a rat as some things he said did’nt ring true.I had already told him I was’nt one of these rich widow types and that all my husband had left me a load of debts and even his funeral to pay for, but even that did’nt put him off. Then he said he needed to get out of afghan because he said his name was down to be deployed to libya . 3 days ago he asked for £300 to get out of there so I contacted my son. My son found out this man lives Sunnyvale California, he even got his home address up.The photo up on his dating site is of sitting with a little boy with his sunglasses on . When he came on line last night and asked if I had sent the money ,my son said yes in cheque form it will be cleared next wednesday then the abuse came because my son had found him out . You can email me as I have everything here to at least stop one man using your military identity for his gain.

  263. @ Rosemarie good job this is a SCAMMER ………..3 days ago he asked for £300 to get out of there …. they cannot pay to get out of there as this scammer called it they cannot and will not leave until it is time for them to return with their unit to their home base unless they are injured they stay until they are done great job but hes using a proxy Sunnyvale California is where yahoo is located this scammer is NOT he is an African he lives in Africa or a common place where Africans are known to scam which could be anywhere from Africa the UK Malaysia Dubai and sometimes even the US he got abusive and angry because he realized you were on to him but be aware he will try again scammers NEVER repent once a scammer always one Anonn

    Then he said he needed to get out of afghan because he said his name was down to be deployed to libya this is 100% Bullshit

  264. I have also been recently scammed. The biggest problem with this is he involved my family and my daughter fell in love with him too. I feel like such an idiot. He has a friend that has scammed my friend and they were in this together. Sgt. Matt Burrell, Sgt. Bruno Mann, General James Conway. I found a picture of the real Sgt. Matthew Burrell in a military photo magazine. Same sob story I have been reading from all the others on here. I have even had phone calls from the general. Unfortunately I fell hard and sent a lot of money. The thing that makes me the most angry is that my daughter ended up being brought into this scam. He would even do homework with her online. I wish I could find them and ……….. hurting me is one thing I’m an adult I will get over it but to hurt a child like this. They really are some sick bastards. They all can rot in hell. To do something like this with a real soldiers life and use it for their sick twisted agenda is horrible. The latest ploy to get more money from me is that he is now in a private hospital and needs heart surgery. Well I am finally done with this crap, unfortunately I am out a lot of money. He doesn’t know that I know he is a fraud yet. I’m not sure how I will end this yet. I don’t know what to do about this and who to report this to. I have pictures of all of them too. The IP address I found is in California. I wish if they were in the states that I could find them.

    Thanks for listening
    Nancy

    • @ Nancy Im sorry you lost money to this lying beggar but at least now you know and this will NOT happen again and really I do NOT mean to be rude you typed this………….The thing that makes me the most angry is that my daughter ended up being brought into this scam. YOU allowed a Man you have never met nor even seen on cam to talk to your child PLEASE NEVER let anyone you do NOT know ever talk to your child I know you did not know I am a Mother myself and I would be full of anger myself please be gentle on yourself your Daughter Loves you go to romancescam.com and scamwarners.com for support.Anonn

  265. Please can someone help me find out if this man is a scammer he told me someone stole his id off of my space his email address is Gen.scottgreg says he lives in lakeland florida.. he asked for money but got none now hes trying to tell me someone stole his i.d please help me…

  266. @ Kimberly what more proof do you need you typed this yourself………..he asked for money HELLO thats a dead giveaway he is a scammer a liar a thief a beggar get the pic no one stole his id he stole the military members pics hes using to beg you for money but if you need proof demand that he get on cam and shows himself for an interactive chat with you for an hour or more ANY EXCUSES he is a scammer no more needs to be said plain and simple Anonn

    Remember Military members will not need your money nor any type of help for any reason the Military takes care of its own only scammers will get on social sites and pretend to be military members and beg for money.

  267. Hello to everyone ..

    I am an Italian woman of 36 years old

    there would have to say much about my history … and as I’m living now .. : (

    unfortunately happened to me something very unique, and I still have serious doubts about a person, despite having met with the name of Sgt J. Tindall as chief maintainer of machines.
    in US ARMY since 1995 at today..

    He was to write to me before. Are Just 4 months ago!
    There are too many things that do not convince me, and I have tried several times to cut ties with this gentleman born in 1970.

    Unfortunately I sent the money at this man and I have doubts atrocious in my heart is one of the many scammer who scour the web ..

    I tried to make him the third degree interrogation of the chat, of yahoo
    to learn more how is his mentality, but every time I reread the history of the chat I can feel only his frustration of desire to see me in person and ask me other money for come in my country for meet me in person..

    The problem that I can not forget a person like that .. for better or for worse ..
    and I decided to cut him off from my life because I knew only that it is a scam: (

    I will try to recover with time .. but for real is so unforgettable for me.. :(

  268. The Common Scammer Red Flags

    Profile picture looks professionally done
    Height/weight is not proportional -e.g. 6’ and 95 lbs
    Claim to be Native American or some other ethnicity when the photo is Caucasian
    Claim to be older/younger than the photo looks
    Grammar is not consistent with how Americans speak, French speak etc.
    Profile seems cut and pasted
    Spelling is atrocious, they are notorious for using “i” instead of “I”
    Their full name is two first names – John Michele, Florence Francis, Shawn David
    They typically claim to be from the US (or your local region) but they are overseas, or going overseas mainly to Nigeria, sometimes the UK for business or family matters
    A majority of them claim to have lost a spouse/child/parent in a horrific traffic accident or airplane accident or any of the above are sick or in the hospital
    The details they give you in email/IM are often different that what was stated in the profile
    Their profile seems to disappear off the website immediately after conversation begin

    Scammers can be clever with their words, usually the text of the message is cut and pasted or they can be sloppy in their text as the email below shows. The email is an example of “scammer grammar” the misspelled words, and the short abbreviations of words

  269. I have had an account with a man who claimed he was U.S.Army Captain Steve G.Witt aka Sigmund Witt he claims that he is deployed in Kabul ,Afganistan he claimed he was a widower and that his wife died in 2005 from some form of cancer. He has a facebook profile with the same pictures that were displayed from this website. He now claims that his daughter is named Morgan. He has posted alot of pictures of himself in his military fatigues,his other so called combat photos are of him as a reinator of the Knights of the Templer. He also posted pictures of his family some of his lovely daughter Morgan one in patiuclar was of his daughter in his military dress greens. a couple of him with his daughter at what appears to be at her college graduation with two other women one with red hair the other with white hair.He is also posed in these pictures in a navy blue suite with a bright blue shirt underneath his suite. He found me on facebook and asked me to add him to my yahoo messenger. I gave him what he asked for we communicated with each other for awhile then a few days ago he told me that I had to send him money via western union so that we could talk on the phone but I refused to send him money and eventually he demanded that I send him money. His exact words were “u need to get connected with me so that we can talk on the phone go to western union and send me the money!” Then he said ” what don’t u get about this?’ After that conversation I decided to do the research about this sending money to a soldier deployed inKabul Afganistan and in Iraq. I found out that no civilian family friend or otherwise needs to send any money for a soldier deployed overseas for a phone connection. I found out that the military provides a call center for deployed soldiers and allows them free phone calls so that they can call their family, friend, other loved ones or anyone they want to talk to over in the states at 15 minute intervals at a time. The calls are monitored by the military for Home Land Security puposes until the person being called has had a background check performed on them.When the person being called is approved after having a background chek the phone calls become private. I also found out that if a soldier wants to talk to someone in the states longer then at 15 minute intervals they are issued a phone card that they can use at the call center provided for them and that the soldier can talk to that person as long as he wants provided that there are minutes left on his phone card.
    I then did further research and found out that a civilian can varify the true identity of the person claiming to be a soldier deployed overseas by simply asking the soldier for his military issued e-mail addresses he is issued two of them a personal military one and a regular militery one theese addresses usually end as follows: .usarmy.mil, .army. mil or just plain .mil. If a civilian is still not satisfied with the identitiy of the aformentioned soldier the civilian can also ask for his military deployed address which would include one of the following abbreviations APO, FPO, or AKO the address will also include the number of the battalion, troop, platoon or squaderant their personal serial number given to them by their military branch, what military department they are working under weather it be the tanker division, weapons department or any other series of department they are assigned to and that the address should include their rank and their name. I also found out that all packages,or letters if given to soldiers deployed overseas is sent to New York City and it remains there until the officials of these branches of the military request that these packages or letters be sent to one of the military bases or branches. From their the packages are then tranferred to the military branch or base then set to the soldiers deployed overseas. There is no third party candidate that these letters or packages have to be sent through via a family or friend then sent to the soldiers deployed overseas.
    My so called military soldier friend now goes by U.S.Army Captain Steve G.Witt deployed in Kabul, Afganistan. He goes by stevegluff@yahoo.com on yahoo messenger. He claims that his actual personal yahoo e-mail is stevegluff999@yahoo.com. He is on facebook and again the pictures on this website are the same pictures used by his alias AKA Sigmund Witt. He now claims that he was born and raised in Baltimore, Maryland and that he attended the University of Maryland. He also claims that he was born on July 22nd and that he is 49 years old. All of this information can be accessed on Facebook. He will also claim that his religion id Christian and that he has a strong faith in God.Do not be fooled by him he starts asking for money for a phone connection and he will claim that when you send him the money you will be paid back with interrest when he gets out. He will also claim that if a soldier wants to come home he has to have money in order to be able to come home and that the money is not provided to him by his military until he has served his time he may ask you to send him that money so he can come home sooner to see you. Unfortunatly, before I did my research on this man I had already given him my phone number and my home address so that he could get in touch with me but I did not send him any money.
    After I did do my extensive research on this issue of sending him money I informed him on what I learned about this sending money to him on yahoo messenger and on his facebook wall and personal facebook messenger. I asked him for his two military issued e-mail adddresses asigned to him and his deployed military address and I have not heard from him as of yet. I did see him online earlier today and he knew I was online and he did not send me any instant messages which I found was unusual for. I am not sure if he read my yahoo instant messages, my facebook wall messages or the personal facebook messages tha I sent him. I did however warn another potential victim of his that I found on his facebook wall who wrote to him and sent him xxxxxx’s at the end of her face book wall message to him. Her name is Christine Wright I sent her a personal facebook message but I am not sure if she will believe me, if she recieved my message or if she will even write me back to let me know that she did recieve my message. I hope all of this will help someone else before he finds another victim that he can prey on. Ihope noone else comes in contact with stevegluff@yahoo.com or stevegluff999@yahoo.com good luck to all of you. I thank this website for enlightening me on these deployed soldier scams Thank you if I did not come to this website and see the same pictures of U.S.Army Captain Steve G. Witt I would have still thought he was for real thank you again.

    • HI MARIA REYNOLDS. MY NAME IS ANNE J. I JUST READ YOUR NOTE ABOUT STEVE G. WITT AKA SIGMUND WITT. HE USED A LOT OF NAMES TO SCAM WOMEN, I HAVE KEPT ALL HIS PICTURES. HE SAID HIS NAME IS SIGMUND JOHN WITT, WHEN IT SAYS SIGMUND BURB WITT ON HIS PROFILE ON FACEBOOK . MARIA PLS WRITE TO ME I HAVE QUESTIONS TO ASK AND HAVE STORIES TO TELL YOU ALSO. MY EMAIL IS GLITTERING2@YMAIL.COM. THANK YOU.

      ANNE J.

      • Hi Anne J’
        It is me Maria Reynolds thank you replying to my post. I am interrested in your stories of our mystery man but my computer will not allow me to go outside my relm. The statement I recieve from my computer says I would be risking my computers security if I go outside this relm . I would like you to try to e-mail me your stories and pictures. Leta see if you can get in touch with me. My e-mail address is ml.reynolds@yahoo.com Thanks.

        • MARIA REYNOLDS HI, I AM ANNE J’S FRIEND.

          SHE WAS GOING TO WRITE TO YOU BUT I STOPPED HER BEC IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE TO ME THAT YOUR COMPUTER CANNOT GET OUT OF THIS RELM. I HAVEN’T HEARD SUCH THING. I FEEL LIKE YOU ARE MAYBE G. WITT POSING AS MARIA. THAT MAN TOOK A LOT FROM MY FRIEND ESPECIALLY HER EMOTIONS AND TRUST TO PEOPLE. I THINK THAT MAYBE YOU ARE ONE OF WITT’S PEOPLE THAT HE WORKS WITH TO SCUM PEOPLE. I AM HOPING THAT YOU ARE NOT. SHE REALLY WANTED TO TELL YOU ABOUT THIS WITT SCUMMER. CAN YOU THINK OF SOMETHING SO YOU TWO CAN CHAT?

          THANK YOU….. BETH M.

  270. It’s kinda sad people use people from the armed forces to scam other people. No respect at all. Not only the guy’s there’s alot of girl’s who want you to go on a ”so called website” where you will be able to see them for a so called cam show.

    For all the ladies, don’t even trust a guy who say’s hes in a combat zone, you have beter thinks to think about out there and when you got the change to go online it will be time to spend with sending mails to Family members and friends. so becarful out there

    • I was recently talking to Jeff Kump (kump.jeff@yahoo.com) I was stupid and sent him a package to Ghana – to his diplomat!! His post office in Afghanistan was conveniently under construction – and of course his birthday was in February and he was retiring “very soon” His pictures are all over this site – thankfully I looked up about the Post office under construction – and found this web site!! I sent him a phone and some personal items he asked for (underwear, cookies, etc…) They are very smooth and very attentive – and somehow make us feel that they need us – But I am so glad to have found out the truth. I also was approached by a John Edwards the same night on Match.com – and believe that he too is a scammer!! I have given up on line dating forever!!! Be careful ladies!!

  271. This is Courtesy of a REAL US Military Member…….Thanks Jerry.

    Ladies, ladies, ladies………..

    It does not cost us ANYTHING to go on leave and with the Army cutting back to 9 months on a deployment, we don’t get leaves anymore during our time over here. If he is on a perm base over here his leave is FREE!! We fly military air wherever we go for FREE! There is no paper work that a civilian can fill out ot get us a leave. When we have emergencies we go on emergency leave which is FREE. We have DSN phone lines so all our calls to the states are FREE!! We also have MWR’s which also see to it we can keep in contact with our people back home for FREE. If you see the point I’m trying to make, there is NO reason whatsover that a service person should need you to send them money. I know some of you think you have found the love of your life but it breaks our hearts over here knowing they are using our pics to do it. I’m sorry if you have fallen for one of these AS$&*oles.
    I know this for a fact as my wife found a picture of me in Iraq on one of these sites and the guy wasn’t even using my name.

    • HI ANONN,

      THIS IS ANNE J. I READ MARIA REYNOLDS’ RESPONCE TO MY BLOG ABOUT SGT G. WITT. SHE SAID THAT HER COMPUTER WOULD NOT ALLOW HER TO GO OUTSIDE HER REALM. I NEVER HEARD SUCH A THING. I AM WONDERING IF THIS IS G. WITT OR CHRIS WALSH WITT POSING AS MARIA REYNOLDS AND SPYING ON ME. I LOST MY TRUST WITH PEOPLE I HAVE NOT MET AND IF THEY ARE SOUND FISHY. AND SHE DOES SOUND FISHY TO ME PLEASE READ HER BLOB ON 01 23 12, AND PLEASE TELL ME IF SHE SOUNDS SUSPICIOUS TO YOU. THANK YOU. HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU ASAP THANK YOU ANONN

      ANNE J.

      • @ Anne J anythig is possible as scammers do troll this site often Ive had to call a few of them out like the clown soliciting to help with a 3 dollar donation scammer I will now reread what shes typed and google it will let you know asap…..I found one profile for Maria R on Myspaceno pics this is the info.
        Network: MySpaceMySpace
        Name: Maria
        Location: US

        Relationship: Single
        Gender: Female
        Age: 42

      • Anne J yes she could be suspect or it could be the clown posing as this fallen Soldier Mr Witt whom I understand has passed away stay tuned let me check her out on spokeo.com as well as the Husband I will get back to you ASAP.Anonn

      • @ Anne J i to think that the beggar that has tried to scam you is using this womans pics because I did find her on Spokeo.com and she is married and does reside in Maine I dont want to give out to much info but just pay attention they are NOT very smart at all they screww up sooner or later because they are greedy.Anonn

  272. My date of birth June 10 1964
    I live in: Baltimore MD
    i have pets: dog and house
    I am most complimented on: as a good listener or something like that
    Favorite dessert: Bread and butter pudding, Pizza
    What i do for fun? swimming, playing basketball, camping, fishing and playing with my family at home..
    My favorite movie or book: Novel, Adventure movies and Romance movies..
    My favorite color is: navy blue
    I love going dress shopping or shoe shopping with my woman
    The kind of music i like most are: country music, R&B and blues
    i can dance, like going to concert, i like traveling, i watch sports on TV and i listen to news and i love going to Cinema..tell me about yours too and if you still have anything to ask me always be free to ask because am a very simple and gentle man…so about you too…and please tell me things you know about military and do you you have any family in army or others?Good Afternoon to all.

    First of all thank you for sharing your victimization. I just wanted to reply because I was also worked by a scammer not to long ago. I believe it was Aaron Ramos,but this is a victim of Identity theft the Real Aaron Ramos has been a victim of ID theft, he claim to be Albert D Ramos a 1st Stg officer, in the IRS Unit. He was righting love letters saying beautiful and I was falling in love,however I was feeling I little odd that I person that just seen my pics was falling so deeply inlove as he said he was. So, dispite the feeling that were growing within me I said to myself this is enough I have to share this with my best friend and this friend helped me discover that it was a scam I googled him and I found his photos, but with the surprise that it was in reality Aaron Ramos a real soldier that his ID was stolen to commit this scams.

    I know that it is very hard to admit that you have been a victim of a scamed because it makes you feel dumb, but your not. People like us that are good hearted can imagine that someone is not so honest. The bad thing is that he trust so easy and we give so much information, out there.

    God bless you and I hope that everything goes find.

    I thought everybody would like to know that what you all doing save me from being totally scamed, or fall commplitely in love with this person. i have pets: dog and house
    I am most complimented on: as a good listener or something like that
    Favorite dessert: Bread and butter pudding, Pizza
    What i do for fun? swimming, playing basketball, camping, fishing and playing with my family at home..
    My favorite movie or book: Novel, Adventure movies and Romance movies..
    My favorite color is: navy blue
    I love going dress shopping or shoe shopping with my woman
    The kind of music i like most are: country music, R&B and blues
    i can dance, like going to concert, i like traveling, i watch sports on TV and i listen to news and i love going to Cinema..tell me about yours too and if you still have anything to ask me always be free to ask because am a very simple and gentle man…so about you too…and please tell me things you know about military and do you you have any family in army or others?

    Roger” FOOLS WE WILL STILL CHOP MORE FROM YOU JIMME

  273. Ok. Here is another one.

    I was contacted on Facebook by someone claiming to be Sgt. Darren J. Mumm. His 1st FB account was Darreny Mumm, it got cancelled and he put up Daren Mumm which also got cancelled. We chatted on FB, and by telephone, and yahoo messenger for several days. He claimed that his parents were killed in a horrific car accident when he was eighteen and was raised by his uncle in Brooklyn, New York. Likes R&B music. Yesterday his Uncle died and he needed some money so he could travel to Ireland for his funeral. He got very pissed when I asked him for his military email address, a copy of his CAC card, and a picture of himself holding a piece of paper with my name on it. I was dumb enough to share private pictures with him. LOL He just texted me telling me he would tag them on Facebook if he was a scammer but he won’t because he LUVS ME. I have the contact details for Darren J. Mumm and have emailed him to let him know that his image is being used iin a fraud.

    Kinda sad because I really did like this guy. Did being the adverb here. Beware ladies. This is really ugly stuff.

  274. I received an e-mail like this “hello
    Hello damsel….Got your Profile and i really love it i saw it so amazing and interesting and wont mind to know you more if you like…..Am totally New online and even on this site and even don’t know much but am happy that you view my profile and maybe also see my picture but if not I have more to share with you because am new on here and its seems my picture is not yet approved so if you care to know about what we do here in the army….

    Am a Major in the Us Army right now on the shore of duty. I have over 3500 men in my brigade which I control so I have so much obligations and task to handle but i believe that wont affect our conversation if only we want to.

    I have been in the Army for about 35years and i love to meet new people because I have been all over the globe.

    You maybe wondering how a U.S Army Officer can be online well i was introduce to this by one of my mates, he is a Major like me in the Us Army we are both recruit the same year back there in Oregon Military Base in the United State, he meet his heart-rob on these same place and now they are both living together happily in the State cos he is retired due to help of his wife.

    As for me only destiny knows maybe same thing can be applicable to me….Cant wait to hear from you and also I would love to tell you more about my life and also about my career as a US Army but i tell you it has been so turbulent to be in the army.

    You can contact me directly to my new e-mail address on capt.jamesd@yahoo.com….if you want to and I will appreciate it to read from you directly from my e-mail address because am not so conversant with this….

    Major. James Hannett. De Wald
    United State Army

    If was a scammer, fortunately for me, I did not believe it when he began asking me to help him with money so that he could travel to my country….

    • @Madeline you were right to follow your gut instincts this is a scammer for sure……Am a Major in the Us Army right now on the shore of duty………Not one American talks like this but guess who does Africans do 35 years in the Army yeah right he means hes 35 years old ……………he meet his heart-rob on these same place and now they are both living together happily in the State cos he is retired due to help of his wife. ……COS? and since when do US Military members need the help of their wives to retire LOL this scammer has lost his little mind.

      My fa vorite part is where he says hes in the US Army but right now on shore of duty IDIOT has no clue what that means LMAO great JOB Beg for money or any help for any reason=SCAMMER plain and simple Anonn

  275. Am a Major in the Us Army right ….yet begging a total stranger for money I smell BS……Anonn

  276. i have been chatting to a MICHA NELSON kabul victory camp afganistan been in service 27 years never asked me for money but he has no web cam said privlages were taken away cuz some one was showing civilians guns on seems realy nice bloke got pics of him met him on mature dating site. since chatting to me he has deactivated his account, he says he nothing goes in the camp and nothing comes out so no letters or anything, and also they have no phones because of were they are. his rank is grand marshal he has given me a list of were he studied and achievments gained.is email is umst101@yahoo.com pls help how can i found out if he is genuine or not

    • he has deactivated his account= Classic Scammer………….he says he nothing goes in the camp and nothing comes out so no letters or anything, BULLSHIT!!!! How can you find out tell him to email you from his military email account it should end with .Mil only anything beyond .Mil =Scam and scammer or just tell him to stop the lies and get on webcam for an hour or more…………he has no web cam said privlages were taken away cuz some one was showing civilians guns an even BIGGER CROCK OF BULL Anonn

  277. The guy who contacted me on match.com is named James Robles. He wanted care packages for the orphans the are taking care of on his base in Afghanistan. I was supposed to send the items to a Jessie Abasa in Ghana because the APO wasn’t working! Didn’t feel right. If it seems too good to be true, it isn’t.

  278. Has anybody heard of a Staff Sgt. Henry Lingo. He never asked for money but I asked him if this was a scam before he could.

  279. Thank you for this site…….. I ve being scamed I´m sure………Last week I signed up on a swedis dating side and got in contact with a man from an other part of sweden, He is REALLY GOOD LOCKING :-)
    But as I read his letter I didn`t understand all of it and I translated his letter into english ,As I asked him if he was english speaking he told me he was an Staff sergant major stationed in Kabul. He said he was signed up by a swedish friend who joind the army. I also got very nice pictures of him and n his clothes he has the same name as he says he has.
    But the letters are being more and more not propery english written, even if I´m swedish I can tell…for instance he`s always refering to I with i, and instead of it is he writes only is.
    Today he told me he didn`t uderstand my words so he used gogle translater, very strange for an american ot to be able to read english.
    I found the exact copy of his first letter to me here on this site, it was scaring to read the same words.
    He uses the name James Draper and his email is jamesdraper52@hotmail.com.
    Were can I show his pictures?? Poor real guy Draper , whos name been ripped like this.
    I couldn`t belive that I found such a handsome american soldier interested in Me, well as it seems like I didn`t either…………….

  280. Another scammer ladies…….3 emails and two chats and I had him figured as a scammer! Colonel Bob Chandler ………………..located in Tripoli, Libyan Arab Jamahiriya, formerly known as Libya. He was deployed there over the weekend and is working with the US Special Forces Units attached to NATO for peacekeeping.email: col_bobchandler@hotmail.com or col_bobchandler@yahoo.com. The emails I received originated from Lagos,Nigeria. Never married,no children and ready to retire in April 2012.

  281. To all women around the world, If you come across a soldier that goes by pwilliams17@yahoo.com or pwilliams1012@hotmail.com.
    That he clames that he’s station in the New York military army base, he goes on telling women that
    he has a son called Jackson who”s in the New York army school and that he gets the son to write the women letters call them my dearest mom to help his father to get the money that he claims that his deid wife left them. Then after a few days talk to pwilliams, he well ask the women to help him get $10000.00 dollers and he well get the branch person from a bank to sent you form thats called Internatioal Commercial Bank / Interantional Transfer Registration form (International Remittance Section) (Non Resident) this is the name of the form, then he well ask to send to them with your information in it so the well put the money in your account, The other part to all this is that he well tell you that the lawyer in africa well be in touch with you, and when you get a email from the lawyer it well ask you to send $700.00 dollers to him to pay on document for the court to release the money to you. Now that they have my info I had to act quick here were I live by call the bank and frezzing all my asset until the investagtion is over with on this person to claim of being to be a New York soldier. They should be a shame to do that to soldier who put thier own lieve on the line day in and day out to keep this planted and people safe from harms way, I just Hope that Untited States Step up to the plate and stop these men from scamming real soldiers and women of there hard working lives and money. As a women I was scam a cross the boarder of the States and they’re give our soldiers a bad name too and we care about our wemon and men soldiers here alone with there families.

  282. Ladies as well as Gents Please PAY ATTENTION

    Real Us Service members will NOT need your Money for any reason they have access to their own accounts at all times yes even in the war zone there will be no freeze on their accounts for ANY reason
    Real Service members will NOT Beg a stranger for money for ANY reason
    Yes they can use a webcam even if they are special ops
    Real Us Service members will understand things like Mos AAfes or Les and SGLI Scammers will NOT
    Real Service Members will NOT be on any site soliciting you for any dates many have families and have no time for Facebook or any other sites NONE Many do NOT and will NOT Post Pics anywhere due to them being stolen by scammers and used to scam Men and Women out of Money
    Many Us Service members are No Longer in Iraq
    All Service members ARE allowed to receive mail and care packages scammers will say different
    All US Military members have a military email account and they may use it when they want scammers will say different because they are frauds
    US Military does NOT and will not use free email accounts of any kind they also do NOT Use Western Union or Moneygram for any reason
    Any Us Service member that asks you for Money for any reason is A FRAUD A SCAMMER plain and simple
    The US Military takes care of its own
    Scammers hate being asked questions they cannot answer

    Always insist after the first email to see their military id as well as their state id card or drivers license and no photoshopped crap and not the same pic the scammer sent you to begin with because the scammer will NOT be able to produce a id card pic as State Id cards cannot be photoshopped if they are its not hard to tell
    for instance if the scammer sends you a pic of the soldier or sialor they are impersonating the pic thats on the state Id should not be the same pic of the soldier or sailor in uniform PAY attention always

    pay attention to their grammer they always have spelling errors they NEVER type nor speak like Americans also insist that you hear their voice they cannot hide their accents

    US Military will not be in a place like Nigeria nor Ghana Watch the news There Is no base in Nigeria not even tents NONE

    Diplomats or anyone in the US supposedly collecting money for the service member SCAM

    Bottom Line REAL US Service Members Or Military members Period will NOT need your Money for any reason

    ALL Real Military Members have a Military email account ending in .Mil anything beyond .Mil is a FRAUD

    US Military does NOT use free email accounts nor do they Use Western Union or Moneygram BUT Scammers do.

    Leave these Scammers and their sorry asses and their life and sob stories with absolutely NOTHING…

    And stay on your toes because after troops withdraw from Afghan these scammers will come up with other lies and sob stories but stay vigilant NEVER send money to anyone you do not know even charities as many of them are scams as well.
    Reply
    Anonn

    Example of an email I received from a scammer impersonating a Marine until I called him on his BS this is just an example of the silly type of crap they will type…

    Thanks you so much for the mail you sent me on tagged,well I am a down to earth person even if the marines thought us to be tough and strong,I have had a really straight life until now that I realise that I don’t have anybody to call my own family,I have never been married and I lost my dad two years ago,I also have a 63 years old mother who is my only source of joy.I just realised I wasted my life and I should have looked for you earlier in life..I will love to know more about you and I hope I will hear from you soon..Love Thomas

  283. Have been chatting with E5 Robles Parker for some time now would like to know if he is for real. Suppose to be in camp Eggrs Afg, says he is a Computer Tec. Would love to hear from some one. thanks so much for your time

    • @ Donetta NO he is NOT real if you will read through some of these posts here you will find that Robles is a Name that has been used VERY often But I will enlighten you if he FOUND you on ANY social site and is claiming to be military ask him to prove it to get on cam for 2 hours or more and show himself also email you from his military email account it should end with .mil if it is anything beyond .mil it is a scammer do not fall for the hes about to retire so his account has been closed tell him to give you his Military address and then google it any excuses scammer side Note the US Military will NOT be in a shit hole like Nigeria NOT even in tents there is NO US Military base in Nigeria and Robles Parker is two Last Names they seem to be so ignorant so like I said tell him to get on cam in uniform and in street clothes make sure the Names hes using Match his Uniform make sure it is not taped over then when all else fails tell him to take a NEW pic of himself holding a sign with the days date and Newspaper showing the date with a Note that says Donetta I am real DO NOT take this scammers word for it and dont forget to google his Name hes using to find him on other sites Anonn

  284. I got contacted by a scammer, long story short, the guy is terrified, he used a picture of someone I KNEW… used the photo of a old friend of mine Sergeant Hess… said hes 34 and has a daughter, needs money to take care of his kid… I told him I know the man, and how is he emailing me from the grave. My Buddy saw Hess’s corpse being hauled in after being hit by a IED Roadside around 6 years ago… Completely pissed me off… I did what I can to alert authorities.

    My Advise… ask them what their MOS is, and ask them for (if they are army) their General Orders, and ask them questions of the Core Values. Or even study alittle of Military equipment and ask them about that. Because most scammers wouldnt even know HOW to reply to it. Ask them as well, when did the BDU’s get phased out for the New uniforms, or how often they have to get new uniforms.

  285. Only a Scammer will find you online and beg you for money or your help for any reason real Military members have no time to do such things but African Scammers do.Anonn

    My source of information? Husband is a REAL US Military member.

  286. I am new to all this, but I believe I am been scamed. Things just don’t add up for this guy. One time he’s telling me that cams alowd then he says next time we chat that it’s not. He looks so different to his pics and his english is a little off. I have tried to look up his name but have gotten no where. He’s telling me that I have to pay $850 as an exit tax just for him to see me. Is it real and can anyone help shed some light on this matter for me. I dont know what web site to go too, to look up if his name is real or not or stolen. Any help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. P.S. he is saying he is a Commander in the U.S. Army. (I only know very little about ranks and insignia)

    • @ Anna YES he is a scammer there is NO such thing as any exit tax he is an African posing as US Military after your money REMEMBER the US Military takes care of its own Real military Members will NOT find you on any social network and then turn around and ask you for ANY type of help cut this lying beggar off NOW block and delete him and beware REAL Military members have no time to sit on social sites and search for dates but Nigerian and other African Scammers do.Anonn

  287. hi ladies , just found out i was scamme, im from canada and the scammer e mail is jeffry.haggard@ymail.com and the other one goes by the name of David ,is email is smile.schwartz@ymail.com, this one said that he as a son name Adam and he divorced 5 years ago , he told me hes going to be in Canada th 20 of this month but i dont beleive him he asked me money to send at a western union in ghana , so i still have the pictures of those 2 guys dont know where to put it but if you knoe these two beware .

    • i have also another contact richm.kelvin@yahoo.com, and he gave me a name AZIZ FAROUK IN GHANA ACCRA

  288. hi everyone , hope somebody can help me . i have been in contact with a cpt michael mooris, claims he is us army & based in nigeria. & is from bromely kent uk . his wife died of lung cancer 4ys ago, has an 8yr old daughter called kate. she is cared for by her grandmother & maid while he is away with army. his origin is native american. but lives in england. & i have foolishly sent money to him, with cost for a yellow card & flight money to come home on leave. if anyone has any info or pics please send then to my email then we can see if its the same guy. belindac001@hotmail.co.uk. i hope to here from someone very soon . lynn

    • @ Lynn cooper I can tell you for sure with NO doubt this is a SCAMMER………i have been in contact with a cpt michael mooris, claims he is us army & based in nigeria……….There IS NO Military base in Nigeria US Military would NOT be in a shit hole like Nigeria I am sorry you lost Money but US Military takes care of its own and will not need your money for any reason ONLY SCAMMERS will find you on a social site such as a datuing site and ask you for money Leave does NOT have to be paid for and neither does their flight home only Africans pretending to be US Military will make assinine requests.Delete and block this lying beggar and check your security settings on your computer.Anonn

      • Hi Anonn many thanks for answering my letter it has really helped me alot thanks again. take care lynn.

        • @ Lynn No Thanks needed now you know what to look for just in case one of these lying beggars tries to scam you again tell the lazy lying bums to go to hell or better yet GET A JOB Anonn

      • Hi Anonn, is there any way i can contact this soldier & let him no whats happening to him ? i would be really gratefull for any info u can give me. i really fell head over for this guy . & dont think i will ever recover from this i true believe everything . then to learn he was scammer. it really broke my heart good & proper this time . just wanted to know if this soldier can be contacted to let him no whats happening to him many thanks lynn cooper. take care :)

        • @Lynn I wouldnt know how to put you in contact with this Soldier but Im sure by now he knows his pics have been stolen take care try romancescam.com and scamwarners.com for support SCAMMERS cannot become mebers of either group if they do within an hour they are DELETED and Blocked hope this helps Anonn

  289. stay away from g.ramos spelling 2 ways of george ramos and gorge ramos. he is using email of g.ramos481@yahoo.com. i have lost thousands only with lots of internet work to find out he is a scammer. i also seen where he has used different emails. his pic is posted on this site. if u have any questions, email me at jeannerosier@yahoo.com. STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!! HES A CHARMER AND I FELL FOR IT!

  290. i am friends with the real aaron ramos, i too was targeted by the fake using aaron’s photos, i knew something wasnt right because he told me that he was a widow with a daughter living with grandma in nigeria while going to universtiy. he asked me to set the phone up plus sign paperwork to get him here for xmas and my birthday. when i told him i knew that he wasnt the real aaron he threatened to kill me, i just laughed it off and told him to get a life, never heard from him again, that was 3 years ago.

  291. I have asked for a military email to be sent to me I have received this can anyone check it out for me please
    miller.m49@armybase.com would appreciate it thanks. He has sent through credentials and not linked to any stories about Ghana or Nigeria also no one dead in the family and not asking for money.

    • @Sheila This is NOT a Military email address it should end in .Mil anything beyond .Mil and it is a scam and a scammer using it it does NOT matter that he hasnt asked for anything yet until you see him on webcam and chat with him for an hour or more not some prerecorded crap he could be anyone which I already know he is a scammer……..Overuse of his title in unofficial emails is a dead give away……..E6 Staff Sergent Demand he get on cam and shows himself and ask him to hold up the newest newspaper proving the date that you guys chat ask him to stand and ask him to chat in and out of uniform DO NOT share personal information with him also US Military will not need you help for ANY reason only scammers will find you on a social site and begin telling you their life story in a few days they Love you and then something comes up they need your help

      Understand that US Military members have no time to sit online and search for dates online they are to busy and many have families already back home waiting for him

      Ask him to scan and download his military id and state ID card to you ASAP like right now he wont
      And if he is really interested in you tell him to email you from his official military email address it should end in .mil nothing beyond .mil also tell him to send you a copy of his most recent LES and ask him for his APO and then google it they all seem to be in Kabul or camp Victory SCAMMERS SUCK Anonn

  292. Hi I recently was contacted by a person claiming to be E6 Staff Sergent email address renteriadave@ymail.com, He also sent me two pictures of him. We have been chatting for just over a week now. He also states he is 48 and says he has been in the army for 28 years. He says he was born in West Germany. I would send copies of the pictures he sent but i don’t see anything about sending attachments. He has not ask me for any money yet but I did send him a few pictures of me. How would I send the pictures he sent me for someone can check for me.

    • Forgot to mention U.S Army, from Bedford, Texas. This goes with the two emails above

      Darlene

    • @ Darlene its simple tell him to get on cam and prove to you who he is tell him to email you from his Military email address it should end in .Mil anything beyond .Mil is a fraud and used by a Scammer which he is Any man who finds you on any social site claiming to be US Military IS a Scammer

      Overuse of his title in unofficial emails is a dead give away……..E6 Staff Sergent Demand he get on cam and shows himself and ask him to hold up the newest newspaper proving the date that you guys chat ask him to stand and ask him to chat in and out of uniform DO NOT share personal information with him also US Military will not need you help for ANY reason only scammers will find you on a social site and begin telling you their life story in a few days they Love you and then something comes up they need your help

      Understand that US Military members have no time to sit online and search for dates online they are to busy and many have families already back home waiting for him

      Ask him to scan and download his military id and state ID card to you ASAP like right now he wont
      And if he is really interested in you tell him to email you from his official military email address it should end in .mil nothing beyond .mil also tell him to send you a copy of his most recent LES and ask him for his APO and then google it they all seem to be in Kabul or camp Victory SCAMMERS SUCK Anonn

  293. Also I had just emailed, forgot to mention that he said he was in Afghanistan right now. He says he has 2 months left to go and does not have a exact date.

    Darlene

    • Thank you very much. Is there any way that I can send a copy of the photo’s he sent me so they can be posted with the rest of the pictures up above? So far he hasn’t been on line or emailed lately.

      Darlene

  294. Well he did email me back, threatening me, I reported him to match.com. They say that they already had 3 complaints on him and they are investigating him. Hope they track this guy down. Haven’t received any more emails from him since. Is there any way to post the pictures that he sent me, this way other people can beware.

    Darlene

    • @ Darlene do NOT worry about this scammer he has NO POWER he is in Africa somewhere pissed because you called him on his bullshit and that means no MONEY for him go to romancescam.com for support and there you can post as many pics and emails as you like and they will do the rest.Anonn

      Also try scamwarners.com scammers CANNOT even join that group it they do it is not long before they are booted they can only troll NOT JOIN Thank God

  295. the guy Ryan England wool also goes by Bismak Asamoah scamed me to so watch him

  296. Ryan England wool says he is in Baghdad goes by Bismark Asamoah has a son Enoch first he son was in south Africa now he say he is in Miami Flo with a nanny called him on his uniform and told me not to worry about the name on it

    • @ Connie hes a LIAR US Military are NO Longer in Iraq hes somewhere in Africa Lying.Anonn

      • I’m so confused with what am seeing here, because, I have met with the US Army who left Kabul on his vacation and we are both lovers……I mean life partner..So can someone tell me this is not real or what?

        We met online and have been dating for over A year now and he has never asked me for any money but has friends who are diplomat around the world..

        PLEASE Anonn…. YOU should try and contact me because not all faces are SCAMMERS…

        Our wedding is just in two weeks time from now.. Are you advising me not to MARRY him or what.. PLEASE email me because I don’t believe all this…. jane_eve2002@yahoo.com

        • Jane, you’re about to marry a ghost. He doesn’t exist.

        • @ Jane since you have called me out by Name where would you like for me to start because I dont sugar coat it i give it to you straight ok now with that being said

          You are dreaming if you think this scammer is real ANYTIME the word DIPLOMAT comes up it is a scam and an African Scammer is behind it

          Have you seen him on cam for an hour or more and if so how often

          Has he sent you a copy of his most recent LES since you are about to be his Wife (which is a crock of bullshit)

          Has he sent you an email from his Military email address it should end in .mil anything beyond .mil is a fraud

          And he may not have asked you for anything yet that you know of have you given him any personal information such as your address maybe where you work bank account information if so you are in trouble if you sent him pics guess what hes using ur pics to try to scam Men and using your address as his own hes not keeping you around because he LOVES you he wants something from you

          Did he find you on some social site and tell you hes Military hmmmm=SCAMMER!

          believe it or NOT you have fallen in love with an ugly African DEMAND he get on cam and proves to you who he is immediately and then block and delete this lying beggar asap

          If you have NEVER seen his Face after a year HE IS A SCAMMER so please do not come to me trying to prove that this scammer os REAL ok I have no time for bullshit like this THANKS!

          You typed this…….YOU should try and contact me because not all faces are SCAMMERS… OK Then Prove me wrong let me know when he shows up for the wedding I’ll wait oh no I wont because it will NEVER Happen you have fallen in love with a Picture Good Luck!

          Might wanna check your credit and also check you Bank Account oh you think hes not getting anything from you but you are dead WRONG YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED WALK AWAY!!!!! Anonn

        • @ Jane no need to respond I just picked your whole story apart you are a scammer/troll seeking attention and evidently a male posing as a Woman wont tell you what gave it away but just know that I reverse email searched and googled you and I dont like what I see it has scammer/troll written all over it NICE TRY though.Anonn

  297. I met this guy by the name of Jason J. Miller on tagged. We exchanged e-mail and started chatting and about a month after we started chatting he started telling me that he is in love with me and wanted to marry me. A week after that he gave me a number to call his mom aparently she is in England. I did call her and we spoke a couple times after that.
    He said he is 30 years of age and he was born in the US and moved to England when he was 10 years of age. He then moved back to the US where he graduated from high school and joined the Army right after. He said he then went on a mission near Malaysia. He was based on the ship but we chatted once in a while.
    When he finally called me I got to hearing his voice and it didnt sound american or english. He had have an accent but I could have hardly hear him. He did send me some pictures of himself in his uniform with other soildires. He is now asking me for money to pay tax for some money he is claiming for from his dads death in Malaysia for work done. I havent sent him any money.
    I just want to know if he is real or if he stole someones pictures and information. Who can I contact?

  298. OK here is the latest and really sad. I think i have been getting strung along by a Sgtmichael Butterfield on facebook. http://facebook.com/sgtmichaelbutterfield or emails to: terryjones_19@hotmail.com or sgtmichael_b@yahoo.com.

    What is particularly sad is he seems to be going after woman who are friends of Regan Hoffman, editor of Poz magazine, for people living with HIV. So many of the ladies may also be living with HIV and particularly vulnerable to this kind of attention.

    So how do I know for sure??He now claims to be “on a mission” in Cypress. Broken english when messaging etc.

  299. I’ve recently been contacted by “Witt” he is now using the name Mike Witts – Continuing to claim he is in Afghanistan – The email he is now using is wittsmike@yahoo.com Shame they are ALL scammers and pray on women who are just looking for a little company, and yes, a US service man would be nice.

    All the very best ladies

    • Oh and he is on No Strings Attached under the name of “greatwitt” ironic don’t you think :)

  300. call me dumb was talking to this guy named Walter Ramos come to find out after i been on this site he he is not who he says he is that he has taken Aaron Ramos pictures i met him December 2011 from military cupided thought after that Bismark Asamoah mistake i made i got smart but i left my guard down and did it again he did not ask me for money he sent me gifts and i really thought he was for real i really fell for him he said he was in Kabul Afganistan if anyone knows how i can get a hold of the real Aaron Ramos i would love to talk to him and tell him how sorry i am and let him know i am behind him

  301. or could someone give Aaron Ramos my email address lynnlozano11@yahoo.com
    oh yeah the walter ramos email is ramoswalter19@yahoo.com and he is using all of Aaron Ramos ‘s photos

  302. I’m so confused with what am seeing here, because, I have met with the US Army who left Kabul on his vacation and we are both lovers……I mean life partner..So can someone tell me this is not real or what?

    We met online and have been dating for over A year now and he has never asked me for any money but has friends who are diplomat around the world..

    PLEASE Anonn…. YOU should try and contact me because not all faces are SCAMMERS…

    Our wedding is just in two weeks time from now.. Are you advising me not to MARRY him or what.. PLEASE email me because I don’t believe all this…. jane_eve2002@yahoo.com

    • @ Jane I reverse email searched you who is Nelson C? please your Tagged page clearly States you are a Male so why would you be here asking questions about a Male Military Member are you a Male that is about to Marry another male or are you a Troll seeking attention? I do know these tricks dear since I am also a B8aiter also now with that being said Have a nice day or Evening Nelson C Or Janeeve@ Gravatar.Thanks Anonn

    • Our wedding is just in two weeks time from now……..I won’t call you what you are but this line right here sounds SUSPECT and I know Americans do NOT speak nor type like this but I know who does LMAO troll.Anonn

  303. @ Jane I am NOT advising you to do ANYTHING if you thought for one minute he was REAL you would NOT be here unless you are a Troll trying to get my attention like I have said Ive got no time to sit and debate with you if he is REAL or not like I said

    Diplomat- Scammer

    US Military takes care of its own my husbands in The Military funny he’s NEVER mentioned ANYTHING to me about a DIPLOMAT and we have been Married for years but you do what is best for you and when you lose please go to Romancescam.com and Scamwarners.com but just like me they have a very low tolerance for people who try to prove their scammer is real.Anonn

  304. New Scam to be aware of……….I am 2LT. Anderson Darrell Clinton , an officer of the U.S Army. I just moved to Afghanistan from Iraq as one of the last batch that just left and have some items I will need to ship to you.Can you be trusted? we thank you guys for your prayers . I will only highlight you more on this transaction as soon as i hear from you.please signify your interest by replying to my private email.with your name and mobile number to (andersondclinton55@gmail.com)
    you can view this link to understand more,
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-16192105

    The Above is an email from a SCAMMER Anonn

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